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[annoj 13]

Hello VJ members,something has been bothering me since my husband filed my petition last month,i had problems in almost my final year at the university due to harassment in school and couldn't complete my university degree,so my husband and I decided il study when I get to d states..although iv been keeping myself busy by going to a friend of my mom's hospital and learning some practical aspect in nursing because that's what I intend to study in the states,while filing my g-325a form,the question that says what is your occupation for the last 5yrs? My husband told me to leave it blank. But they might want to ask me what I do during the interview at the embassy when they notice I left my occupation question blank,so my question is:

If I'm asked by the interviewer what I do...should I just go ahead and explain the reason I left the university and couldn't finish and tell her what I'm doing presently? Or

2 should I just withhold all the information and just let them assume am a graduate and tell them I just started a business of my own recently? Pls your comments will be really appreciated as I want to prepare my husband and I for the journey ahead..thanks so much family

[dwheels76 5,459]

Hello VJ members,something has been bothering me since my husband filed my petition last month,i had problems in almost my final year at the university due to harassment in school and couldn't complete my university degree,so my husband and I decided il study when I get to d states..although iv been keeping myself busy by going to a friend of my mom's hospital and learning some practical aspect in nursing because that's what I intend to study in the states,while filing my g-325a form,the question that says what is your occupation for the last 5yrs? My husband told me to leave it blank. But they might want to ask me what I do during the interview at the embassy when they notice I left my occupation question blank,so my question is: If I'm asked by the interviewer what I do...should I just go ahead and explain the reason I left the university and couldn't finish and tell her what I'm doing presently? Or 2 should I just withhold all the information and just let them assume am a graduate and tell them I just started a business of my own recently? Pls your comments will be really appreciated as I want to prepare my husband and I for the journey ahead..thanks so much family

I doubt if they ask you what you do. They could care less what the beneficiary is doing. You are a student taking a break nothing more than that it seems. No need to go into long explanation why you left school and all that. It's none their concern.

If asked, "I am currently taking a break from my school studies". Period. Never give more information then asked. It just leads to more questions that can get you caught up in too much explanation.

The biggest concern for the government is can your husband take care of you (affidavit of support) and are you in a bonafide relationship. Nothing more.

[Anh map 2,098]

You were a student. Then maybe you were unemployed. Just put down the truth. No need to tell " the story."

Coming from the highest fraud spot for US visas you should not lie or omit the truth. You are fighting the reputation of the fraudsters and scammers. Just put down the facts. That way you can answer any questions with confidence.

Your employment history (unless you a person does something illegal) isn't really a big deal.

[annoj 13]

Thank u "dwheels but if I answer I'm taking a break from my studies, won't that even lead to more questions...maybe if I'm asked il just rather say I'm a student and that's all to avoid further questioning right? and also our whatsapp history when compiling it,is editing allowed?maybe we want to remove a particular message,is there any way they will detect a message has been deleted?maybe d message is private..lol

[Unshakable Faith 493]

Thank u "dwheels but if I answer I'm taking a break from my studies, won't that even lead to more questions...maybe if I'm asked il just rather say I'm a student and that's all to avoid further questioning right? and also our whatsapp history when compiling it,is editing allowed?maybe we want to remove a particular message,is there any way they will detect a message has been deleted?maybe d message is private..lol

You don't have to send all your chats,as they more than likely won't look through all of them. Just send a page or so for each month you've been in contact to show that there is an on-going relationship- that way you can choose what they read and what they don't.

Definitely don't lie and say you've started your own business if you haven't. Just be honest with any questions they ask.

[annoj 13]

Thank u anh map and dwheels..with ur comments I am no longer clueless about what to do..VJ rocks