Proof of relationship

[B.n.R 1]

I really don't see where any of this extra info is relevant! So we took a train ride together..doesn't have our names on the stubs. So I flew to her country...doesn't mean I saw her. So we got a hotel on new years eve, booked in my name...doesn't have her name, just shows it was a room for 2. And 'gift' receipts!!? Does that mean I need a pictures of her holding the said gift!? I know that this stuff is 'optional', and that it helps when they see our passports (matching dates), but it still proves nothing! Even though all cases are different, it still worries me to see posts of people here that had their files rejected because of lack of proof. I have flown to see her 2 times in the last few years, but didn't keep the tickets. I didn't even realize it would be a good idea to keep them until a few months ago when I really started researching the K-1. I genuinely love her, and would pay anything to file this @#$% if I knew they'd really see that love. Sorry to rant, just worried. She's in japan and I worry about her everyday! We planned to get married before the quake...it just made me want to speed things up. No room for delays. She is safe, for now. Does anyone know of a way to hurry this this paperwork up so I can get her here and away from the radiation and quakes!? Thanks.

[baron555 934]

I really don't see where any of this extra info is relevant! So we took a train ride together..doesn't have our names on the stubs. So I flew to her country...doesn't mean I saw her. So we got a hotel on new years eve, booked in my name...doesn't have her name, just shows it was a room for 2. And 'gift' receipts!!? Does that mean I need a pictures of her holding the said gift!? I know that this stuff is 'optional', and that it helps when they see our passports (matching dates), but it still proves nothing!

You are correct but the COs at the Embassy are trained to vet out the frauds.

Even though all cases are different, it still worries me to see posts of people here that had their files rejected because of lack of proof.

Yes, it does happen.

I have flown to see her 2 times in the last few years, but didn't keep the tickets. I didn't even realize it would be a good idea to keep them until a few months ago when I really started researching the K-1.

Well, aren't you the smarter one now?

I genuinely love her, and would pay anything to file this @#$% if I knew they'd really see that love.

I don't see it either. Love doesn't mean anything to USCIS;; following the procedures, filling out the forms correctly and providing the documents they request does matter to them.

Sorry to rant, just worried. She's in japan and I worry about her everyday! We planned to get married before the quake...it just made me want to speed things up. No room for delays. She is safe, for now. Does anyone know of a way to hurry this this paperwork up so I can get her here and away from the radiation and quakes!?

Nope, you gotta wait like we all did/do. You aren't so special, especially if you don't want to follow the procedures. It isn't your ballgame to make the rules now.

Thanks.

[Sunny123 44]

I don't know if you are ready to get married quite yet. They are expediting immigration petitions for imediate relatives of us citizens a husband/wife are imediate relatives.

[Sunny123 44]

http://www.visajourney.com/news/

[B.n.R 1]

Thanks for the stating the obvious. I do know it happens. And, yes, I am smarter than you. I don't see your love either, so what!? I AM following procedures, and also commenting on them. "My ballgame to make the rules"!!?... never mind. If you're not going to help, then don't waste your time (and mine).

[Dakine 26]

I really don't see where any of this extra info is relevant! So we took a train ride together..doesn't have our names on the stubs. So I flew to her country...doesn't mean I saw her. So we got a hotel on new years eve, booked in my name...doesn't have her name, just shows it was a room for 2. And 'gift' receipts!!? Does that mean I need a pictures of her holding the said gift!? I know that this stuff is 'optional', and that it helps when they see our passports (matching dates), but it still proves nothing! Even though all cases are different, it still worries me to see posts of people here that had their files rejected because of lack of proof. I have flown to see her 2 times in the last few years, but didn't keep the tickets. I didn't even realize it would be a good idea to keep them until a few months ago when I really started researching the K-1. I genuinely love her, and would pay anything to file this @#$% if I knew they'd really see that love. Sorry to rant, just worried. She's in japan and I worry about her everyday! We planned to get married before the quake...it just made me want to speed things up. No room for delays. She is safe, for now. Does anyone know of a way to hurry this this paperwork up so I can get her here and away from the radiation and quakes!? Thanks.

Pictures with captions of you guys together in the places you went together and with her family [was IMPORTANT in my first case as she was denied for lack of such!] back up records of being together.

Try expediting for Danger of getting radiation. Would probably be a first ! Who knows it may fly the way things are now in Japan.

Edited March 26, 2011 by Dakine

[B.n.R 1]

I don't know if you are ready to get married quite yet. They are expediting immigration petitions for imediate relatives of us citizens a husband/wife are imediate relatives.

Sorry, not sure I understand. And yes I am ready to get married! Why would you think otherwise?

I mean, I am planning on sending the I-129F very soon, so yes, I'm ready.

Edited March 26, 2011 by B.n.R

[B.n.R 1]

Pictures with captions of you guys together in the places you went together and with her family [was IMPORTANT in my first case as she was denied for lack of such!] back up records of being together.

Try expediting for Danger of getting radiation. Would probably be a first ! Who knows it may fly the way things are now in Japan.

Thanks. I just know she is still feeling quakes. And who knows what might happen!? Just feel helpless with all this.

[Anh map 2,098]

Sorry, not sure I understand. And yes I am ready to get married! Why would you think otherwise?

I mean, I am planning on sending the I-129F very soon, so yes, I'm ready.

If you were married now then your spouse may be eligible for an expedited case. That is why the poster asked the question.

The (implied) suggestion is that if you were able to marry now it may be quicker given the unfortunate circumstances in Japan.

[Sunny123 44]

No Need to be rude. I didn't know if you were aware or not about them expediting immigration petitions for imediate relatives. You were asking how to go about epedite your request. "Does anyone know of a way to hurry this this paperwork up so I can get her here and away from the radiation and quakes!? Thanks." Weren't these your exact words? If you don't want peoples help then don't ask.

Edited March 26, 2011 by Sunny123

[B.n.R 1]

If you were married now then your spouse may be eligible for an expedited case. That is why the poster asked the question.

The (implied) suggestion is that if you were able to marry now it may be quicker given the unfortunate circumstances in Japan.

Gotcha, figured it out after the reply. thanks!

[B.n.R 1]

No Need to be rude. I didn't know if you were aware or not about them expediting immigration petitions for imediate relatives. You were asking how to go about epedite your request. "Does anyone know of a way to hurry this this paperwork up so I can get her here and away from the radiation and quakes!? Thanks." Weren't these your exact words? If you don't want peoples help then don't ask.

Sooooo sorry!! That wasn't for you!

You just happened to post in between, and the right 'reply' button didn't work for me.

Please forgive!

Edited March 26, 2011 by B.n.R

[Sunny123 44]

Sooooo sorry!! That wasn't for you!

You just happened to post in between, and the right 'reply' button didn't work for me.

Please forgive!

okay

[B.n.R 1]

okay

Thanks for understanding! It was the 'Baron' that was rude.

[faithinGod 8]

I really don't see where any of this extra info is relevant! So we took a train ride together..doesn't have our names on the stubs. So I flew to her country...doesn't mean I saw her. So we got a hotel on new years eve, booked in my name...doesn't have her name, just shows it was a room for 2. And 'gift' receipts!!? Does that mean I need a pictures of her holding the said gift!? I know that this stuff is 'optional', and that it helps when they see our passports (matching dates), but it still proves nothing! Even though all cases are different, it still worries me to see posts of people here that had their files rejected because of lack of proof. I have flown to see her 2 times in the last few years, but didn't keep the tickets. I didn't even realize it would be a good idea to keep them until a few months ago when I really started researching the K-1. I genuinely love her, and would pay anything to file this @#$% if I knew they'd really see that love. Sorry to rant, just worried. She's in japan and I worry about her everyday! We planned to get married before the quake...it just made me want to speed things up. No room for delays. She is safe, for now. Does anyone know of a way to hurry this this paperwork up so I can get her here and away from the radiation and quakes!? Thanks.

hey, i understand what you mean about boarding passes, we had absolutely no ideea we would need them for anything so we didn`t have any.I had to turn my house upside down and finally found a receipt showing he used his card in my town,plus the paasport stamps and a airport hotel receipt and that was enough thank God!

Good luck and hope you find a way for you 2 to be together as soon as possible!