What do would you think?

[Aymerlu 3]

There is no talking to him. He has now changed his passwords to things we use to share and laughs about it. Telling me he is single.

That would be a hellova flag for me

[JenT 0]

...Why did he have to do this #######...

Because he's an immature, controlling a$$. You did the right thing. Give yourself time to grieve and heal. Trust me... life goes on.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Why do I miss him so much. I hate feeling like I have done something wrong.... Why did he have to do this #######... Ok I am crying now...

You miss him because you're still wrapped up in the emotions right now. This is the time to be strong because those emotions are going to pull at your heart strings and you're going to have the urge to go running back to him. Talk to some friends or family about it, write out a letter expressing how you feel but don't send it to him. It sucks...I've been there but just keep trusting what your gut was telling you and it will get easier with each day. Keep telling yourself that you deserve to be treated better than that and that you will never let somebody who you give your heart to, treat you that way...never.

Edited September 3, 2006 by Steven_and_Jinky

[*Robert* 2]

If it looks like a troll, writes like a troll, and acts like a troll....

You know the rest!

[Kajikit 65]

There is no talking to him. He has now changed his passwords to things we use to share and laughs about it. Telling me he is single.

In that case, I'm sorry, but it's over and he's too much of a jerk to be straightforward about it and just tell you that he doesn't want to get married... I doubt it's anything you've done wrong - he's an immature idiot, and you will seriously be better off without him in your life!

To anyone that is interested. I removed my I 129 F petition, and call him and told him. His first reply was GOOD now he is free again. But later he called asking how I could do that to him? He called me a f______ B____. He said we should have talked first. I explained to him I tried talking to him and he would not listen. But he told me he only felt like he had no life and that is why he did those things. He said he felt controlled by me and did not like it. I told him that being in a relationship sometimes one feels this way but that does not mean you cut that person out of your life. Like he did me, and he claimed he was single and that single people do not have fiancées. I explained to him that single, is one person living alone. And a couple is 2 people living one life together. And if he wants to be single than please don’t promises someone to marry them and break their heart like he has done mine. Than I hug up the phone on him. I will never know if this was a mistake or not? But one thing I do believe is as long as he felt a couple is 2 people having separate life’s it would never have worked. So I am glad I did what I did.

thanks everone

You did the right thing sweety... I know it hurts, but good for you!

[BelwinMills 0]

You did the right thing be strong and don't go back focus on the future. There are plenty more fish in the sea. Congrats on doing the right thing