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AOS interview today: No rings at all = problem?

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Hi, my wife and I are going to our AOS interview later today (in about 4 hours). At present we don't have any engagement or wedding rings, as we are planning to have a ceremonial wedding in her hometown in Thailand (hopefully in a couple months)after she gets a green card and will buy all the rings there.

I have heard some people say that not having rings at the AOS interview is not an issue, but I notice that the VisaJourney interview guide has a question about wedding rings.

Since I have been married once before, I happen to have those wedding rings still sitting around. Would it be a good idea to put on those old rings just for the purpose of the interview, or just honestly say we haven't bought rings yet?

Any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks!

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Hi, my wife and I are going to our AOS interview later today (in about 4 hours). At present we don't have any engagement or wedding rings, as we are planning to have a ceremonial wedding in her hometown in Thailand (hopefully in a couple months)after she gets a green card and will buy all the rings there.

I have heard some people say that not having rings at the AOS interview is not an issue, but I notice that the VisaJourney interview guide has a question about wedding rings.

Since I have been married once before, I happen to have those wedding rings still sitting around. Would it be a good idea to put on those old rings just for the purpose of the interview, or just honestly say we haven't bought rings yet?

Any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks!

Personally I will not put rings on from the other marriage. In my contry it is a bad luck.

I don't think it is a big issue if you have rings on or not if you have enough proof to show that you live together as a couple.

If you have other things to show that you are married, you will be fine.

Good Luck

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Hi, my wife and I are going to our AOS interview later today (in about 4 hours). At present we don't have any engagement or wedding rings, as we are planning to have a ceremonial wedding in her hometown in Thailand (hopefully in a couple months)after she gets a green card and will buy all the rings there.

I have heard some people say that not having rings at the AOS interview is not an issue, but I notice that the VisaJourney interview guide has a question about wedding rings.

Since I have been married once before, I happen to have those wedding rings still sitting around. Would it be a good idea to put on those old rings just for the purpose of the interview, or just honestly say we haven't bought rings yet?

Any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks!

Do not put the rings on just for the interview. IMHO that would cheapen the symbol the rings you want to buy when you have your big ceremony. My feelings are to not do thing just because they look a certain way to USCIS. Live your life as if you did not have to deal with USCIS, but document it because you have to. You have a very valid reason for not having rings. If asked at the interview just say what you wrote here and you will be fine. You could be like me and forgot to put the ring on this morning because you removed your ring to do yard work last night and it just so happens to be the day of the interview (I feel naked with my ring BTW). There is no one thing that makes a relationship valid or that USCIS is looking for. If there was the scammers would be all over it.

Relax and go to the interview with confidence that your marriage is valid and that will show thru,

Dave

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When I had my interview the officer looked at our hands and said: 'you have wedding rings and everything ... I can see its a real marriage.' I am not saying, that's what proves a real marriage, but be aware, that the subject could come up. You do have a good explanation which makes sense tho ...

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Dave&Judy   3

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When I had my interview the officer looked at our hands and said: 'you have wedding rings and everything ... I can see its a real marriage.' I am not saying, that's what proves a real marriage, but be aware, that the subject could come up. You do have a good explanation which makes sense tho ...

Even i would avoid that question to come up by wearing the rings.

Few things are in your control and few aren't. Atleast, take care of the things that you have control on. :-)

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Xanax   349

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Congratulations!

We became a couple : 2011-05-29
I visited him : 2011-10-28 - 2011-11-17
He visited me (and my crazy family) : 2012-02-05 - 2012-02-17
I-129F Sent : 2012-02-05
I-129F NOA1 : 2012-02-14
I entered on VWP to stay 3 months: 2012-04-11 - 2012-07-03
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Went to get my medical done for interview in Australia (much cheaper in the US and I was already here):2012-05-20
Medical issue diagnosed
K-1 petition cancellation request sent to CSC : 2012-06-01
Married: 2012-06-21
Filed for AOS : 2012-08-08
NOA1 : 2012-08-10
Biometrics : 2012-09-14
EAD approved : 2012-10-16
Applied for SSN : 2012-11-01
Received SSN : 2012-11-13
Received interview notice :2012-12-27
Interview- APPROVED :2013-01-28
Green card received :2013-02-04
Baby girl born :2013-03-09

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Congrats!!!!

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02/01/2013: Interview scheduled

US Embassy Lagos

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03/20/2013: Interview - was told the boys would have been approved on the spot if they had pics! Errrr :-(

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05/15/2013: Emailed embassy BEGGING them to let boys drop off passports for visa insertion. IT WORKED!!!

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Kazulie   132

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Congrats!!!!

HUSBAND'S CASE

9/17/2011 - sent I-13

09/19/2011 - noa1 received

3/16/2012 - case sent to my local USCIS office for additional processing

4/21/2012 - AP. If we haven't heard from them in SIX MONTHS (omg) we can feel free to call them!!! Thanks!

9/20/2012 - Interview scheduled - October 3!!!!

10/3/2012 - Interview went well but she must look at his A-file more before decision.

10/12/2012 - I-130 APPROVED! APPROVED! APPROVED!

KIDS' CASES

04/20/2012: NOA107/20/2012: instead of an approval, we got thrown into AP. sigh

11/01/2012: Boys' I-130 interview set for November 28, 2012.

11/28/2012: I-130s APPROVED! APPROVED! APPROVED!

NVC

12/14/2012: NVC Received

12/31/2012: Case number/IIN

12/31/2012: DS-3032 sent

01/08/2013: DS-3032 accepted

01/02/2013: AOS bill0

1/03/2013: AOS bill shows PAID

01/04/2013: AOS package sent

01/09/2013: IV bill

01/10/2013: IV bill shows PAID

01/11/2013: IV package sent

01/23/2013: Case complete

02/01/2013: Interview scheduled

US Embassy Lagos

02/22/2013: Embassy received

03/01/2013: Medical

03/20/2013: Interview - was told the boys would have been approved on the spot if they had pics! Errrr :-(

04/15/2013: DNA test

05/15/2013: Emailed embassy BEGGING them to let boys drop off passports for visa insertion. IT WORKED!!!

05/31/2013: Visa in hand

06/02/2013: POE JFK!!!!!!

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Dave&Judy   3

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Well, the topic didn't come up in the interview, and the USCIS website now says the card is in production, so I guess we're good. Thanks everyone1

Happy for you !!!

Congrats !

Please share your interview experience.

Get Fit > Learn > Work Harder >> Earn your Happiness !

May GOD bless All !

2007 - Entered, Start work in USA on H1B

2010 - Met my now wife :-)

2012 - Got married -> I Do !

July, 2012 - Preparing AOS package

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