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[richlyn 0]

hell to everyone

i have to go back in the philippines even i dont want it, because my husband USC want me to get out of his house he told me that he dont love me anymore so he just want me to send back in the philippines,i have two children and his not own children we argue too much almost everyday 1 week we not talk, me and my children has 2 years gc. i dont really like the way he treat me, he always complain evrything like expences even i help to buy grocery and give my salaryi know is not e enough but atleast i help, he always slapping on my face what hes done to me that make me feel so bad i felt like i trash and nothing he say bad something to me and my children my daugther 4 years old he put my daugther on the rain outside for 20 munites my son told me about it because i was in work that was happen she got wet because she doesnt listen like clean her bedroom and pick the mess and he always ask my son to help him like clean the house clean the 18 wheeler truck it was very cold outside with no jacket or hut sometimes mow grass he treat my 9 years old son like adult whitch is not really bad but i felt sad to my son that it was hard for him...my husband bought ticket for us for next week and i dont want to leave because i have work here. i just want to know if i can able to comeback here with my children after visit or stay in philippines because he said he going to call to uscis to deport me if i dont leave this country and ban here in america.and how long to process the devoce here?

Is that possible for him to deport me before or after the divorce is final?

I am holding a 2-yr GC and it will expire on June 2011. Can I still file for removing of conditions after all that happened or he can ban me for getting one?

sorry my english so bad hope you understand...thanks and i would appreaciate

lyn

[wmtc 0]

YOUR HUSBAND cannot deport U, you still could file for your roc with a waiver, if u get divorce. I don't know to much about helping u in your situation but someone here will put more input in your situation, u came to the right place to get advice. wish u all the best!

Edited December 5, 2009 by wmtc

[Dakine 26]

hell to everyone

i have to go back in the philippines even i dont want it, because my husband USC want me to get out of his house he told me that he dont love me anymore so he just want me to send back in the philippines,i have two children and his not own children we argue too much almost everyday 1 week we not talk, me and my children has 2 years gc. i dont really like the way he treat me, he always complain evrything like expences even i help to buy grocery and give my salaryi know is not e enough but atleast i help, he always slapping on my face what hes done to me that make me feel so bad i felt like i trash and nothing he say bad something to me and my children my daugther 4 years old he put my daugther on the rain outside for 20 munites my son told me about it because i was in work that was happen she got wet because she doesnt listen like clean her bedroom and pick the mess and he always ask my son to help him like clean the house clean the 18 wheeler truck it was very cold outside with no jacket or hut sometimes mow grass he treat my 9 years old son like adult whitch is not really bad but i felt sad to my son that it was hard for him...my husband bought ticket for us for next week and i dont want to leave because i have work here. i just want to know if i can able to comeback here with my children after visit or stay in philippines because he said he going to call to uscis to deport me if i dont leave this country and ban here in america.and how long to process the devoce here?

Is that possible for him to deport me before or after the divorce is final?

I am holding a 2-yr GC and it will expire on June 2011. Can I still file for removing of conditions after all that happened or he can ban me for getting one?

sorry my english so bad hope you understand...thanks and i would appreaciate

lyn

He cannot have you deported. YES you can go out of the US and return since you have your GC. Kids can go with you also.

When the divorce is final you can file a I-751 and remove conditions getting a 10 year GC. Kids also. After that you will have to wait 5 years from the date of your first GC to apply for US citizenship.

Ingat

[-B&T- 1]

hell to everyone

i have to go back in the philippines even i dont want it, because my husband USC want me to get out of his house he told me that he dont love me anymore so he just want me to send back in the philippines,i have two children and his not own children we argue too much almost everyday 1 week we not talk, me and my children has 2 years gc. i dont really like the way he treat me, he always complain evrything like expences even i help to buy grocery and give my salaryi know is not e enough but atleast i help, he always slapping on my face what hes done to me that make me feel so bad i felt like i trash and nothing he say bad something to me and my children my daugther 4 years old he put my daugther on the rain outside for 20 munites my son told me about it because i was in work that was happen she got wet because she doesnt listen like clean her bedroom and pick the mess and he always ask my son to help him like clean the house clean the 18 wheeler truck it was very cold outside with no jacket or hut sometimes mow grass he treat my 9 years old son like adult whitch is not really bad but i felt sad to my son that it was hard for him...my husband bought ticket for us for next week and i dont want to leave because i have work here. i just want to know if i can able to comeback here with my children after visit or stay in philippines because he said he going to call to uscis to deport me if i dont leave this country and ban here in america.and how long to process the devoce here?

Is that possible for him to deport me before or after the divorce is final?

I am holding a 2-yr GC and it will expire on June 2011. Can I still file for removing of conditions after all that happened or he can ban me for getting one?

sorry my english so bad hope you understand...thanks and i would appreaciate

lyn

Did you called police and filed complain against your husband? You can lift conditions on your own and don't have to stay with that monster. I feel sorry for you and your kids if you have friends or relatives where you could stay and feel safe pack your things and move out. Don't be afraid, he cannot deport you, move out. Some members here were approved through VAWA self-petition .Gather evidence that your marriage is genuine and bona-fide and very important contact police when he harms you and your children again so you have evidence of the abuse and that MF will be in jail. Good luck. Be strong.

[Krikit 1,163]

Your husband cannot deport you. That comes under the jurisdiction of Homeland Security.

Moving this thread from Removing Conditions to Effects of Major Changes. You can take a look in that forum to find some answers, or maybe someone knowledgeable there can help you. All the best.

[wexford65 0]

This is bigger than a pure immigration issue. Try to find a local group that cares for abused spouses, as that is what it sounds like you are. Your husband is bullying you into boarding a flight against your will. He cannot do this, legally or morally, and you have no need to board that flight unless you want to.

Get some advice and don't let him push you into a situation you neither want nor need.

As others have posted your husband has no involvement in a decision for you to be deported. The reason he is likely trying to move you out of the country is that he knows he will potentially have to provide financial support int he event you are without income.

If you want to stay in the US with your children ignore his request for you to leave and get someone on your side to help you understand your options.

Good luck,

Your husband cannot deport you. That comes under the jurisdiction of Homeland Security.

Moving this thread from Removing Conditions to Effects of Major Changes. You can take a look in that forum to find some answers, or maybe someone knowledgeable there can help you. All the best.

[happywifeymom 4]

hell to everyone

i have to go back in the philippines even i dont want it, because my husband USC want me to get out of his house he told me that he dont love me anymore so he just want me to send back in the philippines,i have two children and his not own children we argue too much almost everyday 1 week we not talk, me and my children has 2 years gc. i dont really like the way he treat me, he always complain evrything like expences even i help to buy grocery and give my salaryi know is not e enough but atleast i help, he always slapping on my face what hes done to me that make me feel so bad i felt like i trash and nothing he say bad something to me and my children my daugther 4 years old he put my daugther on the rain outside for 20 munites my son told me about it because i was in work that was happen she got wet because she doesnt listen like clean her bedroom and pick the mess and he always ask my son to help him like clean the house clean the 18 wheeler truck it was very cold outside with no jacket or hut sometimes mow grass he treat my 9 years old son like adult whitch is not really bad but i felt sad to my son that it was hard for him...my husband bought ticket for us for next week and i dont want to leave because i have work here. i just want to know if i can able to comeback here with my children after visit or stay in philippines because he said he going to call to uscis to deport me if i dont leave this country and ban here in america.and how long to process the devoce here?

Is that possible for him to deport me before or after the divorce is final?

I am holding a 2-yr GC and it will expire on June 2011. Can I still file for removing of conditions after all that happened or he can ban me for getting one?

sorry my english so bad hope you understand...thanks and i would appreaciate

lyn

Hi Rich, sorry to hear ur situation. Huwag na huwag kng umuwi dahil hindi ka na makakabalik dito ever once na mg expire green card mo. Call d police when he hurts u and ur kids. ASk help call 911 bsta wat ever happens dont go home. There is no way he can deport you as long as u can prove there was a bonafide marriage. That happened to my frnd at hindi na nga sya nakabalik dto at anak nya.

No matter what happens dont go home, be strong for ur kids wag kang mtatakot sa knya.Let him file for divorce at kahit dvorce ka na sa knya hindi ka nya puedeng pauwiin.

Edited December 5, 2009 by happywifeymom

[Krikit 1,163]

I am sorry, but it is english only outside the regional forums.

[selma&elvir 0]

You should call police and report abusse of you and your children, I wish you everything the best

[Brother Hesekiel 2,235]

Did you perhaps just get custody of your 2 children?

[richlyn 0]

Did you perhaps just get custody of your 2 children?

the kids have been here for 8 months. they are good kids. they have no manners or skills. but i am working with them. there mother sits in front of this pc 6 to 10 hours a day while the kids watch cartoons. the tv is a baby sitter. and no, there has been no abuse. maybe u should ask the richlyn to tell all these folks the truth. then u gus can call her a MF, this is the husband. i don't like people who bash others without all the facts. thanks and have a great day.

You should call police and report abusse of you and your children, I wish you everything the best

get the facts before u give out this kind of advice. thanks

[Rhiannercakes 14]

Did you perhaps just get custody of your 2 children?

the kids have been here for 8 months. they are good kids. they have no manners or skills. but i am working with them. there mother sits in front of this pc 6 to 10 hours a day while the kids watch cartoons. the tv is a baby sitter. and no, there has been no abuse. maybe u should ask the richlyn to tell all these folks the truth. then u gus can call her a MF, this is the husband. i don't like people who bash others without all the facts. thanks and have a great day.

You should call police and report abusse of you and your children, I wish you everything the best

get the facts before u give out this kind of advice. thanks

You're the husband on the wife's account?

Talk about invasion of privacy.

[Nikita2Charles 32]

I hope everybody is safe, maybe go for Counseling if both side agree to it. marriage is not easy, it's the Biggest Roller Coaster in the world, in life. What's important at the end of it you look back and ask yourself worth is worth it.

Now that you are reading this, you can see how your wife feel, at time communication can be a major factor, maybe she hasn't been able to express her thought to you clearly, so at least take it on a positive note not as a bashing.

God Bless!!

Edited December 5, 2009 by Nikita2Charles

[richlyn 0]

Did you perhaps just get custody of your 2 children?

the kids have been here for 8 months. they are good kids. they have no manners or skills. but i am working with them. there mother sits in front of this pc 6 to 10 hours a day while the kids watch cartoons. the tv is a baby sitter. and no, there has been no abuse. maybe u should ask the richlyn to tell all these folks the truth. then u gus can call her a MF, this is the husband. i don't like people who bash others without all the facts. thanks and have a great day.

You should call police and report abusse of you and your children, I wish you everything the best

get the facts before u give out this kind of advice. thanks

You're the husband on the wife's account?

Talk about invasion of privacy.

joint account. would u like people lying about u?

[richlyn 0]

I hope everybody is safe, maybe go for Counseling if both side agree to it. marriage is not easy, it's the Biggest Roller Coaster in the world, in life. What's important at the end of it you look back and ask yourself worth is worth it.

Now that you are reading this, you can see how your wife feel, at time communication can be a major factor, maybe she hasn't been able to express her thought to you clearly, so at least take it on a positive note not as a bashing.

God Bless!!

thank u for good advice. it is difficult when languages are different. life here has been a large adjustment for her. i relize this. i try to help , but she has friends here that live very different. i work 70 hours per week . i have no regrets in our marriage. i love her then, i love her now. but some here are giving very bad advice. that hurts when i read it.