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what can be my answer if they ask me this ???????

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Trav&Shell   83

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what can be my answer if they ask me why u marry lady old then you?

I would try the simple "Because I love her very much." :)

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Trav&Shell   83

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i swear i love my wife like cryez i ask her to come live with me but she say no .....

i have other ask i hear they refus to give visa to men who marry wife older them him

That's strange...it shouldn't matter how old you are as long as you're both old enough to marry, and both free to marry according to US law. Is she a lot older than you?

If you really love her, just be honest and tell them you love her. Always be honest, and use short and simple answers. Praying it will be ok for you!

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NVC (30 days, March 12 to April 11. Case expedited due to NVC errors).

Montreal US Consulate, awaiting interview date (14 days, April 12 to April 26).

05/09/2012 - medical in Toronto - passed!
05/22/2012 - interview - passed!
05/25/2012 - visa in hand!!! biggrin.png
06/09/2012 - POE @ YWG (Winnipeg Int'l Airport)

Removal of Conditions submitted March 24, 2014, received March 26, 2014

"RFE" for page 3 of application received, date March 27, 2014. Package re-submitted with all papers re-attached.

04/07/2014 - NOA1 Date

05/07/2014 - Biometrics in Charlotte, NC

11/05/2014 - APPROVED! Citizenship in 5 months!

11/10/2014 - NOA2 in hand.

11/20/2014 - 10 yr GC in hand! :D

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abdoulen   0

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That's strange...it shouldn't matter how old you are as long as you're both old enough to marry, and both free to marry according to US law. Is she a lot older than you?

If you really love her, just be honest and tell them you love her. Always be honest, and use short and simple answers. Praying it will be ok for you!

im 28 she is 45 old years !!!!! i love this woman i swear i nvr ever dream that i can have woman in my life love me like she do

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i swear i love my wife like cryez i ask her to come live with me but she say no .....

i have other ask i hear they refus to give visa to men who marry wife older them him

Seems you should know the answer to that question. Just answer with your heart and not your mind.

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Trav&Shell   83

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im 28 she is 45 old years !!!!! i love this woman i swear i nvr ever dream that i can have woman in my life love me like she do

See...you know what to say. Don't stress out over this - nothing's happened yet. Please relax and tell them the truth - that you love her very much.

As for the age difference - I can't see why it would matter, but I'm not one of the interviewers. Just relax and prepare.

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05/22/2012 - interview - passed!
05/25/2012 - visa in hand!!! biggrin.png
06/09/2012 - POE @ YWG (Winnipeg Int'l Airport)

Removal of Conditions submitted March 24, 2014, received March 26, 2014

"RFE" for page 3 of application received, date March 27, 2014. Package re-submitted with all papers re-attached.

04/07/2014 - NOA1 Date

05/07/2014 - Biometrics in Charlotte, NC

11/05/2014 - APPROVED! Citizenship in 5 months!

11/10/2014 - NOA2 in hand.

11/20/2014 - 10 yr GC in hand! :D

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abdoulen   0

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See...you know what to say. Don't stress out over this - nothing's happened yet. Please relax and tell them the truth - that you love her very much.

As for the age difference - I can't see why it would matter, but I'm not one of the interviewers. Just relax and prepare.

do you see is big dll this diff and do u think they can give me refrus for that ????

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This is not a question you should be asking of anyone else. If you do not have an honest answer then there is a problem. I say this because there is a similar age gap between my husband and I. As he tells everyone on a regular he loves me with all his heart and age is something that makes no difference. You marry someone who is compatible to you which could mean anyone. My husband actually gets very upset if anyone mentions our age difference because there is so much true love between us. Immigration needs to open their eyes and see some of the results of some of these couples on here that are of the same age bracket and there marriage does not make it past a week!

Renee

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mounir412   101

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you love her and no matter what her age :)

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That's strange...it shouldn't matter how old you are as long as you're both old enough to marry, and both free to marry according to US law. Is she a lot older than you?

If you really love her, just be honest and tell them you love her. Always be honest, and use short and simple answers. Praying it will be ok for you!

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msheesha   548

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That's strange...it shouldn't matter how old you are as long as you're both old enough to marry, and both free to marry according to US law. Is she a lot older than you?

If you really love her, just be honest and tell them you love her. Always be honest, and use short and simple answers. Praying it will be ok for you!

Age difference between older US American woman petitioner & younger Moroccan male beneficiary is a large red flag in the CASA consulate.

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catknit   144

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I know that you are concerned as Casa is a tough consulate. Tell the truth. But, please realize that many legitimate couples get denied at Casa. Many. Do research here so you are prepared for the next steps in case you need to take them. It would also be helpful to have your wife be prepared for what may happen by researching here.

Good luck.

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BraveAmnay   56

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what can be my answer if they ask me why u marry lady old then you?

Relaxe Brother i know your feelign now ,you need support ;Focus about many question not only that like know lot o about her.that what will prove you really love her.Like said try know everythign about her ;her parenst ,her kids her job,etc.....

Plus if you love each otehr no matter how long it will take be together ;one day you will.I hAve friend was 36 and her about 48 or 50 and he got his Visa .Of course they will ask you why abotu gap of age between you but try tak from your heart.coz he will see that in your eyes that really you lvoe her.God Luck in your journey :thumbs:

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