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The company I work for is very unstable and has a lot of "problems" - 2 big layoffs since end of last year, another next week, and another at the end of September. PI's and industrial Psychologists have been called in because of "threatening, stalking, harassment" by someone within the company.

I've got on really well with the company and my job is not immediately under threat though I have heard that it will be changing. If the following scenario happened what would you think? How would you react, if at all?

If a VIP, actually, the EVP who is one of your immediate bosses in your company said “I heard a funny story last night.

A legal friend of mine was telling me about someone called <YOUR NAME>who comes from <WHERE YOU COME FROM> and lives in <COUNTY WHERE YOU LIVE> and she is”:…useless (and other words to that effect). “she’s an attorney in <COUNTY WHERE YOU LIVE> and she is useless…”

“< I asked her if she had red hair (I DO) and he said no, brown hair> What’s the likelihood of that!...so he thinks YOU'RE useless…”

What would you make of it, assuming you had Google searched this <YOUR NAME> who is supposedly an Attorney in <YOUR COUNTY> and nothing could be found? Would you conclude that this VIP is trying to tell you something, or would you think nothing of it?

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Wow I got confused even reading over that a second time. My thought... if a EVP is talking ####### like that I would have nothing to do with it.. I have seen lay offs where they will go around bad mouthing people saying things and the second you agree... BOOT! you are out the door.. personal situation though

May 1, 2006 - Submitted I-129F (Overnight) NSC

May 2, 2006 - NOA1

June 1, 2006 - Transferred to CSC

June 14, 2006 - Notice from CSC it was transferred

June 30, 2006 - Received IMBRA RFE (CSC)

July 5, 2006 - Touched (RFE Received)

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however you slice it, it don't sound good. get your resume updated and start floating it around just in case.

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What kind of imbecile would make up that rigamarole in hopes that you would get a hint? He's either stupid for doing so, or stupid for not putting two and two together and realizing that his legal friend was referring to you. In either case, he's really put his foot in his mouth. Hvae you considered calling him on it?

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Tell me .. "I heard of a EVP that was telling creepy weird stories then he got an employees resignation letter" *hand over resignation letter* *wave bye*

May 1, 2006 - Submitted I-129F (Overnight) NSC

May 2, 2006 - NOA1

June 1, 2006 - Transferred to CSC

June 14, 2006 - Notice from CSC it was transferred

June 30, 2006 - Received IMBRA RFE (CSC)

July 5, 2006 - Touched (RFE Received)

July 31, 2006 - APPROVED

August 5, 2006 Physical NOA2

August 15, 2006 NVC Received and Sent

August 22, 2006 AIT sent Packet 3

August 22, 2006 Packet 3 got lost in the mail... sending another.. :( :( :(

October 27, 2006 Interview

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I have been putting my resume out there simply because I don't know what the long-term future of the company is and I don't like having such an insecure environment. The last lay-off they had, they called people in one by one at 10am, had them escorted to their desks one by one by a security guard brought in specially, and they were out the door by 11am!

I did consider calling him on it, but don't want to come across as being super-sensitive or childish in rising to it, so I just laughed it off. It's irriating me though, as to why he would have done such a thing. Of my bosses, he was the one I always considered to be easy-going, and have open communication etc!

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K1 VISA & MARRIAGE - 8 MONTHS

17 February 2004 Sent I-129F petition CSC - It was APPROVED in 147 days

3 September 2004 INTERVIEW IN LONDON SUCCESSFUL VISA APPROVED! MARRIED OCTOBER 16, 2004

ADJUSTMENT OF STATUS - 5 MONTHS

4 January 2005 - Submitted applications for AOS and EAD - 12 May 2005 Conditional Permanent Residency Approved - interview in Santa Ana

4 June 2005 CPR 2-year Green Card arrives in mail

REMOVAL OF CONDITIONS - 3½ MONTHS

8 May 2007 - I-751 sent to CSC - 23 August 2007 - Approved - Card production ordered

30 August 2007 - 10 year Green Card received

K2 TIMELINE (Stayed behind in UK to finish school)

28 March 2005 - embassy interview & medical London - visa granted

01/18/06 Applications for AOS/EAD sent - 03/28/06 EAD approved

4/3/06 - RFE for AOS - requested new medical and vacc supplement

4/26/06 - approved without interview and welcome letter sent

05/02/2006 - Greencard arrives in mail

03/14/08 - Petition to Remove Conditions mailed to CSC delivered - 7/2/08 APPROVED

NATURALIZATION TIMELINE (for myself and son) 5 MONTHS

April 18, 2011 - N-400 Applications Mailed to AZ lockbox

April 21 (received April 25) NOAs

May 12 - FP Letters mailed

May 16 - Received FP appointment letters for June 8 at 11am

August 1 - Interview - approved for Oath Ceremony - OATH CEREMONY 28 SEPTEMBER

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Posted (edited)

its dog eat dog.. when layoffs are coming down the way .. people will do anything to get rid of others before them..

I didn't know the layoffs were coming yet (I was off the monday they announced) The second I walked in the door one of my 3 bosses (hahah) asked to see me and was asking me if I could bring up some great ideas to improve the company.. He said he wanted to see me excel.. so I told him some ideas.. I got out of the meeting with him .. to my desk .. later that day I got laid off.. .. basically his job was being eliminated and wanted to say he had ideas.. so they laid me off and he got a "similar" position to mine.. demotion but he kept his pay..

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May 1, 2006 - Submitted I-129F (Overnight) NSC

May 2, 2006 - NOA1

June 1, 2006 - Transferred to CSC

June 14, 2006 - Notice from CSC it was transferred

June 30, 2006 - Received IMBRA RFE (CSC)

July 5, 2006 - Touched (RFE Received)

July 31, 2006 - APPROVED

August 5, 2006 Physical NOA2

August 15, 2006 NVC Received and Sent

August 22, 2006 AIT sent Packet 3

August 22, 2006 Packet 3 got lost in the mail... sending another.. :( :( :(

October 27, 2006 Interview

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Posted

Refuse to listen to that ####### from now on and just do your job. You'll get sucked into the drama and become guilty by association. Rise above it and keep your options open.

Jen

8-30-05 Met David at a restaurant in Germany

3-28-06 David 'officially' proposed

4-26-06 I-129F mailed

9-25-06 Interview: APPROVED!

10-16-06 Flt to US, POE Detroit

11-5-06 Married

7-2-07 Green card received

9-12-08 Filed for divorce

12-5-08 Court hearing - divorce final

A great marriage is not when the "perfect couple" comes together.

It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.

Posted
Refuse to listen to that ####### from now on and just do your job. You'll get sucked into the drama and become guilty by association. Rise above it and keep your options open.

Jen

good advice sister jenn...i

Refuse to listen to that ####### from now on and just do your job. You'll get sucked into the drama and become guilty by association. Rise above it and keep your options open.

Jen

good advice sister jenn...i

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