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hi evryone my help from my wife.i have big problem with me my life really so bad her b4 i met her she's was very nice with me but now............so i dont know what to doo she drink alot and to meet men in bars i think she cheat me. i want to divorce her i have been her one year. i have right now just gread card, so if i divorce what will happen .they will take me back to my country or what thanks Majid

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Penguin_ie   5,984

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***** Moved from MENA to Effects of Major Changes forum and duplicate in CR-1 forum removed *****

You have a conditional greencard now? You will need to remove conditions by yourself, showing you entered the marriage in good faith. You will also need to wait 5 instead of three years to become a US citizen.

Bye: Penguin

Me: Irish/ Swiss citizen, and now naturalised US citizen. Husband: USC; twin babies born Feb 08 in Ireland and a daughter in Feb 2010 in Arkansas who are all joint Irish/ USC. Did DCF (IR1) in 6 weeks via the Dublin, Ireland embassy and now living in Arkansas.

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Ramialbali   23

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hi evryone my help from my wife.i have big problem with me my life really so bad her b4 i met her she's was very nice with me but now............so i dont know what to doo she drink alot and to meet men in bars i think she cheat me. i want to divorce her i have been her one year. i have right now just gread card, so if i divorce what will happen .they will take me back to my country or what thanks Majid

Sorry to about your marriage difficulities.

if she started drinking a lot recently, may be she needs your help. May be there is something going on with her and she needs someone to stand by her. It seems you are not sure about the idea she is cheating on you. You stated that you have been in the US for just one year, and intercultural marriage takes long time and work from both partenrs to get over the cultural differences. I have been living with my wife 4 years now and we still working on our cultural differences. Divorce should be your last choice.

I have read several posts in the VJ forum about getting divorce on a conditional green card, and all stated as Penguin_ie said you need to show that you entered the marriage in a good faith. But I feel if you are going toward the divorce, you should have a professional advice,lawyer, as you are not familiar with the system in the US, just assuming,like me :) You do not not want to lose your green gard.

wish you luck,

Best

Edited by Rami-Becky

First meeting----2007-08-30

Engaged---------2007-11-21

Marriage---------2008-02-07

I-130 Sent-------2008-07-24

I-130 NOA1------2008-07-31

I-129F Sent------2008-08-26

I-129F NOA1-----2008-09-02

I-129F NOA2-----2009-02-25

NVC Received----2009-03-05

Packet 3---------2009-03-12

Packet 3 Sent----2009-04-13

Packet 4---------2009-04-26

Interview Date---2009-05-14--Approved, but required additional documents

Visa Received---- AP, Time Unknown

I-130 Approval----2009-02-25

Switched to IR1 visa

1st interview---------09-03-2011

2nd interview---------03-05-2011

visa issued-----------07-04-2011, but the Consulate kept my passport

3rd interview---------24-05-2011 with the Homland Secuirty office in Jerusalem

4th interview---------06-06-2011 interviewd my wife, the Homland Secuirty office in Jerusalem

passport received-----14-06-2011 with IR1 visa

US Entry----------21-09-2011

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majid   0

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yes that what i do but almot women here when they start to drunk a lot that mean can cheat you for just to hurt you more . but that my problem i was need to know her b4 married.so if i divorce her i can marry other woman here?

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Ramialbali   23

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:whistle: what goes around, comes around, right?

Why did she start drinking a lot after she worked hard to bring you to the US? She supposed be happy to accomplish this for her husband. I think she has discovered or realized something about you which made her start drinking more, and you instead of helping her, you are asking to get married from another woman after the divorce :blink:. I smell something fishy too!!

Edited by Rami-Becky

First meeting----2007-08-30

Engaged---------2007-11-21

Marriage---------2008-02-07

I-130 Sent-------2008-07-24

I-130 NOA1------2008-07-31

I-129F Sent------2008-08-26

I-129F NOA1-----2008-09-02

I-129F NOA2-----2009-02-25

NVC Received----2009-03-05

Packet 3---------2009-03-12

Packet 3 Sent----2009-04-13

Packet 4---------2009-04-26

Interview Date---2009-05-14--Approved, but required additional documents

Visa Received---- AP, Time Unknown

I-130 Approval----2009-02-25

Switched to IR1 visa

1st interview---------09-03-2011

2nd interview---------03-05-2011

visa issued-----------07-04-2011, but the Consulate kept my passport

3rd interview---------24-05-2011 with the Homland Secuirty office in Jerusalem

4th interview---------06-06-2011 interviewd my wife, the Homland Secuirty office in Jerusalem

passport received-----14-06-2011 with IR1 visa

US Entry----------21-09-2011

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To suffer in silence is the greatest suffering

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yes that what i do but almot women here when they start to drunk a lot that mean can cheat you for just to hurt you more . but that my problem i was need to know her b4 married.so if i divorce her i can marry other woman here?

Your logic really does not follow. Just because a person drinks alcohol it does not mean that the person will cheat. Yes, you should have probably taken the opportunity to know your woman better before you married her. As far as your question goes, why the hurry to marry some other woman after divorcing your current wife? :unsure:

Why not get divorced first and enjoy your singlehood before getting back into such a commitment? Or have you already met someone you are wanting to marry?

August 23, 2010 - I-129 F package sent via USPS priority mail with delivery confirmation.

August 30, 2010 - Per Department of Homeland Security (DHS) e-mail, petition received and routed to California Service Center for processing. Check cashed. I-797C Notice of Action by mail (NOA 1) - Received date 08/25/2010. Notice date 08/27/2010.

After 150 days of imposed anxious patience...

January 24, 2011 - Per USCIS website, petition approved and notice mailed.

January 31, 2011 - Approval receipt notice (NOA 2) received by mail. Called NVC, given Santo Domingo case number, and informed that petition was sent same day to consulate.

Called Visa Specialist at the Department of State every day for a case update. Informed of interview date on February, 16 2011. Informed that packet was mailed to fiance on February, 15 2011.

February 21, 2011 - Fiance has not yet received packet. Called 1-877-804-5402 (Visa Information Center of the United States Embassy) to request a duplicate packet in person pick-up at the US consulate in Santo Domingo. Packet can be picked-up by fiance on 02/28.

March 1, 2011 - Medical exam completed at Consultorios de Visa in Santo Domingo.

March 9, 2011 at 6 AM - Interview, approved!

March 18, 2011 - POE together. JFK and O'Hare airports. Legal wedding: May 16, 2011.

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AYMAN_RINA   92

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:wacko: I agree with all here .You should try talking to her and tell her how you feel but when I see you type maybe After divorce I can marry another woman :hehe: something isn't right.. :bonk:

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Golden Gate   530

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yes that what i do but almot women here when they start to drunk a lot that mean can cheat you for just to hurt you more . but that my problem i was need to know her b4 married.so if i divorce her i can marry other woman here?

Sounds like you are stereotyping.

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yes that what i do but almot women here when they start to drunk a lot that mean can cheat you for just to hurt you more . but that my problem i was need to know her b4 married.so if i divorce her i can marry other woman here?

I have to say, I am highly offended by this stereotipical comment. I drink and have gotten drunk and I'm proud to say that I have NEVER cheated on anyone. Just as recent as last night, I had a couple of glasses of wine with friends in my apartment. My fianceé "joined" us through skype. Hee knows I'd never cheat on him and viceversa. All that said, I think the problem is in your head. I agree with everyone else: this smells not fishy, but rotten. I believe you're the one cheating and looking for a lame a$$ excuse to divorce her so you can remarry your new victim.

Good luck.

Don't ever do anything you're not willing to explain the paramedics.

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:wow: :wow: :wow: LOL VJ'ers turn detectives....YES THIS YOUR "SITUATION" IS FISHY...... :bonk: :bonk: :bonk: :bonk:

03/17/2011----->I-129F mailed to Lewisville TX

03/21/2011----->Package delivered, signed by CATES

03/25/2011----->NOA1 received via text &email @ 1:15am

(Case transfered to Vermont)

03/29/2011----->NOA1 hardcopy received dated 3/23/11

03/29/2011----->TOUCHED

07/05/2011-----> NOA2 received via text & email

07/07/2011-----> NOA2 hardcopy receive dated 7/05/11

07/18/2011----->Package left NVC for Nigeria

07/25/2011-----> NVC hardcopy case number received dated 07/08/11

10/14/2011-----> Interview date-------APPROVED!!!!!! :)

10/21/2011----->VISA IN HAND ....Doxology :)

01/14/2012----->Arrival via Chicago

01/28/2012----->Married

03/28/2012----->AOE/EAD/AP filed

04/04/2012----->NOA1 received

04/27/2012----->Biometrics appointment

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majid   0

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wooooooooooooooooow really i can't belive evryone mean to me whyyyyyyyyy.right now i don't know any woman and i marrid her for i lov hr so much and im crazy in lov with her but i feel she dont .and she spend all time on computer or talking with her friends on phone evryday. i leave my country for her not for america. she like to have fun with her friends girls and men without me so what that mean not cheating me sorry guys maybe u lucky u have good person .

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Hello Majid, sorry to hear about your situation, the flag here was when you are already thinking of marrying another woman so you can stay here when you just claimed you left your country for her not America. If i were you I would focus on ONE THING AT A TIME, which is to put your energy into trying to safe your relationship. Good luck and I sincerely hope things work out for you.

Cheers

03/17/2011----->I-129F mailed to Lewisville TX

03/21/2011----->Package delivered, signed by CATES

03/25/2011----->NOA1 received via text &email @ 1:15am

(Case transfered to Vermont)

03/29/2011----->NOA1 hardcopy received dated 3/23/11

03/29/2011----->TOUCHED

07/05/2011-----> NOA2 received via text & email

07/07/2011-----> NOA2 hardcopy receive dated 7/05/11

07/18/2011----->Package left NVC for Nigeria

07/25/2011-----> NVC hardcopy case number received dated 07/08/11

10/14/2011-----> Interview date-------APPROVED!!!!!! :)

10/21/2011----->VISA IN HAND ....Doxology :)

01/14/2012----->Arrival via Chicago

01/28/2012----->Married

03/28/2012----->AOE/EAD/AP filed

04/04/2012----->NOA1 received

04/27/2012----->Biometrics appointment

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majid   0

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thanks so much,hard for me to back my country after i leave my job, and evrything so im think to meet good woman then she can help me for pepers , but i don't know how it will be work and my Greencard will done soon

im sorry too ABYALY

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