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I would love to hear how everyone deals with the distance...What special ideas? Cam time seems to be our dates so is there a way to change it up and make different!!??

Last year for Ahmed's birthday I wasnt able to be with him. So I decided to give him a "special" cam show. I wrapped myself in a red bow and nothing else, I decorated the room in reds and had roses everywhere, needless to say he REALLY ENJOYED his birthday even though we were 6,000 miles apart. I think the best way to make the cam nights a lil more special is to do something sexy and exotic without telling your partner, just turn on the cam and SURPRISE!!! I cannot tell you the numerous times and ways I have surprised my husband with kinky lil cam shows, but I can tell you for sure it gets the passion and the excitement flowing, my motto to make every cam date special! Good luck!!!

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I would love to hear how everyone deals with the distance...What special ideas? Cam time seems to be our dates so is there a way to change it up and make different!!??

Hi! We watch movies together sometimes, we go: "1 2 3 PLAY" so we're watching it at the same time. :lol: We play whatever game gets in our way that we can both play. He is beyond nice hearing me go blabla over venues, dresses, white chairs or covered chairs and the whole wedding planning. We always have something to say... he pretty much knows all there is to know about me and my day. I can honestly say that my fiance is also my best friend. :blush:

We goof around a lot though, haha, sometimes being silly is just a good laugh while you watch time pass by. :P

Can't wait to see what people post here... maybe we can also get some good ideas.

Distance is momentary, true love is forever! =) :luv:

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I would love to hear how everyone deals with the distance...What special ideas? Cam time seems to be our dates so is there a way to change it up and make different!!??

We did similar to Ahmed and Amber. cammed every day and did silly things on cam, got all the talking out of the way and messages and so on but seeing as I was staying at my ex home I was not always alone but my now Husband was, so yeah he would do srtip teases for me and dance around lol it was hysterical sometimes. We would search the internet together at the same time looking at things we wanted for our car or home.

Just to be able to see his face made it so much easier every day, some days we didn't cam and it was like I had this huge hole in my heart. But as long as we talked every day it seemed better. Helped us get through , was easier for him as he had his job and friends here and things to do around the place but I was stuck in Australia staying at my ex home sleeping on a sofa and really had nothing to pass the time but with the time difference my mornings were all his. As he got home from work I was starting my day so the pc was on and we just kept it open so we could hear each other all the time.

It is hard but so worth it and you will get through it trust me just keep positive and know that you will be together.


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I would love to hear how everyone deals with the distance...What special ideas? Cam time seems to be our dates so is there a way to change it up and make different!!??

Hi lady how's it going? :luv:

When I miss him, I write him and keep the diary ongoing. When I see him next, it will be printed into a very special book so he'll know while he was away on Base my love for him was steadfast. (L) I can't wait till he gets home. Only couple more months! Yeah!! (L)


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I would love to hear how everyone deals with the distance...What special ideas? Cam time seems to be our dates so is there a way to change it up and make different!!??

I call my husband everyday 4-5 times and he does the same.everynight when I go to bed,I call him and when I open my eyes in the morning I call him again.When I have my days off from work,we are on the cam all day and all night,we sleep together.(of course when I go to bed,it's time for him to get up,time difference)it helps a little, not much.


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If cooking is your or his thing, try cooking the same meal together with the same ingredients and have a dinner date with candles. Works like a charm and keeps the spirits up for days!

Text or e-mail pictures of things you see that you think is exciting, lovely sunset, snowstorm, a cute kid, your ear, a mess you made, workmates.... whatever anything really. Helps keep each other involved in daily life.


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this is a great site for ideas :)

http://www.lovingfromadistance.com/thingsforldrcouplestodo.html

We play online games and watch movies together too! hehe we go 1,2,3 play as well. Sometimes playing rock paper and scissors just to know who's gonna do the countdown. hehe :)


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