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So as lovers or a couple(Just as most couples do), we used Pet names for each other most at times including other names that will spice up your love life. So mostly we use names like, Teddy, Baby, Sunshine, Etc. These names appear on our call logs, whatsapp messages, facebook etc and so when i'm printing them, these are the names that shows up. A friend of mine was denied simply because according to him, the CO told him (After answering all questions correctly) that the name on his call logs and chats are not the official names on their Passports, Birth Certificate etc and so he's not sure hes the same guy therefore he has to deny him.

 

Anyone experience this before? And how do i change the names of previous messages like whatsapp cos i saved them in my mail which has pet names not our real names since 2016. I changed my wife's name on my phone to her official name though but that was just recently.

 

How do i handle this to avoid any heartbreaks.

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4 minutes ago, Paa Qwesi said:

So as lovers or a couple(Just as most couples do), we used Pet names for each other most at times including other names that will spice up your love life. So mostly we use names like, Teddy, Baby, Sunshine, Etc. These names appear on our call logs, whatsapp messages, facebook etc and so when i'm printing them, these are the names that shows up. A friend of mine was denied simply because according to him, the CO told him (After answering all questions correctly) that the name on his call logs and chats are not the official names on their Passports, Birth Certificate etc and so he's not sure hes the same guy therefore he has to deny him.

 

Anyone experience this before? And how do i change the names of previous messages like whatsapp cos i saved them in my mail which has pet names not our real names since 2016. I changed my wife's name on my phone to her official name though but that was just recently.

 

How do i handle this to avoid any heartbreaks.

 

Generally that type of thing is probably a "smoke screen" for something else. My husband's name isn't Zian legally, it's just a long time nickname and how I have him saved in my phone since we started chatting. So all our Imessage texts we used has it as "Zian" and mine on his was his pet name for me. Never came up at all. Only thing they asked was who was calling who "Pogi" in the texts, means handsome, and I was calling him it. 

 

Now Ghana is one of the toughest embassies to go through so... but again seems maybe more of a smoke screen for another, underlying issue they saw. 


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2 minutes ago, Ben&Zian said:

 

Generally that type of thing is probably a "smoke screen" for something else. My husband's name isn't Zian legally, it's just a long time nickname and how I have him saved in my phone since we started chatting. So all our Imessage texts we used has it as "Zian" and mine on his was his pet name for me. Never came up at all. Only thing they asked was who was calling who "Pogi" in the texts, means handsome, and I was calling him it. 

 

Now Ghana is one of the toughest embassies to go through so... but again seems maybe more of a smoke screen for another, underlying issue they saw. 

No interview then good for you. I'm sure it's a tough one in Ghana as everyone is saying but i don't fret cos i believe God will see us through. "Smoke screen' indeed. I was overwhelmed and it baffles me how a CO will use this to smoke him out actually when he has everything to prove a bonfide marriage.

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Once you change the name on your phone then the messages will automatically update to the new name because it's attached to the number not the name I did this also before I submitted my evidence I went in my phone and change my husband nickname to his real name and all my WhatsApp messages updated as well as my call log so that's all you need to do if you are concerned

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46 minutes ago, Joetan said:

Once you change the name on your phone then the messages will automatically update to the new name because it's attached to the number not the name I did this also before I submitted my evidence I went in my phone and change my husband nickname to his real name and all my WhatsApp messages updated as well as my call log so that's all you need to do if you are concerned

Thanks, but you see,  I won't get the name change of messages from 2016 cos whatsapp previous messages clears like every two weeks or so for new messages. And so even if I change (which I did) it will only affect recent messages. I sent the old messages to my mail which has our pet names not official names..

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6 hours ago, Paa Qwesi said:

Thanks, but you see,  I won't get the name change of messages from 2016 cos whatsapp previous messages clears like every two weeks or so for new messages. And so even if I change (which I did) it will only affect recent messages. I sent the old messages to my mail which has our pet names not official names..

I have all my WhatsApp messages so im no aware of any messages being deleted after a certain. Of time because on my phone I keep scrolling up and all my messages are there also I have a Google account and I backup all my messages every so often to my Google account so even if I was to lose my phone all I would have to do is reinstall WhatsApp in sign into Google and all my messages will be restored so I'm not really sure how yours is set up I will just put a letter of explanation with that evidence and say that you guys go by pet names

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14 minutes ago, Joetan said:

I have all my WhatsApp messages so im no aware of any messages being deleted after a certain. Of time because on my phone I keep scrolling up and all my messages are there also I have a Google account and I backup all my messages every so often to my Google account so even if I was to lose my phone all I would have to do is reinstall WhatsApp in sign into Google and all my messages will be restored so I'm not really sure how yours is set up I will just put a letter of explanation with that evidence and say that you guys go by pet names

Thanks 

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29 minutes ago, Moses Bee said:

I will advice to state those pet names and make it an headline by explaining what it represented in your chat , so if the CO read it will understand all what it represented to who and by who !

Just like a letter head .

Thanks

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