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My wife is so stingy that is bothers me so much. We are at the table and the servings she makes are super small.she is not calorie conscious.i have told her many times to make enough food so that the person at the table wants another serving they can get it.she never understands that.she hoards food and saves everything to be eaten later.you only get one serving,period.it offends me really.i have told her about this so many times but she repeats the same thing over and over.she buys something special from the store and tell me i will put this away for now. we can use it at such and such occassion.i have never seen anybody like this before.please heklp.

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My wife is so stingy that is bothers me so much. We are at the table and the servings she makes are super small.she is not calorie conscious.i have told her many times to make enough food so that the person at the table wants another serving they can get it.she never understands that.she hoards food and saves everything to be eaten later.you only get one serving,period.it offends me really.i have told her about this so many times but she repeats the same thing over and over.she buys something special from the store and tell me i will put this away for now. we can use it at such and such occassion.i have never seen anybody like this before.please heklp.

Maybe she was raised that way. Are past makes us who we are today.


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Doubt it. It would take very serious effort on HER part to change that.

Maybe offer to do the cooking, then you can make more...


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Doubt it. It would take very serious effort on HER part to change that.

Maybe offer to do the cooking, then you can make more...

I try to cook and shes right there in the kitchen with me.if i start out by cutting tomatoes she goes like omg that;s a lot of tomatoes. :help: it feels like she just loves hoarding.we bought some nice wine the other day we got some and i wanted some more but she put it back in the refrigerator.i am not fat and not greedy but at times i want more food cos it's delicous but she does not understand that.

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I try to cook and shes right there in the kitchen with me.if i start out by cutting tomatoes she goes like omg that;s a lot of tomatoes. :help: it feels like she just loves hoarding.we bought some nice wine the other day we got some and i wanted some more but she put it back in the refrigerator.i am not fat and not greedy but at times i want more food cos it's delicous but she does not understand that.

Where is your wife from???


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I had a friend like that growing up. When I stayed at her house, she would make such a small portion of food, I was hungry the whole time I was there. Really isn't a nice feeling. If you can't talk to her about it, maybe you need to seek help from a third party to get her to understand.


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Yup sounds like it is your turn do the cooking. Although I can understand where she is coming from. I know people like this and it is very tough to change the behavior. They come from a place where waste is not an option.


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Portions in America are drastically bigger than other countries.

It's why obesity is rampant in the USA :yes:


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My wife is so stingy that is bothers me so much. We are at the table and the servings she makes are super small.she is not calorie conscious.i have told her many times to make enough food so that the person at the table wants another serving they can get it.she never understands that.she hoards food and saves everything to be eaten later.you only get one serving,period.it offends me really.i have told her about this so many times but she repeats the same thing over and over.she buys something special from the store and tell me i will put this away for now. we can use it at such and such occassion.i have never seen anybody like this before.please heklp.

You must be the USC! :rofl:

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No I am not the USC but i am from a country where enough food is made & served at the table.i am used to it. :crying:

As the saying goes, a mans gotta eat!!! I know with spanish lunch time is usually the biggest meal of the day and dinner is like lunch time (something small).

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January 14, 2012 - Received Biometrics appt letter

January 27, 2012 - Biometric appointment in Phoenix @ 9 am for I-485 & I-765

February 24, 2012 - Email received from USCIS they mailed RFE for I-485

February 29, 2012 - Received RFE for I-485 in the mail.

March 26, 2012 - Sent requested evidence (transcript 2010)

April 02, 2012 - Email notification that NBC received documents

April 10, 2012 - Received email that Travel Document was approved

April 10, 2012 - Received email that EAD was in production

April 13, 2012 - Received 2nd email that EAD was in production

April 16, 2012 - Received email that EAD was mailed

April 17, 2012 - Received email that NBC interview scheduled for May 18, 2012

April 18, 2012 - Received EAD/Travel Card in the mail

May 18, 2012 - Interview at Phoenix USCIS office

August 07, 2012 - I-485 approved

August 07 & 09 - Received email/texts from USCIS

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