please help me i m in great troible

[sweet123000 0]

hello everyone

i came here in USA from India by k3 visa . Everything was going good. i got my work permit , i got my social security number. but since few day me ans my husband having serious argument over everything, which is going pretty bad. now i m worried what is going to happen next. i wanna go back to my parents for few days, but i don't want to leave him forever. i dont know what to do .

if he will stop supporting me anymore , then is it possible that I'll get my green card??????????? can i stay here in America without his support or not????

if there any law which will in the favor of foreign spouse??? or all the laws here support American citizen only ???

if i go to india then would it be possible for me to come back?????

please reply me any one ....... please .....

i need help......

[DanielParul 50]

Have you applied for AOS? You can travel to India for some time and come back to the US if you have the GC in hand or AP.

Also if you are recently married and just moved here then all the fighting might just be adjustment period and nothing more serious yet. Try talking instead of fighting over every small thing. Thats all I can say based on your post.

[lostinblue 1,989]

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[sweet123000 0]

Thank you lostinblue

the link u gave me provided me a lot of information. i still have few questions.

we filed for AOS , and in few days i have interview for green card. It is going to almost a year since we were married and i came here almost 6 months after the wedding.

according the link i cam still file for permanent resident ship if he does extreme qruelty. so my qoestion is how i m going to prove that cruelty ??? shalll i take pictures when anything like that will happen ???? how???

[JohnAnwesha 4]

Thank you lostinblue

the link u gave me provided me a lot of information. i still have few questions.

we filed for AOS , and in few days i have interview for green card. It is going to almost a year since we were married and i came here almost 6 months after the wedding.

according the link i cam still file for permanent resident ship if he does extreme qruelty. so my qoestion is how i m going to prove that cruelty ??? shalll i take pictures when anything like that will happen ???? how???

Hi lini2010,

If you have GC and AP you can travel and come back.But is your husband being cruel to you?If so then I think I have heard of some way the spouse could file,but since am not sure I will not attempt to confuse you.

If the marriage could be worked on then nothing like it.I wish you good luck dear.

Anwesha

[sachinky 464]

From what I understand about the K-3, they are a multiple entry visa and you do NOT require the AP to move in and out of the country. You can leave and enter anytime you want. Just make sure you're not spending a ton of time outside the U.S. Someone else can correct me if this is wrong.

When is your interview? You will require the support of your husband at the AOS interview. If he doesn't cooperate or pulls his I-864, your AOS will be denied and you will have to leave the U.S.

From your post, it seems like you guys are fighting a lot--that doesn't sound like "extreme cruelty" to me. The VAWA is not to be taken lightly. Don't attempt to prove extreme cruelty if none is taking place.

Also, you seem a lot more concerned about how to stay in the U.S. rather than working on your marriage. Focus on the latter. Just my two cents.

Good luck.

[NathanC 1]

You guys try to work it out. It's just the adjustment period. Try to understand that life here is very different than the old country and it's only normal you feel so anxious, and it's also normal for him to be frustrated.

Just relax, it will be better. My advice, if you go back now even temporarily everything will be ruined. If he's violent and abusive, then you're protected by US law.

[SuperDuper! 230]

You guys try to work it out. It's just the adjustment period. Try to understand that life here is very different than the old country and it's only normal you feel so anxious, and it's also normal for him to be frustrated.

Just relax, it will be better. My advice, if you go back now even temporarily everything will be ruined. If he's violent and abusive, then you're protected by US law.

Pick your battles carefully, or you will be battling all the time. You will be just fine.

Edited April 17, 2010 by Hopp

[zenaxe 22]

hello everyone

i came here in USA from India by k3 visa . Everything was going good. i got my work permit , i got my social security number. but since few day me ans my husband having serious argument over everything, which is going pretty bad. now i m worried what is going to happen next. i wanna go back to my parents for few days, but i don't want to leave him forever. i dont know what to do .

if he will stop supporting me anymore , then is it possible that I'll get my green card??????????? can i stay here in America without his support or not????

if there any law which will in the favor of foreign spouse??? or all the laws here support American citizen only ???

if i go to india then would it be possible for me to come back?????

please reply me any one ....... please .....

i need help......

You''ve been arguing recently for a few days...and? I would hope your marriage is stronger than that and could weather a few days of arguing. It wouldn't be pleasant but hopefully you can resolve this whatever it might be.