hi my case rejected

[John and Sonya 0]

I am not one to get on a soap box, but this really got me pissed off. This all started with her calling the process worthless, its not, IT WORKED!! It kept an undesirable out for three years. It is also obvious that he is an illegal alien as well as his parents. If I am wrong, then I appologize. So, illegal alien, probably him and his parents never paid taxes, used our over-exhausted system, uses drugs and everyone here thinks we should accept it, because its just a mistake and I should be tolerant. Dont think so. This country has a long list of people who want to enter here and be law abiding, taxing paying citizens. But we have many, like above who waste the quota space. The process worked, and she called it worthless????? I challenge her to post a forum and see how many LEGAL AMERICANS would support this or support a person who has no regard for the laws and proper immigration laws to allow them another chance and calls our system worthless.

OK - agreed. She called the system worthless when in fact it did exactly what it was supposed to do. No one said his situation should be accepted or even tolerated. But this was not a discussion about illegal aliens in the US. It was a request for assistance regarding the next steps to make things right.

Ok - agreed Like I said, I dont usually get on a soap box, but our system is not perfect, and when it does right, we should appreciate it, especially Americans. Not call it worthless. And it also appears he is out of the country now because he and his family were here illegally. Again system worked. We know in America, there is a huge tax burden on us Americans because of illegal aliens as well as issues with drug issues. This person is both. So system worked, punishment is just, except my personal oppinion, dont let them ever enter. MY AMERICAN RIGHT TO EXPRESS THIS.

She is in Mexico. Make a life there since neither show any respect for our laws and if broken by stating our laws are worthless, and me, the American should be tolerant? Dont think so. I also support the IMBRA law. It protects woman from other countries entering into an abusive relationship. Maybe if the guy only beat upon one or two woman in his early 20's, we can say he was just childish and should forgive and tolerate and call the system we have as worthless and give him another chance?

[roxy 0]

thank you so much for your reply, how do i find Heina, well i'll figure it out im new at this so im still learning whats where. I know I will need to file the waiver but im wondering what the chances of it being denied are. The immigration officer had told him he should be fine as long as he comes back clean but who knows how truthful those immigration officers are. Im reluctant to get a lawyer because the lawyers around here are hungry coyottes. I dont trust any of them out here because there aren't any with good reputations.

Use the advanced search feature to locate Heina by name and send her a private message.

I would at least go to Attorney Laurel Scott's free chat on www.visacentral.net - Wednesdays at 11 am central time. She is very well respected and you need legal advice in your situation.

If you hardship letter is strong with documentation, your waiver will be approved. But that would be after the 3 year ban.

Good luck.

THANK YOU SO MUCH

[roxy 0]

he was here illegally in US since 7 yrs old

Do you really believe that at age 7 HE was the one who made the choice to come to the US illegally? In fact, illegal presence in the US before the age of 18 holds NO ban. USCIS does not hold children responsible for the actions of their parents

USCIS catches him, sends sends him back to Mexico. since he got deported

NOWHERE did the OP say that he was caught and sent back or deported. He left on his own. . . you might consider giving him an ounce of credit for that.

So working here illegally as well

Obviously this was the case. But the US government forgives illegal work when married to a USC so it's not exactly the biggest issue in this case.

when his time is up for banning him from coming here, hopefully by then he has grown up and realized there are laws to follow in this country,

That's why she posted in the first place -- she is trying to plan appropriately for the next steps when his ban is up.

I am not one to get on a soap box, but this really got me pissed off. This all started with her calling the process worthless, its not, IT WORKED!! It kept an undesirable out for three years. It is also obvious that he is an illegal alien as well as his parents. If I am wrong, then I appologize. So, illegal alien, probably him and his parents never paid taxes, used our over-exhausted system, uses drugs and everyone here thinks we should accept it, because its just a mistake and I should be tolerant. Dont think so. This country has a long list of people who want to enter here and be law abiding, taxing paying citizens. But we have many, like above who waste the quota space. The process worked, and she called it worthless????? I challenge her to post a forum and see how many LEGAL AMERICANS would support this or support a person who has no regard for the laws and proper immigration laws to allow them another chance and calls our system worthless.

THE WORTHLESS PART WAS THE TIME AND MONEY I INVESTED. I SHOULD'VE THOUGHT TWICE. IF THE PROCESS CAN WORK FOR OTHER PEOPLE OBVIOUSLY ITS NOT WORTHLESS BUT ON MY FAVOR IT WAS BECAUSE IT CAME BACK TO BITE ME. I AGREE WITH SOME OF YOUR VIEWS BUT I WASNT ASKING FOR YOUR OPIONION ON ILLEGAL IMMIGRATION EITHER AND DONT MAKE ME HAVE TO DEFEND WHAT IM SAYING EITHER BECAUSE IN A WAY IT DEFENDS HIM AND HE DOESN'T DESERVE IT.

LIKE I SAID MY NUMBER ONE CONCERN IS MY BABY MISSING HER DADDY!

[garya505 2]

This is your brain on drugs

[roxy 0]

I am not one to get on a soap box, but this really got me pissed off. This all started with her calling the process worthless, its not, IT WORKED!! It kept an undesirable out for three years. It is also obvious that he is an illegal alien as well as his parents. If I am wrong, then I appologize. So, illegal alien, probably him and his parents never paid taxes, used our over-exhausted system, uses drugs and everyone here thinks we should accept it, because its just a mistake and I should be tolerant. Dont think so. This country has a long list of people who want to enter here and be law abiding, taxing paying citizens. But we have many, like above who waste the quota space. The process worked, and she called it worthless????? I challenge her to post a forum and see how many LEGAL AMERICANS would support this or support a person who has no regard for the laws and proper immigration laws to allow them another chance and calls our system worthless.

OK - agreed. She called the system worthless when in fact it did exactly what it was supposed to do. No one said his situation should be accepted or even tolerated. But this was not a discussion about illegal aliens in the US. It was a request for assistance regarding the next steps to make things right.

Ok - agreed Like I said, I dont usually get on a soap box, but our system is not perfect, and when it does right, we should appreciate it, especially Americans. Not call it worthless. And it also appears he is out of the country now because he and his family were here illegally. Again system worked. We know in America, there is a huge tax burden on us Americans because of illegal aliens as well as issues with drug issues. This person is both. So system worked, punishment is just, except my personal oppinion, dont let them ever enter. MY AMERICAN RIGHT TO EXPRESS THIS.

She is in Mexico. Make a life there since neither show any respect for our laws and if broken by stating our laws are worthless, and me, the American should be tolerant? Dont think so. I also support the IMBRA law. It protects woman from other countries entering into an abusive relationship. Maybe if the guy only beat upon one or two woman in his early 20's, we can say he was just childish and should forgive and tolerate and call the system we have as worthless and give him another chance?

WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT WHOS IN MEXICO AND WHO SAID IM MEXICAN ANY WAY WHAT ABOUT YOU HOW COME YOU DIDNT STAY AND LIVE WHERE EVER YOUR WIFE IS FROM, HOW COME YOU BROUGHT HER HERE AND IF THERES SO MUCH YOU DONT LIKE HERE WHY ARE YOU HERE ANYWAY. I'D HAVE TO BE CRAZY TO TAKE MY CHILD AND LEAVE WHERE SHE COULDN'T RECEIVE PROPER TREATMENT IF SHE GOT SICK. I DONT EVEN SEE HOW YOU MAKE SUCH ASSUMPTIONS. IM AN AMERICAN CITIZEN JUST LIKE YOU AND IVE PAID AND IM PAYING MY DUES INTO THE SYSTEM SOMEBODY GIVE YOU AN EMMY FOR THE TAXES THAT YOU PAY

[roxy 0]

This is your brain on drugs

THAT WAS COOL LIKED IT BUT I HOPE YOUR NOT SAYING I DO DRUGS TO. LET ME MAKE THIS CLEAR TO EVERYONE THAT JUST BECAUSE HE DID I DO BECAUSE I DONT I MEAN I COULD ONLY IMAGINE WHAT MY POOR CHILD WOULD HAVE TO LIVE LIFE LIKE IF SHE HAD A MOTHER WHO WAS A DRUG ADDICT

[Alex+R 0]

John yes, you've exercised your "American" right to run your self-righteous mouth. Now STFU.

OP--why are you standing by a man who knowingly destroyed your entire immigration process by smoking pot? I could not forgive this.

[CarolineM 0]

I'm with Alex...Did you say he doesn't treat you well or did Ir ead that wrong?

[Traviesa 0]

Roxy, the system definitely worked right in your case. I'm not going to coddle you at all, because we got the same ban that you did for something my husband did almost a decade ago, coupled with a mistake in judgment by a "panel physician" who is likely receiving some kind of kickback for every time they can call someone a drug addict, whether it be true or not. And my government, when given the opportunity to fix that mistake, decided not to. If your husband is currently smoking marijuana, he needs to stop immediately, seek counseling as well as a drug re-hab program, and have regular drug tests performed throughout the duration of the 3 years, so that he may present all of that evidence to the same physician he saw the first time, to show that he has been clean for 3 years. He can get this information at his local state-run medical center (I can't remember what they're called). If all that sounds extreme to you, imagine how we feel with my husband who hasn't used drugs since his mid-teenage years (and he's now almost 27); we are doing all of those things, for no other reason than to satisfy the requirements and to get his Visa after our 3 years are up. You may not file a Waiver for drug abuse. You will have to wait until the 3 years is up, go to his interview at that time, and file your I-601 Waiver. With any luck for you, by the time 3 years is up, either the processing times for Waivers will have gone way down or immigration reform will have passed eliminating the waiver from the process.

[John and Sonya 0]

John yes, you've exercised your "American" right to run your self-righteous mouth. Now STFU.

OP--why are you standing by a man who knowingly destroyed your entire immigration process by smoking pot? I could not forgive this.

You comment that I am self righteous, but you comment on it as well? I agree with your comment, but maybe you too need not express yourself and STFU. Neither of them have any respect for the law or consequences for breaking it. Read her profile, she tells her daughter that she cant see her daddy because of the president and the immigration laws!!! Be real! Now she is asking for loop holes and blaming everything and everyone but her husband selfish behavior. To add to it all, he is here illegally, working under the table and not paying taxes!!! We want this in our country? Righteous? If thats what you want to call it.

[radacos 0]

John yes, you've exercised your "American" right to run your self-righteous mouth. Now STFU.

OP--why are you standing by a man who knowingly destroyed your entire immigration process by smoking pot? I could not forgive this.

You comment that I am self righteous, but you comment on it as well? I agree with your comment, but maybe you too need not express yourself and STFU. Neither of them have any respect for the law or consequences for breaking it. Read her profile, she tells her daughter that she cant see her daddy because of the president and the immigration laws!!! Be real! Now she is asking for loop holes and blaming everything and everyone but her husband selfish behavior. To add to it all, he is here illegally, working under the table and not paying taxes!!! We want this in our country? Righteous? If thats what you want to call it.

DUde, she is not asking for loopholes! She wants to know what the *legal* steps are. I understand you feel strongly about drug use and illegal immigration, and you are absolutely entitled to. But surely you must also understand that she is frustrated because she cannot be with the one she loves. However you may feel about what you perceive as the "character" of her fiance, you are only likely to irritate and anger the OP by expressing you approval of the government process that is keeping them apart. And this only makes the OP disagree even more with your point of view -- which is poor rhetoric and probably not what you want.

[kitkat1 5]

Now she is asking for loop holes and blaming everything and everyone but her husband selfish behavior. To add to it all, he is here illegally, working under the table and not paying taxes!!! We want this in our country? Righteous? If thats what you want to call it.

Again, he is NOT in the US. He was NOT deported. And yes, he was probably working illegally in the past, but again, given that USCIS forgives illegal work via marriage to a USC, this is NOT an issue in this case. You certainly have no proof that he didn't pay his taxes via an ITTN - which is legally available to anyone regardless of immigration status.

YES, he was RIGHTFULLY denied due to drug use. She is now simply trying to understand what the correct next steps are. He has three years to get through rehab and get his life back on track so he can be a father and wife. He will also have to file a waiver to forgive his illegal presence. He is doing everything he needs to do to straighten this out - why on earth do you have to continue to kick his wife when's she's already down?

[bcartr 0]

Now she is asking for loop holes and blaming everything and everyone but her husband selfish behavior. To add to it all, he is here illegally, working under the table and not paying taxes!!! We want this in our country? Righteous? If thats what you want to call it.

Again, he is NOT in the US. He was NOT deported. And yes, he was probably working illegally in the past, but again, given that USCIS forgives illegal work via marriage to a USC, this is NOT an issue in this case. You certainly have no proof that he didn't pay his taxes via an ITTN - which is legally available to anyone regardless of immigration status.

YES, he was RIGHTFULLY denied due to drug use. She is now simply trying to understand what the correct next steps are. He has three years to get through rehab and get his life back on track so he can be a father and wife. He will also have to file a waiver to forgive his illegal presence. He is doing everything he needs to do to straighten this out - why on earth do you have to continue to kick his wife when's she's already down?

Why does she not move to Mexico?

Oh yeah Immigration is much stricter there.

Sorry, I am with John on this, 22 is not a child. phhh

But I also understand she is trying to figure out the next steps. Would moving to Mexico be the next step? Is she really going to wait 3 years and hope he is in Mexico getting rehab?

But reading the post got to me too. Cant help to vent.

[kitkat1 5]

Now she is asking for loop holes and blaming everything and everyone but her husband selfish behavior. To add to it all, he is here illegally, working under the table and not paying taxes!!! We want this in our country? Righteous? If thats what you want to call it.

Again, he is NOT in the US. He was NOT deported. And yes, he was probably working illegally in the past, but again, given that USCIS forgives illegal work via marriage to a USC, this is NOT an issue in this case. You certainly have no proof that he didn't pay his taxes via an ITTN - which is legally available to anyone regardless of immigration status.

YES, he was RIGHTFULLY denied due to drug use. She is now simply trying to understand what the correct next steps are. He has three years to get through rehab and get his life back on track so he can be a father and wife. He will also have to file a waiver to forgive his illegal presence. He is doing everything he needs to do to straighten this out - why on earth do you have to continue to kick his wife when's she's already down?

Why does she not move to Mexico?

Oh yeah Immigration is much stricter there.

Sorry, I am with John on this, 22 is not a child. phhh

But I also understand she is trying to figure out the next steps. Would moving to Mexico be the next step? Is she really going to wait 3 years and hope he is in Mexico getting rehab?

But reading the post got to me too. Cant help to vent.

Who knows - maybe she WILL move to Mexico during the three years. But in the meantime, she's just looking for some guidance.

[bcartr 0]

Who knows - maybe she WILL move to Mexico during the three years. But in the meantime, she's just looking for some guidance.

Understood, here is some more guidance.

http://www.freenewmexican.com/news/54929.html