How did you meet your fiancee? internet or in person?

[Niblet 22]

Hi everyone, just curious how you met your fiancee in the Philippines ( or southeast asia)

I have been goting to the Philippines since I was 19 in the Air Force,25 yrs ago,and then traveled every couple of months with the airlines i have worked for,, I have always met

women in person, in a club, restaurant. shopping mall, what ever,,,there is a member here who called me a "sex tourist" because I traveled to the Philippines alone and in search of a lady friend.

This member trolled the internet and found what appeared to be a suitable mate,,traveled to the Philippines and liked her (of course) I dont recall EVER meeting a pinay I didnt LIKE.

now,,i am a looks based person and a girl has gotto be lean, brown, have all her teeth, and nice face,,a nice appearance. In other words, they all have nice dispositions,,its that most did not meet my criteria

for appearance

Am I a sex tourist because i went to the Philippines by myself? what do you guys think and how did you meet your fiancee?

Edited September 2, 2013 by Niblet

[Hank_ 9,174]

... I think your are trolling on a visa forum

[Crashed~N2~Me 970]

Each time you went to PI = work related reasons?

[Niblet 22]

... I think your are trolling on a visa forum

Hank,,,buzz off,,,adults are having a conversation here,,I'm tired of you interjecting yourself in every thread just to maintain your "street cred"

this is an honest question about a topic that affects all of us getting K-1 visas,,our story,,how we met etc,,,its not your call to make

Each time you went to PI = work related reasons?

oh heavens no! I lived there for 3 months working as a contractor for UPS,,,but I would say 75% pleasure travel,,25% business....

[Crashed~N2~Me 970]

oh heavens no! I lived there for 3 months working as a contractor for UPS,,,but I would say 75% pleasure travel,,25% business....

Define "pleasure"

[madtownguy 164]

I think you could call it sex tourist, but I would call it being single and traveling. Just like when I travel to another city in the US I would be more likely to hook up with someone because you're on vacation and can. Philippines is just an easier place to meet girls for a US citizen than the US is. I only met girls out and about, I checked out dating sites and talked to girls but it was too slow and pointless. I think the mall is one of the best places to meet a girl, or find one who you meet at work. I met rich girls at fancy clubs but they were up tight and not my type.

[Niblet 22]

I think you could call it sex tourist, but I would call it being single and traveling. Just like when I travel to another city in the US I would be more likely to hook up with someone because you're on vacation and can. Philippines is just an easier place to meet girls for a US citizen than the US is. I only met girls out and about, I checked out dating sites and talked to girls but it was too slow and pointless. I think the mall is one of the best places to meet a girl, or find one who you meet at work. I met rich girls at fancy clubs but they were up tight and not my type.

A very sensible post! thanks for the insight,,I agree with you 100%

[Cathi 5,886]

I don't know if you;re a "sex tourist" I think only you can answer that. But from the description of what you want in your "mate" and by the fact that you insist on using her half naked photo (assuming it's her)for your default picture, I would call you superficial... just an observation

[Niblet 22]

Define "pleasure"

doing what I want when I want with whom I want

I don't know if you;re a "sex tourist" I think only you can answer that. But from the description of what you want in your "mate" and by the fact that you insist on using her half naked photo (assuming it's her)for your default picture, I would call you superficial... just an observation

I resemble that remark,,but that girl in my avatar is not my fiancee,,,

[Crashed~N2~Me 970]

doing what I want when I want with whom I want

What = ?

Whom = ?

[B_J 2,752]

... I think your are trolling on a visa forum

^^^^^^^^^^^

this

doing what I want when I want with whom I want

I notice you didn't mention anything about caring what the other person wants.

I bet you're a sex tourist.

[Niblet 22]

^^^^^^^^^^^

this

well thatsyour opinion,,and your entitled to it,,what,, because I'm not asking a question specifically about the visa process, Im a troll? What part of GENERAL DISCUSSION dont you get?

I notice you didn't mention anything about caring what the other person wants.

,Im a troll...seriously

I bet you're a sex tourist.

So what if I am??? are you judging me??

[B_J 2,752]

Am I a sex tourist because i went to the Philippines by myself? what do you guys think and how did you meet your fiancee?

I bet you're a sex tourist.

So what if I am??? are you judging me??

Okay, you ask a question, I answer, and then you cry about it. Nice game.

[Nasturtium 500]

Sex tourism is defined as going to another place other than where you live with the express intent of having sex or engaging in sexual activity with people at that location, generally taking advantage of either lax sexual restrictions or easy availability of sex to the person seeking it.

Were you going over there with the intent to do the above? Then yes.

[Niblet 22]

Sex tourism is defined as going to another place other than where you live with the express intent of having sex or engaging in sexual activity with people at that location, generally taking advantage of either lax sexual restrictions or easy availability of sex to the person seeking it.

Were you going over there with the intent to do the above? Then yes.

Hah ha! when you put it that way,,well,guilty as charged,,is that different than the guy who meets his fiancee online then travels over to meet her and then has sex with her before marriage?

I see no difference other than a play on words,,,when you get down to it,,premaritial sex is wrong period.