Worried about my interview.

[Sherja 17]

I got cc and now waiting interview date but I been reading a lot here on vj and I see quiet few denials. This is our case

1.we met online got married in 2010 on his first visit and then had our baby in 2014 .he visit every year and he already got crb and USA passport for our child few months ago ...any advice will be appreciated. Thanks

[TBoneTX 43,422]

*** Thread moved from CR-1 Process forum to the Caribbean forum, for Kingston-specific advice. ***

[sheri85 0]

Hey recently got a cc also and of course just like you with the interview looming I'm a little worried. But I have been using my time to just go over what is needed for the interview and when I see denials I just whisper a prayer keep my faith up trusting that God will see me through. Just focus on the positives so many approvals despite the denials, speak that into your situation and you will be good.

[Sherja 17]

OK thank you.

[klang78 8]

Give it God and he will see you through

[Sherja 17]

I will klang thanks

[Jawaree 717]

Why worry, if reationship is genuine & with a baby

there is no reason to worry

[saddlepatch 6]

Just bring a lot of evidence to prove the relationship is bonefide....so wedding photos, honeymoon photos, photos with your child, photos with parents, photos with friends, photos from past trips, ticket stubs, flight confirmations, hotel confirmations, cards, gift reciepts, everything and anything you can think of.

Chances are they won't even ask to see any of this, but just in case, have it ready

[Adil & Jeanne 296]

beneicary is woman with child in Jamica?

go into interview with confidence

answer questions without hestiation

do not elaborate on the answer just what they ask

they may not let the baby into the interview so be prepared to have a babysitter

photos should be of US spouse with your family and freinds, and you too together

they do look at a few photos

you can be asked stupid questions like what spouse ate for breakfast as they have not changed the list of questions from the days the spouse came first to the US and then was questioned

Good luck

[lutz 41]

Our relationship is real, but my husband was denied, so the advice about it being real and having nothing to worry about, well that wasn't the case with us. What was the case was a situation we didn't think would be a big deal, turned out to be what the CO focused on.

The fault was mine, I see now, because I was thinking like me, not like the suspicious CO. Even if your relationship is real, make sure you keep reading all these posts and try to foresee what may be a red flag to the CO. What may seem innocent to you, may not be to them.

I wish you the best luck!

[Loveone2 0]

Our relationship is real, but my husband was denied, so the advice about it being real and having nothing to worry about, well that wasn't the case with us. What was the case was a situation we didn't think would be a big deal, turned out to be what the CO focused on.

The fault was mine, I see now, because I was thinking like me, not like the suspicious CO. Even if your relationship is real, make sure you keep reading all these posts and try to foresee what may be a red flag to the CO. What may seem innocent to you, may not be to them.

I wish you the best luck!

Sorry to hear they denied you! that's terrible. Im on my second k-1 and I'm afraid they will deny mines as well. Why they denied you guys? was it an specific question?

[lutz 41]

I should have stated it is a CR1 visa, not fiance visa. My husband had plenty of photos, which she looked at, chats, phone calls, etc....The denial letter and checklist did not state anything specifically about what the CO found to make my husband ineligible.

But she focused on questions about my husband's daughter, and the girl's mother, which is how we figured out what the problem may be. He has a daughter that we didn't petition for at this time. We would wait until he came here, got himself settled and working, then petition for her. But the CO probably thinks otherwise.

This is the sort of thing we didn't even think about. So that's what I'm saying. Look at your relationship as if it is by someone who is immediately suspicious, not a kind hearted person. That's the harsh reality.

[lala64 93]

Bring plenty of proof. be prepared to answer intimate questions about your spouse. Is your spouse joining you at the interview? that would be a wise move. The CO told me personally that it helped that I was there for the 2nd interview. Your relationship is bone fide. you have no worries. relax and be prepared to enjoy your victory. You have a long history plus a child together. If you have any red flags, age difference, legal issues, other marriages, just be prepared to answer questions truthfully. You will be fine. I just went through an intense interview and really they just want to see if your relationship is real. Know that you know your spouse as well as anyone would in a period of 4-5 years and that you know and have met or talked to each others families. Your fine:)

[Sherja 17]

Thanks everyone you all have been a big help .I will continue to read the stuff here and be prepared.

Yes he will be here for the interview

[Sherja 17]

Our son is a year and a half and we will be celebrating our 5th wedding anniversary in two months