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Hello all, since this is the say anything thread,( im hoping) can anyone give any suggestions on how to cope with being apart from there SO????

i spent all that time dreaming up great ways to annoy my wifey. :innocent:

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Simple! Hang in there, its a long ride! Nothin more to say, we all go through it. One more thing! It's worth every minute of it. We wish you the best!

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masturbate. a lot.

masturbate. a lot.

I would but both hands fell out with me.

:rofl::rofl:Poor guys. It must be so hard for you both.

warrior your you tube is broke.

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Hello all, since this is the say anything thread,( im hoping) can anyone give any suggestions on how to cope with being apart from there SO????

I seem to be having a really hard time today :crying: , and i know that i have a much longer road ahead/

Guess im just reaching out, because i know here on VJ, how im feeling is well understood by many of you. Any words of encouragement??? :crying::crying::crying:

I know how you are feeling, because I had a hard time this week myself.

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Hello all, since this is the say anything thread,( im hoping) can anyone give any suggestions on how to cope with being apart from there SO????

I seem to be having a really hard time today :crying: , and i know that i have a much longer road ahead/

Guess im just reaching out, because i know here on VJ, how im feeling is well understood by many of you. Any words of encouragement??? :crying::crying::crying:

This was the reason why I didn't quit my job even though my then fiance (now husband) insisted. I knew I'd go crazy with all the waits and being busy at work (10 hrs a day) helped a lot. At the end of the day, I'd get surprised that another day was over. And yeah, we talked on the phone and email each other everyday... It was harder for me because we never chatted, meaning no face on the webcam. Glad it's over now... I'm with him now.

Hang in there... just look forward to the day that you will be with him very soon.

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:blush: Pain medication, illegal drugs and alcohol :crying: Edited by Sheriff Uling

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masturbate. a lot.

masturbate. a lot.

I would but both hands fell out with me.

:rofl::rofl:Poor guys. It must be so hard for you both.

Yes, quite hard.

*turns off cam*

put the keyboard down, shut the door and turn the cam on ;) ....stress reliever

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Hello all, since this is the say anything thread,( im hoping) can anyone give any suggestions on how to cope with being apart from there SO????

I seem to be having a really hard time today :crying: , and i know that i have a much longer road ahead/

Guess im just reaching out, because i know here on VJ, how im feeling is well understood by many of you. Any words of encouragement??? :crying::crying::crying:

Hang in there honey. I know it's hard and it only gets worse. For both of us it got worse with every trip. I'm just full of good news uh?

But I do have to keep myself busy. And you should too. I spend a lot of time watching lifetime - LMAO - but really I work a lot, I go over to my mom's and make dinner for everyone. That's three or four hours I'm not sitting thinking about us or how long more we have to wait. I used to read and that helped a lot but I haven't done that in a few months. I was actually going to go the library this week and pick up a few books. But I hope I gave you some ideas on how to occupy your time.

Like I said I know it's hard. I find myself not being able to sleep at night for the past few months and I can sleep through a hurricane (literally did that - LOL )

Anyway, we're all here for you. whenever you feel like this, we're gonna be here with you and no one will understand what you're feeling more than we do here on VJ. Keep your faith in God ... that's what gets be through the days.

lots of hugzzz

:blush: Pain medication, illegal drugs and alcohol :crying:

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Hello all, since this is the say anything thread,( im hoping) can anyone give any suggestions on how to cope with being apart from there SO????

I seem to be having a really hard time today :crying: , and i know that i have a much longer road ahead/

Guess im just reaching out, because i know here on VJ, how im feeling is well understood by many of you. Any words of encouragement??? :crying::crying::crying:

Hang in there honey. I know it's hard and it only gets worse. For both of us it got worse with every trip. I'm just full of good news uh?

But I do have to keep myself busy. And you should too. I spend a lot of time watching lifetime - LMAO - but really I work a lot, I go over to my mom's and make dinner for everyone. That's three or four hours I'm not sitting thinking about us or how long more we have to wait. I used to read and that helped a lot but I haven't done that in a few months. I was actually going to go the library this week and pick up a few books. But I hope I gave you some ideas on how to occupy your time.

Like I said I know it's hard. I find myself not being able to sleep at night for the past few months and I can sleep through a hurricane (literally did that - LOL )

Anyway, we're all here for you. whenever you feel like this, we're gonna be here with you and no one will understand what you're feeling more than we do here on VJ. Keep your faith in God ... that's what gets be through the days.

lots of hugzzz

:blush: Pain medication, illegal drugs and alcohol :crying:

Tylenon PM - you never think of anything when you're sleeping! And you only need ONE!!!!

You guys are great on VJ, somedays im good other days im the worlds biggest crybaby and i try to be strong because i dont want him to be upset. Yesterday we got to talk on webcam for the first time and it really made me happy. I am an avid reader and often busy running around alot during the week, it is just on the weekends when i have too much down time on my hands. I am going for a visit in july and that literally has me counting the days until i leave. i am quite certain i will be reaching out to you guys in the months to come as me and dwayne havent filed yet, since we arent sure which direction to go just yet. We will probably decide in july, once we have a chance to sit down together and explore all of our options. Thanks so much for being there for me :star:

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