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I read the thread which has now been locked - the one where Shonnie freaked. I have one thing to say... we need to be more understanding of others. If someone is freaking back off... no need to score points.

Shonnie has been under extreme stress to the point where she is having physical ailments. Personally, I cannot even begin to imagine what she is going through.

We all go through stress in this damned visa process, some have a lot more to deal with than others. Granted she freaked and said things she should not have.... but was there really such a need to provoke her?

Where has all the love gone??? Where is the caring and understanding???

Can we please bring it back to VJ?


Paul and I met on the Bazaar on the 14th January (he joined my progressive rock forum that day)

July 3rd he flew to England to meet me

We fell in love while he drove all over the place coz I cannot read maps (we were supposed to go to Ingleton - but touched Darlington 4 times, Pierce Bridge 6 times, Scotch Corner twice and Bernard Castle twice and we never did make it to Ingleton)

It has been so long and so much has happened in between...

Arrived in Houston on October 29th 2006

Married 17th November 2006

Lost my father 8th January 2007 (all dates are a blur after this)

Conditional Green Card dated 24th October 2007

I-751 posted on 6th August 2009

Received on 7th August 2009 in VT

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I read the thread which has now been locked - the one where Shonnie freaked. I have one thing to say... we need to be more understanding of others. If someone is freaking back off... no need to score points.

Shonnie has been under extreme stress to the point where she is having physical ailments. Personally, I cannot even begin to imagine what she is going through.

We all go through stress in this damned visa process, some have a lot more to deal with than others. Granted she freaked and said things she should not have.... but was there really such a need to provoke her?

Where has all the love gone??? Where is the caring and understanding???

Can we please bring it back to VJ?

Link please?

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I read the thread which has now been locked - the one where Shonnie freaked. I have one thing to say... we need to be more understanding of others. If someone is freaking back off... no need to score points.

Shonnie has been under extreme stress to the point where she is having physical ailments. Personally, I cannot even begin to imagine what she is going through.

We all go through stress in this damned visa process, some have a lot more to deal with than others. Granted she freaked and said things she should not have.... but was there really such a need to provoke her?

Where has all the love gone??? Where is the caring and understanding???

Can we please bring it back to VJ?

Link please?

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...2732&st=255


"The fact that we are here today to debate raising America’s debt limit is a sign of leadership failure. It is a sign that the U.S. Government can’t pay its own bills. It is a sign that we now depend on ongoing financial assistance from foreign countries to finance our Government’s reckless fiscal policies."

Senator Barack Obama
Senate Floor Speech on Public Debt
March 16, 2006



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I agree with the OP. VisaJourney is for supporting each other, not attacking because of words on a computer screen! The end goal is the same, a visa for our SO's.

Try to imagine what it feels like to be apart from your loved one for such a long time. It is a living nightmare where you just try to get by one day at a time. Every waking minute is consumed with immigration worry. Now imagine one of your only releases, was a website of others going thru it. Then, because you 'typed out of turn' you are the brunt of complete threads of drama.

Come on VJ'ers, try to have compassion.

Jackie

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You are the same poster who once called me a b!tch.....right?

:lol: people just don't want bad things said to themselves. Some people like to dish it out but never like it in return. :lol:


"The fact that we are here today to debate raising America’s debt limit is a sign of leadership failure. It is a sign that the U.S. Government can’t pay its own bills. It is a sign that we now depend on ongoing financial assistance from foreign countries to finance our Government’s reckless fiscal policies."

Senator Barack Obama
Senate Floor Speech on Public Debt
March 16, 2006



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Shonnie called me a terrorist once. I was proud as punch after that.


"The fact that we are here today to debate raising America’s debt limit is a sign of leadership failure. It is a sign that the U.S. Government can’t pay its own bills. It is a sign that we now depend on ongoing financial assistance from foreign countries to finance our Government’s reckless fiscal policies."

Senator Barack Obama
Senate Floor Speech on Public Debt
March 16, 2006



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"Mercy is for the weak. We do not train to be merciful here."

*gives the Karate Kid a chop*

Wooooooo!


"To be the man, you've got to beat the man. And I'm the man."

"Ladies....you can't be first but you can be next."

WOOOOOOOOOO!

Flair 3:16 means you just got chopped

"IV"

*Touched* - All night long...wooooo!

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You are the same poster who once called me a b!tch.....right?

Who? Melo or jmagayreh? :unsure:


OUR COMPLETE TIMELINE

Latest steps:

10/26/2006- Consulate receives case (seriously, one month to receive the case?? BS!), and packet 3 that I sent even before they had received the case.

01/02/2007- Interview!!!!!!!!!!!!! Got a 221(g)

01/23/2007- Second Interview. VISA granted!!!

01/29/2007- VISA arrived.... no envelope though. I'm gonna contact them and see what happened this time!

01/31/2007- I'll have to send them one last financial support evidence.

02/01/2007- Evidence sent

02/02/2007- Evidence received by Consulate

02/06/2007- Consulate sends envelope!

02/07/2007- Envelope received!!!

02/10/2007- Flew to the USA!!!!!!

04/17/2007- Wedding day!!!

--- Wish us luck!!! ---

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If everyone worshipped at the temple of Flair, life would be a better place.

Full of limo rides, leer jets and trips to space mountain.

Woooooooo! what? Woooooo!


"To be the man, you've got to beat the man. And I'm the man."

"Ladies....you can't be first but you can be next."

WOOOOOOOOOO!

Flair 3:16 means you just got chopped

"IV"

*Touched* - All night long...wooooo!

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If everyone worshipped at the temple of Flair, life would be a better place.

Full of limo rides, leer jets and trips to space mountain.

Woooooooo! what? Woooooo!

:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

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Adjustment of Status

July 1 2006 - Sent EAD & AOS packet

Sept 19 2006 - EAD APPROVED

Sept 22 2006 - AOS APPROVED

Sept 23 2006 - EAD card arrived

Sept 29 2006 - GC arrived!!!

Removal of Conditions

Jul 9 2008 - Filed @ VSC

Feb 25 2009 - Transferred to CSC

June 20 2009 - Card production ordered

NATURALIZATION

Aug 24 2009 - Mailed N-400 priority mail

Aug 26 2009 - rec'd at TX Lockbox

Aug 27 2009 - NOA1 (rec'd 8/31)

Aug 28 2009 - check cashed

Sept 4 2009 - biometrics notice [rec'd Sept 9]

Sept 25 2009 - Biometrics

Oct 17 2009 - Email about file transfer for interview

Oct 21 2009 - Interview Letter Rec'd

Dec 8 2009 - Interview - PASSED!!!!!!

Dec 19 2009 - Oath Letter rec'd

Jan 14 2010 - OATH CEREMONY!!!!

Jan 15 2010 - Passport app.

Jan 21 2010 - Nat. cert. returned

Jan 22 2010 - Passport rec'd

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