What do would you think?

[KarenCee 3]

There is no talking to him. He has now changed his passwords to things we use to share and laughs about it. Telling me he is single.

He changed his password?? He's your fiancé, yet he tells YOU he's single??? Methinks something smells fishy. This reminds me of a question my ex asked me about his fiancé (weird I know, but he's rather pathetic). He asks if she tells him to never call her again, and never come into her yard again, does that mean it's over?

Sounds like you two need to have a serious talk.

[JenT 0]

go to www.lovingyou.com

you will find more people there that is in the same situation as you than here

Good luck

Yes... this is an immigration-based site.... not intended primarily for relationship advice, although many members going through the immigration process have asked relationship-related questions on occasion. You'll get your best information from people who know you, your fiance, and your situation.

Best wishes,

Jen

[hummm 0]

Thinks for all the advice, it is really shedding some light on what is going on and giving me the strength to do what I know I have to do.

[hummm 0]

To anyone that is interested. I removed my I 129 F petition, and call him and told him. His first reply was GOOD now he is free again. But later he called asking how I could do that to him? He called me a f______ B____. He said we should have talked first. I explained to him I tried talking to him and he would not listen. But he told me he only felt like he had no life and that is why he did those things. He said he felt controlled by me and did not like it. I told him that being in a relationship sometimes one feels this way but that does not mean you cut that person out of your life. Like he did me, and he claimed he was single and that single people do not have fiancées. I explained to him that single, is one person living alone. And a couple is 2 people living one life together. And if he wants to be single than please don’t promises someone to marry them and break their heart like he has done mine. Than I hug up the phone on him. I will never know if this was a mistake or not? But one thing I do believe is as long as he felt a couple is 2 people having separate life’s it would never have worked. So I am glad I did what I did.

thanks everone

[jjjimmy 0]

good luck

[Alex+R 0]

I will never know if this was a mistake or not

I can pretty confidently tell you that you did not make a mistake.

[KarenCee 3]

Sounds as if you made a good choice. Best of luck for the future.

[Mr. Big Dog 10,747]

He called me a f______ B____.

I am glad I did what I did.

Any you should be. You're too good for him.

[Fandango 1,440]

Is this a wind up?

[gimygirl 0]

[Mr. Big Dog 10,747]

Oh, c'mon. Play nice, will you?

[gimygirl 0]

Oh, c'mon. Play nice, will you?

*kicks the dirt* do i have to?? ugh .... only because you asked!

i AM allergic to it though!

Edited September 2, 2006 by gimygirl

[one...two...tree 2,762]

To anyone that is interested. I removed my I 129 F petition, and call him and told him. His first reply was GOOD now he is free again. But later he called asking how I could do that to him? He called me a f______ B____. He said we should have talked first. I explained to him I tried talking to him and he would not listen. But he told me he only felt like he had no life and that is why he did those things. He said he felt controlled by me and did not like it. I told him that being in a relationship sometimes one feels this way but that does not mean you cut that person out of your life. Like he did me, and he claimed he was single and that single people do not have fiancées. I explained to him that single, is one person living alone. And a couple is 2 people living one life together. And if he wants to be single than please don’t promises someone to marry them and break their heart like he has done mine. Than I hug up the phone on him. I will never know if this was a mistake or not? But one thing I do believe is as long as he felt a couple is 2 people having separate life’s it would never have worked. So I am glad I did what I did.

thanks everone

You did the right thing. Be strong now and don't let him talk you out of it - he showed you a taste of what he's really like to call you that name. Hang in there and trust that you will find someone who is mature and knows what he wants. Peace.

[hummm 0]

Why do I miss him so much. I hate feeling like I have done something wrong.... Why did he have to do this #######... Ok I am crying now...

[gimygirl 0]

Why do I miss him so much. I hate feeling like I have done something wrong.... Why did he have to do this #######... Ok I am crying now...

it hurts now ... but it does get better with time. you will emerge from the darkness and begin flourishing again ... you will be stronger. be yourself ~ that's a good thing.