marry scam

[mike1111 2]

yes i marry a woman from the philippines i got her cr 1 visa when she came here after she 30 day she got her green card then she move to california that where she at now i went over july 10 she act like she dont want to have anything to do with me she send her friend over 1.000 dollar and a big box when i ask her she lie about it then hit me in the head with a water bottles 5 time she hit me in the face this morning i got up i look on her facebook saw her with a man she tell me all the time f u me and go to hell and i hope u die now she telling me she never love me or want me i think she using me to get here in the u.s.a now she telling me it over what can i do just call uscis what will them do when i call them thanks.....

[Darnell 8,478]

yup, sounds like a scam.

You'll need to generate hard evidence of it,

and get into a local USCIS office via an infopass appointment

and

then ask to talk wtih the FDNS officer.

Docmentation is very important.

Still, it's on the FDNS officer to investigate, so expect some time on this.

[lbounds 16]

Very sorry to hear about your situation. You need to get it taken care of with uscis. She sounds like a really bad person.

[mike1111 2]

yup, sounds like a scam.

You'll need to generate hard evidence of it,

and get into a local office via an infopass appointment

and

then ask to talk wtih the FDNS officer.

Docmentation is very important.

Still, it's on the FDNS officer to investigate, so expect some time on this.

she on a 2 year green card we got to file next year but im not going file next year i will call USCIS tomorrow and tell them...

[Darnell 8,478]

Interesting, as I never mentioned using a telephone.

http://infopass.uscis.gov/

http://infopass.uscis.gov/

http://infopass.uscis.gov/

[Pitaya 2,577]

~Moved from Off Topic to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits Forum~

[Darnell 8,478]

Hey Mike - I've read your prior posts.

I'm surprised you made it this far, really, and not do stuff, prior.

[n and m 10]

Ive read all your previous posts and even asking for information about i-751 or removal of condition for your wife despite the fact that according to you, she just married you for visa only and since then you've been doubting whether you had a bonafide marriage....im just confused, i didn't know you've gone this far....good luck

[Jawaree 717]

A requirement should be in place for USC to see a movie on these

horror stories for real...am beginning to not even have sympathy ....sorry

Please note some ppl comes for love and good intentions but a large #.. wow

and many times signs are there

Edited October 7, 2013 by Jawaree

[Shiobhan 235]

I think these sudden internet loves

should be thorougly looked at when

marriages comes into play less than 2

years of courting with more than one

visit

[del-11-03-13-3 11]

Really sad these cases is why the process is what it is and why those of us in a legitimate relationship have to go through so much hassle.

[e24 6]

How long have you been married? Eventhough i am a filipino I dont want to tolerate this. Gather evidence and report her to USCIS. That person is one of the reason why the immigration is very careful of approving cases and we, who have pure intentions are the one suffering

[confusedandalone 0]

Mine is the total opposite..gave up everything and went through all the paperwork and wait times, got permanent resident card and then husband tells me he wants to spend all his time for the rest of his life with his ex wife.

Now I have left the country, back to my own , still married to him, but no idea what to do??

[SingleDad2usc 71]

I really have no skin in this, and really can't offer meaningful advice. But I love education. So maybe someone can help and explain: other than a case where one of the spouses admits to premeditated false courtship...what's the use in this entire subject?

Both male/female USC themselves seek out unequal partnership, pursue it as hard as they can (sponsoring, paying up for poorer spouse, etc); then the ill-conceived relationship breaks down, and then the USC complains. And thus a good half of posts in this sub forum: for what constructive purpose? And why go back to government agency and try to take even more of their resources seeking to unwind what you previously begged them to affect? Proving she said he said is tough enough in court with help of attorneys; trying to convince USCIS that they absolutely must undo what you originally begged them to do for you - is this credible? Does USC really assume zero risk when initially embark on this journey? Are relationships guaranteed? Even domestically, with no visas, 50% - or more - break. Why involve USCIS again, other than withdraw sponsorship?

[Ayman___ 92]

Very sad situation I would gather all the evidence and turn her in. We go through so much in the process of getting our love one's here to get kicked sorry for your situation... best of luck to you