Lost all faith - July VSC

[Lucy NY 1]

I have officially lost all faith - 5 month mark today and no NOA2. I can see a few more people are still waiting. We called and they toldus to call back after christmas as they didnt know when they would approve it.

Is anyone else feeling this utter feeling of uselessness and anger?? 5 shitty months to look at a petition and they cant even do that.....

[Ty & Nanda 3]

You Pretty much took the words out of my mouth... Our K-1 was recieved by uscis on July 30th 2010 and since then.....not a word ,nada... shoot I have even Been to Brasil 3 times since then figured at least have we would have the NOA2 by now... It absolutly does suck really bad, I feel your frustration. I have talked to a few folks that did file slightly before I did about 15-25 days and they have recently this week recieved the well anticipated NOA2... I hope yours and I and Fernandas comes through soon it has sure put a damper on the holiday season..Miss my girl like crazy even with phone, email and MSN messenger everyday nothing like holding her hand.. Keep your head up ! keep in touch with info looks like we filed around the same time

[katya_bg 0]

I feel the same...it's getting worst everyday (

We don't have any Christmas mood or something...

we don't need much just a touch or some sights for some working people there

[Spoon 7]

Here are a couple of things for you to think about.

When you get your NOA2, it will be that much sweeter. Also, things will move very quickly for you and there will be a lot of work to do after it pops. I'm also hoping that the consulates will have a decreased workload once the log jam breaks and things will move faster.

Next, you will have your whole life together (hopefully). While it sucks, just remember the end goal. If anything it puts you through a trial period that will hopefully strengthen your relationship.

Finally, how do you think people in the military feel when they have to deploy? My mom had to raise two kids while my dad spent two years in Vietnam. I'm not trying to say that our situation isn't bad and that we should all suck it up. However, it could be worse. Look at the good side. You have Skype. Your fiance is (hopefully) not getting shot at. You have something to be excited about. Can you imagine doing this before the internets? Just think of your fiance as a present you can't open yet.

Just hang in there and try to keep a positive frame of mind (I know it is hard).

[nenooye 8]

everything will be fine.. its about love and patient..but sometimes we can curse them..haha good luck for all..enjoy the shitty months

[lovetimhortons 1]

I hope you get it soon!! And I hope you get to spend the holidays together regardless.

[rich g 0]

we saw the saw thing. Some got there sooner and others got there more then the 5 months of what they say. Ours took a week after the 5 month wait time. Keep your head up and soon you will get it.

[Angelheart1962 6]

Good luck for a speedy NOA2, the waiting is awful, but soon forgotten when you get it xx

[Lucy NY 1]

I have been patient - ive paid my dues - ive waited my 5 months - the least they could do was update us with some correct information

[coraliesolms 47]

It can be frustrating. Because of various circumstances our application took 3 and a half years from start to finish, and that SUCKED, seeing everyone around me get interviews and even remove their conditions before I even hit the NVC. However, my point is, when I finally got off that plane in Kansas City and saw my husband and knew it was going to be forever from that moment... was worth every day of those years, and it all melted away. It is absolutely worth the tears and heartache to know that for the rest of your lives you can be together afterwards.

Keep the faith. Once you have cleared the USCIS, the NVC is a breeze and then its your interview! After that you get to torture eachother with your forever afters

[Ann&wes 1]

We are in the same situation. Our NOA1 was July 12, 2010 and just today we called them again and seek explanations on why until now there is no news about our application. According to the USCIS Rep., we are just 2days out of the processing time line and if by Monday there is no changes then we should call them back.. :-((

[Nik+Heather 121]

It IS frustrating, especially when you see people who have gone through faster. Lotsa people vent on here, and that's OK - hang in there! As was mentioned earlier, as soon as you get the approval (visa, go through POE) all this waiting and frustration and lonliness will fade away. Keep your eye on the prize, m'dear!

[Rebecca Jo 1,962]

Here are a couple of things for you to think about.

When you get your NOA2, it will be that much sweeter. Also, things will move very quickly for you and there will be a lot of work to do after it pops. I'm also hoping that the consulates will have a decreased workload once the log jam breaks and things will move faster.

Next, you will have your whole life together (hopefully). While it sucks, just remember the end goal. If anything it puts you through a trial period that will hopefully strengthen your relationship.

Finally, how do you think people in the military feel when they have to deploy? My mom had to raise two kids while my dad spent two years in Vietnam. I'm not trying to say that our situation isn't bad and that we should all suck it up. However, it could be worse. Look at the good side. You have Skype. Your fiance is (hopefully) not getting shot at. You have something to be excited about. Can you imagine doing this before the internets? Just think of your fiance as a present you can't open yet.

Just hang in there and try to keep a positive frame of mind (I know it is hard).

This is probably one of the best replies I've ever seen to this type of thread.

[The Clown 1]

I have officially lost all faith - 5 month mark today and no NOA2. I can see a few more people are still waiting. We called and they toldus to call back after christmas as they didnt know when they would approve it.

Is anyone else feeling this utter feeling of uselessness and anger?? 5 shitty months to look at a petition and they cant even do that.....

Do not loose faith ! i feel your pain, and your frustration, I will be my 5 months on the 23rd. Wake up everyday hoping the have not activated my uscis account and received my NOA2 on the mail. This is emotionally affecting me, it is painful. God bless us all patient souls...

[The Clown 1]

This is probably one of the best replies I've ever seen to this type of thread.

Waooooo it eaven helped me !!! eaven thought my fiancee does not have computer or home phone I have been spending over 50 dollars a week just on calling cards to be close to him. these are rought times it will be over soon !