in desperate need of advice. Thanks

[lola12 1]

Hello everyone,

I received my 10 year green card two weeks ago, I am married to a us citizen and my husband just told me he wants a divorce. What is the next step? I am deeply devoted to my marriage but he told me he doesnt want to be married any longer and so obviously there is nothing I can do about it, I mentioned marriage therapy and he is not willing to do it, he told me he is done and wanted a divorce for a while. I feel like I am floating in despair and extremely depressed, I should be so happy because I just got my green card and here I am crying non stop wanting my husband to reconsider and he just wont do it. Any advice is much appreciated, Thanks a lot.

[Boiler 45,664]

Appoint a Divorce Lawyer?

Edited May 19, 2014 by Boiler

[NigeriaorBust 4,087]

You can not trap another in a place they don't want. If it wasn't meant to be then there is another plan for you that you just don't see today

[lola12 1]

Will this affect my status in the future? Thanks for your post.

[Boiler 45,664]

If you want to naturalise you will need to wait 2 years longer.

[Sandra G. 5,051]

if you can prove bonafide marriage then you won't have a problem, but let him file for divorce, not you.

[JohnR! 5,495]

Hello everyone,

I received my 10 year green card two weeks ago, I am married to a us citizen and my husband just told me he wants a divorce. What is the next step? I am deeply devoted to my marriage but he told me he doesnt want to be married any longer and so obviously there is nothing I can do about it, I mentioned marriage therapy and he is not willing to do it, he told me he is done and wanted a divorce for a while. I feel like I am floating in despair and extremely depressed, I should be so happy because I just got my green card and here I am crying non stop wanting my husband to reconsider and he just wont do it. Any advice is much appreciated, Thanks a lot.

You already have your permanent GC; the divorce will not affect your LPR status. In regards to the divorce in itself, your very best will never be more than the 50% required to make any relationship work. Let him file for divorce if his decision is final and move on with your life. It will hurt a lot, but you will come out in one piece on the other side.

Good luck.