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Is it better to have a slim spouse or a fatty? Please keep this clean.

I've always found it better to marry someone you love no matter what - if that be they put on weight, lose weight, cut their hair, go bald, go blonde, lose a limb, suffer from a debiltating disease like M.S. or become bed ridden with cancer, vomiting and crying and needing you. But hey, maybe I'm crazy. Grow up. I'm sorry if the relationships you saw didn't show you that. If your only concern about your spouse's health is wether she's thin or heavy then consider yourself lucky no matter what she looks like. Forgive me, however, if I continue to consider you shallow.

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Apparently the OP is slim, on the brains.

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Is it better to have a slim spouse or a fatty? Please keep this clean.

I've always found it better to marry someone you love no matter what - if that be they put on weight, lose weight, cut their hair, go bald, go blonde, lose a limb, suffer from a debiltating disease like M.S. or become bed ridden with cancer, vomiting and crying and needing you. But hey, maybe I'm crazy. Grow up. I'm sorry if the relationships you saw didn't show you that. If your only concern about your spouse's health is wether she's thin or heavy then consider yourself lucky no matter what she looks like. Forgive me, however, if I continue to consider you shallow.

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and eventually he or his wife will become extremely fat

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Since everyone's posting songs, I've got one:

[...]

Pastel-white features,

High cheek bones,

Scarlet-blooded lips and deathly tones.

The girl of my nightmares,

Sultry and corpse-like.

The girl of ... my .... nightmares.

Anorexic beauty.

Feather-weight perfection.

Anorexic beauty.

Underweight goddess.

Fcukin' hipster.

Pulp. Bah.

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I think this question appears to be 'trollish' in nature, but it's a very valid question to ask. Many people have preferences....just like 'are you attracted to blondes/brunettes/redheads?' It's just that it's a sensitive subject.

I think it's wrong to jump to 'oh you're so shallow!' if someone has a preference. The heart wants what it wants imo.

Me personally? I couldn't be attracted to an anorexic or an obese man. Does that make me shallow? Who knows. There is a thing called physical attraction and while ppl can banter back and forth, I personally cannot control to whom I'm attracted.

I do love David for what's inside of him..the man he is and all that jazz. But man, he is HOT HOT HOT. And physical appearance DOES matter to me. Saying 'I dont' care what you look like' is great in theory, doesn't mean I wouldn't mind if he gets to be 300lbs, all his teeth fall out, and he wears sweatpants to a black tie affair. Also, the efforts he takes with his appearances ARE appreciated...it's not like 'hey we're in love, you can stop caring about what you look like cos I don't care one bit'

And vice versa I think :)

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Did we actually miss out on "Fat Bottom Girls" make the world go 'round, when we were listing songs???? *gasp* :lol:

I'm big, Craig isn't and even though I'm not happy with my size and need to do something about it, I'm ok with it until that happens..and he's more than ok with it too. As everyone has already said, personal preference. I'm glad mine loves me as I am until I'm ready to change. :thumbs: M.

ETA: and robinlake makes an *excellent* point..I've seen skinny women I would *never* want to look like...and I've seen bigger women I thought were very attractive because they actually were in shape...just somewhat bigger women naturally.

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ETA: and robinlake makes an *excellent* point..I've seen skinny women I would *never* want to look like...and I've seen bigger women I thought were very attractive because they actually were in shape...just somewhat bigger women naturally.

Do you mean large framed women, or are you saying you've seen heavyweight women who you'd consider 'in shape'?

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ETA: and robinlake makes an *excellent* point..I've seen skinny women I would *never* want to look like...and I've seen bigger women I thought were very attractive because they actually were in shape...just somewhat bigger women naturally.

Do you mean large framed women, or are you saying you've seen heavyweight women who you'd consider 'in shape'?

i saw a heavyweight woman (at least i thought it was a woman) at nessa's poe in houston. the reason i say i think it was a woman was it was about 6'5" about 250 and it had a deep voice and shoulders that would make a linebacker proud :P

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I think this question appears to be 'trollish' in nature, but it's a very valid question to ask. Many people have preferences....just like 'are you attracted to blondes/brunettes/redheads?' It's just that it's a sensitive subject.

I think it's wrong to jump to 'oh you're so shallow!' if someone has a preference. The heart wants what it wants imo.

Me personally? I couldn't be attracted to an anorexic or an obese man.

Finally an honest woman.

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I think this question appears to be 'trollish' in nature, but it's a very valid question to ask. Many people have preferences....just like 'are you attracted to blondes/brunettes/redheads?' It's just that it's a sensitive subject.

I think it's wrong to jump to 'oh you're so shallow!' if someone has a preference. The heart wants what it wants imo.

Me personally? I couldn't be attracted to an anorexic or an obese man.

Finally an honest woman.

Do I get a prize? Huh?! Huh?! Huh?!

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