Went with my husband to a strip club last night

[Welshcookie 17]

VisaJourney women are the best.

[JayJay 4]

Hahhahah nope - I am totally in awe of what they can do with their bodies however and would like to learn how to do that.

Having said that, my husband has bedded too many strippers during his time as a marine for me to feel even 1% comfortable about visiting a strip club. Nothing to do with trust, just a psychological issue - plus when he's in a really silly mood he occasionally still makes comments about what he'd do when he was younger...that is one of the only pet peeves I have about him!

Also, he'd so totally never go with me to a male strip club - and it would absolutely have to be both ways for me to even think of doing that - which I wouldn't anyway due to the above lol I can't imagine Ben would feel comfortable with a big muscle bound man gyrating on his lap *smiles sweetly*.

I also have major problems with guys generally because of my past, so trusting just one enough to marry him was a big anough hurdle for me...I don't mind being a little more conservative in public nowadays because of that - doesn't mean I'm in anyway conservative in private, however *giggles*

[gwenneh 7]

Yep, I've been, both onstage and off. I've been to some nice clubs and I've been to some...eh...not-so-nice ones. This was all before I met my husband; my fiance at the time and I were pretty liberal.

For those of you wanting a glimpse into the stripping world from the stage outward, I recommend "Bare" by Elizabeth Eaves. For those of you who just want to *look* like you've stepped off the stage, I recommend The Stripper's Guide to Looking Great Naked. Packed with tips from strippers, it takes a great approach to how to get those moves down at home!

Enjoy!

[MrMrsKnight 1]

I can appreciate a womans body just like a man can (doesnt mean im a lesbian, lol).

To be honest, I guess I even prefer a female stripper over a male stripper.

Me too, without a doubt!

And I've never been to a strip club (with or without him) but it was just because we didn't have the chance. When I get there I'll make sure we try that!

But yeah I've taken classes before, I just love dancing and everything that involves dancing...so you can say he has been to a "private strip club"

Edited March 26, 2006 by MrMrsKnight

[babybunny 2]

Dayum thats NASTY!

[aussiewench 9]

Dayum thats NASTY!

Dayum shon ya dont have to look if ya dont wanna

[Laveau 67]

I've been several times and even been with a former SO a few times. That was years ago. Although I wasn't scandalized nor did I have a horrible time, I have no desire to ever go again, especially with my guy.

[rebeccajo 14]

Dayum thats NASTY!

I was scrolling down thru this thread waiting for you to come in here and say something judgmental. And here you are. Somehow I just knew I wouldn't be disappointed.

Edited March 26, 2006 by rebeccajo

[Peggy 1]

[Jaylen Brit 1]

Im with Jay-Jay on this one

[ceriserose 1]

Dayum thats NASTY!

I was scrolling down thru this thread waiting for you to come in here and say something judgmental. And here you are. Somehow I just knew I wouldn't be disappointed.

Well, seeing as the subject line was so vague and misleading about the content..... *cough*

[ktun 1]

Well the place we live has 3 Casinos and 4 strip clubs within a 5 mile radius of our house. So yeah we've been to them. All of them actually, but only ever return to one (girls are grouchy and skinny, as in you can see the bones, at the other places). I really enjoy it and my husband just thinks it's funny. Strippers dont do anything for him at all, though he finds it amusing watching the other guys getting all hot and bothered during a lap dance, the pained expression on their faces and the shuffle to the bathroom afterwards

One time there was one dancer that I particularly liked and she dragged me onto the stage and well......you get the picture.

It is not something that is a big part of our lives by any means, we probably go on average once every 4-6 months maximum now, although when we were testing them out we went every weekend. Just a bit of fun and a good night out. Works out as a cheap night entertainment too, if you arrive before 10pm entry is free and the drinks really aren't that expensive.

[Cristy 4]

No but I plan on it. I have seen male strippers and was not impressed, I know I would like female ones better.

[Kajikit 65]

I honestly can't see the point... and nor can my husband. He says the only woman he wants to see is me

[radacos 0]

Yep, we went to strip clubs a couple of times, and had a great time. I think that strippers like to see couples come to the club -- they probably find it endearing!