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Also, she said she was going to hideaway or plainly reject me if i went there...that it will be a waste of time and money... I DO NOT EVEN KNOW IF I SHOULD GO THERE... I BELIEVE SURPRISING HER will reveal a genuine reaction and we ll take it from there... and maybe having me in front will soften her... we havent seen each other in three months (the longest ever for us) and the times we ve been together were just three and four day visits... maybe time together is what we are missing, jealousy and trust issues have been our "killers"... i am so confused and anxious now... every day i wonder what's going to happen... can a relationship like mine survive the process and beyond? i am doubting it now, i wasnt but i am now, she has been doubting since she changed 180 degrees... about april 22nd

Flaco Bello and Morenita Bonita

September 10, 2010 Trip to SDQ: Met

December 10, 2010 Trip to SDQ: Reunited

December 19, 2010 Formalized relationship

February 19, 2011 Trip to SDQ

March 03, 2011 NOA1 Received

May 06, 2011 Trip to SDQ

July 01, 2011 NOA2 Approved! Exactly four months after...

July 08, 2011 NOA2 Hard Copy Received!

July 18, 2011 NVC Reception

July 20, 2011 NVC Left to Consulate

July 25, 2011 Petitioner Received Letter from NVC

July 25, 2011 Consulate Received

August 18, 2011 Packet 4 Sent to Beneficiary

October 25, 2011 Interview at SDO Embassy

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ecuador
Timeline

Don't waste any more time or money, no man. Look forward, not back.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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Don't go visit her honey, it will be a waste of your time and only add to your heartache. I'm sorry that it's going like this for you, but she's pretty young still, and it's good to know now rather than later if it's not going to work out. When you find the one that's right for you, it has to be right for both of you, or it's not really the right one. Maybe given a few years, you and her may have found that you want to see each other again, but I wouldn't hold my breath on it. I'm with Tbone on this one...

Jan 21 2011 sent I-129F package to Dallas lockbox - they lost it
Mar 22 2011 - Sent I-129F package to Dallas lockbox second time
May 2 2011 - NOA1 at CSC
July 15 2011 - NOA2!!!
July 21 2011 - Hardcopy of NOA2 received in mail
Aug 9 2011 - Case forwarded to Montreal
Sep 7 2011 - Packet 4 sent from embassy
Oct 27 2011 - Interview
Nov 12 2011 - Intended POE VISA delayed due to typo on son's name at the consulate
Nov 22 2011 - Picked up Visa
Nov 26 2011 - New intended POE date
Dec 10 2011 - Wedding

Jan 12 2012 - Sent AOS package
Feb 1 2012 - They send rejection notice, they lost a signature page
Feb 4 2012 - Resent package
Feb 14 2012 - NOA2
Feb 22 2012 - NOA3
March 21 2012 - Biometrics
March 30 2012 - NOA4
May 16 2012 - Interview date


April 2014 - application for I751 Removal of Conditions
May 7 2014 - NOA for notice of receipt and extension letter received
May 8 2014- Verification of inclusion of a dependent letter received
Not dated but in May - letter requesting interview received
July 10 2014 - ASC appointment notice for biometrics received

July 24 2014 Biometrics appointment

Jan 22 2015 - USCIS call

March 18 2015 - USCIS call

April 2 2015 - USCIS call

May 14 2015 - Infopass appt

July 21 2015 - infopass appt

Sept 18 2015 - infopass appt
Feb 25 2016 - USCIS call
Feb 25 2016 - Ombudsman request form sent

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Don't go visit her honey, it will be a waste of your time and only add to your heartache. I'm sorry that it's going like this for you, but she's pretty young still, and it's good to know now rather than later if it's not going to work out. When you find the one that's right for you, it has to be right for both of you, or it's not really the right one. Maybe given a few years, you and her may have found that you want to see each other again, but I wouldn't hold my breath on it. I'm with Tbone on this one...

I agree, with both.

03/17/2011- Mailed K1 petition

03/25/2011- Email and text NOA1, routed to VSC

03/25/2011- Check cashed

07/05/2011- NOA2, USCIS website, text and email!
10/04/2011- Interview, APPROVED!
10/23/2011- POE - Dulles
11/08/2011- WEDDING!
11/15/2011- Applied for SSN
01/18/2012- AOS package sent
01/24/2012- NOA1 for AOS, EAD & AP
01/25/2012- Check cashed for AOS
02/16/2012- AOS & EAD biometrics
02/13/2012- AOS case transferred to CSC
02/21/2012- AOS application received at CSC
03/15/2012- EAD/AP cards approved
03/26/2012- EAD/AP combo card received
07/30/2012- Service Request on AOS, past 6 months mark...
08/28/2012- Ombudsman & Senator contacted, past 7 months mark...
09/04/2012- AOS Approved!
09/10/2012- GC in hand!

08/13/2014- Mailed I-751(ROC) package to VSC

08/15/2014- Delivered

08/18/2014- NOA1/Letter of Extension

08/20/2014- Check cashed

09/17/2014- Biometrics

02/18/2015- Card Production Ordered/ Approved!

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: New Zealand
Timeline

If she has been in doubt since April then she has had time to think it through and her opinion hasn't changed for the better. I'm sorry this has happened and also agree that it is better at this point to let her go and not proceed.

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Mar 2011 - After 5mths denied for lost docs - Attempts to follow up failed. Mar 18 2012 - I-129F sent - No sign of NOA1 but they have banked the check...Jul 24 - Update - USCIS has located our file
Infopass Apt - they sorted through everything - our 2011 and 2012 file keep getting mixed up - getting us a Case# (still waiting) Dec- Infopass Appt- expecting to get a case # in about a week ..Still no Case number

Mar 2013 Infopass - advised file was in a box somewhere,and it would be quicker for us to refile. Life gets in the way... New petition submitted July 2014 .
I-129F Sent : Jul 28 2014
TSC received: Aug 04 2014
I-129F NOA1 : Aug 06 2014
I-129F NOA2 : Feb 25 2015 (NOA2 copy rcd: Mar 02)

Sent to NVC: Mar 09 / Left NVC Apr 1 / Arr Embassy Apr 7 / Pkt 3 Rcd Apr 15 / Medical Apr 17 / Pkt 3 sent May 1 / Interview May 12

Left NZ May 15

Married Aug 10

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Morocco
Timeline

wow shes pretty ungratefull, but its better for it to happen now than later after uve bought the plan ticket and paid the interview fee.

Filed I129F: 03/4/2011

Received by USCIS: 3/8/2011

NOA:3/10/2011

NOA2:06/21/2011

Case# received from NVC: 07/1/2011.

got packet 3/4: Aug/4/2011

Interview: Sept 21st 2011

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