I figured out why USCIS takes so long!!!

[JenT 0]

Sounds like you made a wise decision. Too many people ignore those red flags until it's too late....

Best wishes,

Jen

[Fandango 1,440]

Good luck in whatever you choose, Soni

But if this is a case of you speaking in anger...perhaps you should wait until you are more calm & make sure you don't act in haste.

[Veiled Princess 1]

I don't think you acted out of maturity by posting this here.

[KarenCee 3]

Methinks this might wind up being a long thread.

Mature or not, this IS Off Topic. As you've seen, anything and everything can and most likely WILL get posted.

[Veiled Princess 1]

Methinks this might wind up being a long thread.

Mature or not, this IS Off Topic. As you've seen, anything and everything can and most likely WILL get posted.

It doesn't matter where on the forum she posted it... just the fact that she posted it in a public forum at all shows her own level of immaturity while she's here whining that her man is so immature for wanting to be with her.

[StupidJourney 0]

Methinks this might wind up being a long thread.

Mature or not, this IS Off Topic. As you've seen, anything and everything can and most likely WILL get posted.

It doesn't matter where on the forum she posted it... just the fact that she posted it in a public forum at all shows her own level of immaturity while she's here whining that her man is so immature for wanting to be with her.

It's not a matter of maturity. It's a matter of the fact that I alienated my whole family and rriends by daring to love someone from halfway across the world that now I have no one to vent to. I'm sorry if I offended you, but I just needed to post this somewhere. In the future, I'll create a blog somewhere since I'm so offensive. Sorry. Sheesh.

[sarah and hicham 3]

Methinks this might wind up being a long thread.

Mature or not, this IS Off Topic. As you've seen, anything and everything can and most likely WILL get posted.

It doesn't matter where on the forum she posted it... just the fact that she posted it in a public forum at all shows her own level of immaturity while she's here whining that her man is so immature for wanting to be with her.

Well I've seen much worse than this before! She is just looking for a little sympathy perhaps, but who cares? Everyone does it at some point. We don't need to judge her especially when we don't even know what she is talking about!

[Veiled Princess 1]

Well I've seen much worse than this before! She is just looking for a little sympathy perhaps, but who cares? Everyone does it at some point. We don't need to judge her especially when we don't even know what she is talking about!

She gave us a quick rundown of her life story

[Fandango 1,440]

Well I've seen much worse than this before! She is just looking for a little sympathy perhaps, but who cares? Everyone does it at some point. We don't need to judge her especially when we don't even know what she is talking about!

She gave us a quick rundown of her life story

Who cares VP? Seriously, does it affect you in any way?

[Veiled Princess 1]

It's not a matter of maturity. It's a matter of the fact that I alienated my whole family and rriends by daring to love someone from halfway across the world that now I have no one to vent to. I'm sorry if I offended you, but I just needed to post this somewhere. In the future, I'll create a blog somewhere since I'm so offensive. Sorry. Sheesh.

I am not offeneded I just commented on your post, which you should have expected when you decided to post it here.

OK let me try my hand at this 'supportive thing'...

I am sorry that you found a man who loves you so much that he wants to be with you immediately and is saddened at the thought of spending a year or more away from you while waiting on this hellish process.... I'm sorry that his lack of patience to begin his life with you has given you the idea that he's not mature enough for you or that he wants to control you.

sheesh, where have all the good men gone?

[Lewis 0]

[Alex+R 0]

Methinks this might wind up being a long thread.

Mature or not, this IS Off Topic. As you've seen, anything and everything can and most likely WILL get posted.

It doesn't matter where on the forum she posted it... just the fact that she posted it in a public forum at all shows her own level of immaturity while she's here whining that her man is so immature for wanting to be with her.

It's not a matter of maturity. It's a matter of the fact that I alienated my whole family and rriends by daring to love someone from halfway across the world that now I have no one to vent to. I'm sorry if I offended you, but I just needed to post this somewhere. In the future, I'll create a blog somewhere since I'm so offensive. Sorry. Sheesh.

I was just about to suggest that might be the case. People really don't understand this sort of thing, and the last thing you want to hear/sense from your friends/family during a break-up is "I told you so.' If I were to break up with Rey, I'd probably come here first to vent too! Nothing immature about that in my book.

It's not a matter of maturity. It's a matter of the fact that I alienated my whole family and rriends by daring to love someone from halfway across the world that now I have no one to vent to. I'm sorry if I offended you, but I just needed to post this somewhere. In the future, I'll create a blog somewhere since I'm so offensive. Sorry. Sheesh.

I am not offeneded I just commented on your post, which you should have expected when you decided to post it here.

OK let me try my hand at this 'supportive thing'...

I am sorry that you found a man who loves you so much that he wants to be with you immediately and is saddened at the thought of spending a year or more away from you while waiting on this hellish process.... I'm sorry that his lack of patience to begin his life with you has given you the idea that he's not mature enough for you or that he wants to control you.

sheesh, where have all the good men gone?

VP that was SO inappropriate. Leave her alone. It's not your problem she doesn't want to be in a controlling relationship where her partner can't respect the practicalities of HER life as well. Ultimatums ARE controlling behavior and a sign of future abuse. We all want to be with our respective SOs, but obviously most of us can't be. Don't you love yours enough to move over there RIGHT NOW?

[Veiled Princess 1]

VP that was SO inappropriate. Leave her alone. It's not your problem she doesn't want to be in a controlling relationship where her partner can't respect the practicalities of HER life as well. Ultimatums ARE controlling behavior and a sign of future abuse. We all want to be with our respective SOs, but obviously most of us can't be. Don't you love yours enough to move over there RIGHT NOW?

Absolutely and if I could I would board the plane tonight!

[Alex+R 0]

VP that was SO inappropriate. Leave her alone. It's not your problem she doesn't want to be in a controlling relationship where her partner can't respect the practicalities of HER life as well. Ultimatums ARE controlling behavior and a sign of future abuse. We all want to be with our respective SOs, but obviously most of us can't be. Don't you love yours enough to move over there RIGHT NOW?

Absolutely and if I could I would board the plane tonight!

But you can't, right? Yeah. Well, neither could Sonicliz. A mature SO would respect and understand that. Hers didn't.

[Veiled Princess 1]

VP that was SO inappropriate. Leave her alone. It's not your problem she doesn't want to be in a controlling relationship where her partner can't respect the practicalities of HER life as well. Ultimatums ARE controlling behavior and a sign of future abuse. We all want to be with our respective SOs, but obviously most of us can't be. Don't you love yours enough to move over there RIGHT NOW?

Absolutely and if I could I would board the plane tonight!

But you can't, right? Yeah. Well, neither could Sonicliz. A mature SO would respect and understand that. Hers didn't.

She is the one to cancel the petition and call it off right? I mean did he really try to come over and force her to leave?

My husband has begged me to come to him before and I think it's sweet... not controlling.