MENA,How old is your spouse?

[Aymsgirl 0]

I'm sure you will Lisa! lol As long as Loreal is in business, I'll never be gray!

I'm the same way. When I turned 30 these little wirey white hairs started coming in. I hate how they are the ones that stick straight up and are different from the others...it's like they are saying hey notice me on this woman? LOL. I bought some Loreal last night to dye my do.

[brnidokiegurl 0]

You hit the nail on the head when you said it's like starting your life over again. That's exactly how I felt after my husband got here. Once I got back to reality after dreaming and going through the visa process I realized I was starting all over again. Cripes! I'm too old to start all over again.

Man I'm sorry for sounding so negative about the situation. It just feels better to let it out a little.

He's 30...was 28 when he got here. In terms of age he should've had his act together but living at home having his sisters wait on him didn't help. No one telling him "no" didn't help either. IMO ppl should have to live on their own, completely, for at least a solid year before they get married.

I second that

It is very difficult to be practically starting your entire life over again, having been deprived of

the normal life that men his age should be living. Inexperience, being catered to and not having any purpose

or responsibilities can set a man back many years.

i prob have the largest age difference of allllllllll, ahmed was the oldest and luckly he did have some responsibility attached to his store, but no responsibility attatched to real life other than taking care of himself, (wake up get out of bed, eat what was given, go to work, back etc) and i doubt he has ever been told no. At this point repeating everything i say is getting old (and this is with good english) and as of now walking on tip toes as not to say something he (will take wrong) ends, sorry your not in kansas anymore...but we are fine ha but with age patience goes completely down the drain also (your beauty operator is your best friend)

[Nagishkaw 510]

You hit the nail on the head when you said it's like starting your life over again. That's exactly how I felt after my husband got here. Once I got back to reality after dreaming and going through the visa process I realized I was starting all over again. Cripes! I'm too old to start all over again.

Man I'm sorry for sounding so negative about the situation. It just feels better to let it out a little.

He's 30...was 28 when he got here. In terms of age he should've had his act together but living at home having his sisters wait on him didn't help. No one telling him "no" didn't help either. IMO ppl should have to live on their own, completely, for at least a solid year before they get married.

I second that

It is very difficult to be practically starting your entire life over again, having been deprived of

the normal life that men his age should be living. Inexperience, being catered to and not having any purpose

or responsibilities can set a man back many years.

i prob have the largest age difference of allllllllll, ahmed was the oldest and luckly he did have some responsibility attached to his store, but no responsibility attatched to real life other than taking care of himself, (wake up get out of bed, eat what was given, go to work, back etc) and i doubt he has ever been told no. At this point repeating everything i say is getting old (and this is with good english) and as of now walking on tip toes as not to say something he (will take wrong) ends, sorry your not in kansas anymore...but we are fine ha but with age patience goes completely down the drain also (your beauty operator is your best friend)

Maybeline and night renewal booster are my best friends.

[M_n_M 1]

Wow, I think I'm the baby of the MENA women!! I'm 21 and my husband is 29. We're both Aries...I'm the first child of three, and he's the baby of 7 (with a big gap between child 6 and him). We get along great though! Both serious and grown up when we have to be, and childish and crazy when we want to be. It's fabulous!

[JeanneVictoria 55]

My valentine is 27

[notime4haterz 0]

Wow, I think I'm the baby of the MENA women!! I'm 21 and my husband is 29. We're both Aries...I'm the first child of three, and he's the baby of 7 (with a big gap between child 6 and him). We get along great though! Both serious and grown up when we have to be, and childish and crazy when we want to be. It's fabulous!

Although I think there was one other girl who was 20. She posted on here like once, and then never really came back.

I'm sure you will Lisa! lol As long as Loreal is in business, I'll never be gray!

I'm the same way. When I turned 30 these little wirey white hairs started coming in. I hate how they are the ones that stick straight up and are different from the others...it's like they are saying hey notice me on this woman? LOL. I bought some Loreal last night to dye my do.

That's the same thing my mom complains about! She said the white hairs are very thick and her hair is very fine I guess I've got some genetics to look forward to

[Aymerlu 3]

I'm sure you will Lisa! lol As long as Loreal is in business, I'll never be gray!

I'm the same way. When I turned 30 these little wirey white hairs started coming in. I hate how they are the ones that stick straight up and are different from the others...it's like they are saying hey notice me on this woman? LOL. I bought some Loreal last night to dye my do.

LOL! Same here and it got MUCH WORSE during the visa process! I started getting a haircolor (forget the brand) that has a gray hair re-texturizers so it covers grays even better than the others. Yeah.....I think I need to pick up a few boxes today now that I think of it! You'd think there would be a pill to stop the grays!

[nunyab 0]

hubby is 28 mashallah and I am 29 again

Me too! And again...and again...and again...

you caught that huh

[Aymsgirl 0]

I'm sure you will Lisa! lol As long as Loreal is in business, I'll never be gray!

I'm the same way. When I turned 30 these little wirey white hairs started coming in. I hate how they are the ones that stick straight up and are different from the others...it's like they are saying hey notice me on this woman? LOL. I bought some Loreal last night to dye my do.

LOL! Same here and it got MUCH WORSE during the visa process! I started getting a haircolor (forget the brand) that has a gray hair re-texturizers so it covers grays even better than the others. Yeah.....I think I need to pick up a few boxes today now that I think of it! You'd think there would be a pill to stop the grays!

You would think they could make a pill for it. My grandmother was totally salt and pepper by the time she was 30. So, I guess I am a little lucky it could be worse.

[KHPerfectMatch 1]

I'm sure you will Lisa! lol As long as Loreal is in business, I'll never be gray!

I'm the same way. When I turned 30 these little wirey white hairs started coming in. I hate how they are the ones that stick straight up and are different from the others...it's like they are saying hey notice me on this woman? LOL. I bought some Loreal last night to dye my do.

LOL! Same here and it got MUCH WORSE during the visa process! I started getting a haircolor (forget the brand) that has a gray hair re-texturizers so it covers grays even better than the others. Yeah.....I think I need to pick up a few boxes today now that I think of it! You'd think there would be a pill to stop the grays!

You would think they could make a pill for it. My grandmother was totally salt and pepper by the time she was 30. So, I guess I am a little lucky it could be worse.

Getting old is expensive.... hair in 3 colors (dark roots, gray patches, blonde growing out) requires serious highlights and lowlights... (going to the salon in other words...) can't see my eyebrows well enough without my glasses to keep them "in line" and every time H loses a hair off his head (fortunately for me NOT OFTEN) I find a new one on my chin! But because they are blonde I can only FEEL them... so more $$ for the threading lady or the waxing lady...

I have super curly hair but the gray hairs are straight... I have super fine curly hair, but the gray ones are coarse... If I lighten AND blow dry all of my hair starts to feel like straw... if I don't blow dry I look like an old Barbie from the bottom of the toy bin when I take off my hijab... flattened curly hair looks NASTY!

Oh well... I always knew that getting old wasn't for wimps! I just hope I end up with my Mother and Grandmother's SNOW WHITE hair... which is sooooooo pretty... but in the mean time... CHA CHING CHA CHING... to the salon I go..... (they ought to have maintenance packages for us over 50 gals)...

[Imua 0]

I'm lucky - 41 and no gray hair yet(knock on wood), also my skin is pretty good since I inherited my dad's oily skin(had acne in my teens which sucked though). Govi is the one who is getting a little gray at 25, LOL

[Y's_habibitk 2]

I'm sure you will Lisa! lol As long as Loreal is in business, I'll never be gray!

lol

I 'm so addicted to trying new shades, I probably wont know if it happens

[notime4haterz 0]

I'm sure you will Lisa! lol As long as Loreal is in business, I'll never be gray!

lol

I 'm so addicted to trying new shades, I probably wont know if it happens

[childress_london 3]

I'm sure you will Lisa! lol As long as Loreal is in business, I'll never be gray!

lol

I 'm so addicted to trying new shades, I probably wont know if it happens

Me tooo. I've been coloring my hair since my early twenties, so I don't really know if I have any gray or not. when the roots start to come out, sometimes I look, but haven't been able to find any yet. lol. I also have oily skin and still get pimples! that's not fair! If I'm going to have the skin of a teenager, why can't I look like one? Crow's feet and pimples do not mix! lol

[Y's_habibitk 2]

I'm sure you will Lisa! lol As long as Loreal is in business, I'll never be gray!

lol

I 'm so addicted to trying new shades, I probably wont know if it happens

Me tooo. I've been coloring my hair since my early twenties, so I don't really know if I have any gray or not. when the roots start to come out, sometimes I look, but haven't been able to find any yet. lol. I also have oily skin and still get pimples! that's not fair! If I'm going to have the skin of a teenager, why can't I look like one? Crow's feet and pimples do not mix! lol

heh. that isnt fair!

well, maybe you wont go grey my mom has like maybe 5 that just started coming in last year and she is 54. I just hope mine greys pretty...you know alot of times blondes get that yellowish tone oh well, thats what toner is for!