Ignored

[terrie/kamal 0]

I am writing this topic becuase i hope i'm am not the only one who feels this way. I feel when i go to a vj party i get everyone to say hi to me, then the rest of the time i am totally ignored. I may comment on something and nobody comments back or say good by and nobody else says anything back. I get this from work and get it from home, and know its not my imagination. So i think i will stop the parties and if i continue to feel this way may quit visa journey all together.

[Jenn! 918]

Is this for real?

Come on, how old are you?

Sheesh.

[terrie/kamal 0]

Is this for real?

Come on, how old are you?

Sheesh.

And what do u mean by that ? is this for real? get a life.

[brnidokiegurl 0]

I dont go to many either sorry you feel this way, theres usually alot going on in there and you just have to jump in if you feel like it if not just hang for awhile and see whats going on, im sure it not intentional

[*JG* 2]

People say this from time to time. And, I admit I feel it sometimes.

When you post on an open forum like this, sometimes you have to grow some thicker skin. You will find what you are comfortable with and go with that. Don't let the other stuff bother you.

[Jenn! 918]

Is this for real?

Come on, how old are you?

Sheesh.

And what do u mean by that ? is this for real? get a life.

Get a life? Sorry, I'm not the one complaining about being "ignored" in chat "parties".

What do you hope to accomplish? Guilt everyone into responding to you?

Maybe I was blunt, but I haven't got much patience for grown women behaving as though they were 8 years old.

[terrie/kamal 0]

Jenn, I am just making a observation why do u have to be such a b*@#%$ about it. I didn't ask for anybody to feel sorry for me. But i know i'm not the only one out there that feels the same.

[LaL 418]

Please stop with the personal attacks.

[brnidokiegurl 0]

when someone states the way they feel for ANYTHING no reason to be rude at any age thats what keeps this group in a uproar alot of times,

[*JG* 2]

Jenn, I am just making a observation why do u have to be such a b*@#%$ about it. I didn't ask for anybody to feel sorry for me. But i know i'm not the only one out there that feels the same.

My best advice is to avoid people who bother you too. It's helped me by doing so.

Please don't quit VJ. Not only can we help you;but you may be the source of something really helpful to someone else who comes after you.

[Ta Ta 1]

Some people may have a little more difficulty to mingle and the more outgoing personality that radiance confidence may indeed

be more targeted for conversation.

I believe if you go with a fear of " I don't fit in and no one will talk to me " it will project out from you onto others.

A kind, joyful and confident demeanor will radiate and you will attract responses.

Sometimes members have formed strong ties outside the site and therefore are more inclined to exchange responses with their close friends but

not meaning to exclude others at all and probably will be surprised by your post.

You can always join another forum such as our sub-saharan cyber cafe.

[Nagishkaw 510]

Well, Terrie...sometimes you have to just chime right on in. There usually is a lot going on all at once, and I have observed that. But you know what? I still love you!

[terrie/kamal 0]

Well, Terrie...sometimes you have to just chime right on in. There usually is a lot going on all at once, and I have observed that. But you know what? I still love you!

oh nagi i have and still get the same response but oh well.

[Ban Hammer 12,901]

You can always join another forum such as our sub-saharan cyber cafe.

a very nice bunch there.

[terrie/kamal 0]

You can always join another forum such as our sub-saharan cyber cafe.

a very nice bunch there.

and wehre is that