DavenRoxy

Sounds like the name of a Texas B&B run by hookers!

Why would you say that?

What's wrong with bar girls? I've known several, they seemed pretty cool.
I was a bar guy in college, and I turned out ok. I can mix up a mean margarita now!

His point was that it's right up his back alley. But DO NOT park your cars there...

Eludes

I reckon, if you say so. I just think moderation should be done in... moderation.

You'd need help, if the street is rough, and you'd need to be sly, but... a floor jack. Jack up the drive wheels and push the cars back onto her side late at night.
Messy, but not too malicious... vaseline on wiper blades.
Does her front door have a screen door? If so, catch an alley cat and put it between the doors, then ring the doorbell and run like hell. Alley cat + dogs = fun times.
Might not work too well, given the neighborhood, but... Drop off a bunch of flyers at a biker bar stating that there is going to be a big party at the house. Make sure to include that it's okay to park the bikes on the lawn. Also put in that there will be free Buck Knives to the first 100 to arrive.
Pay cash to have 5 yards of gravel delivered on her driveway while she is out. I mean, she's not using it, right?
Call every carpet cleaning and pest removal service in the area. Tell them you need an estimate ASAP and to come out. Give your neighbors address.
Duct tape, a nice size prawn, and a wheel well.
Fix-a-flat in a parked tire.
Not as easy today with mag wheels, but a rock in a hubcab is annoying. Especially when it happens in a different wheel each week.

It's a tough call. I think in a court battle, she would be granted permission to take the child back. But she has nether time nor resources to fight that battle.
The crux is... we don't yet know WHY the lack of marriage. Or who wants it.
What if the father is a diabolical fellow, and knowing US abduction laws, tricked her into doing a K-1/K-2 with the intention of getting them here, then refusing to marry her just to "trap" the child? With no intention of every completing the K-1 process. Fraud? Would he win the battle? Hmmm...
We need more info.

You'd need help, if the street is rough, and you'd need to be sly, but... a floor jack. Jack up the drive wheels and push the cars back onto her side late at night.
Messy, but not too malicious... vaseline on wiper blades.
Does her front door have a screen door? If so, catch an alley cat and put it between the doors, then ring the doorbell and run like hell. Alley cat + dogs = fun times.
Might not work too well, given the neighborhood, but... Drop off a bunch of flyers at a biker bar stating that there is going to be a big party at the house. Make sure to include that it's okay to park the bikes on the lawn. Also put in that there will be free Buck Knives to the first 100 to arrive.
Pay cash to have 5 yards of gravel delivered on her driveway while she is out. I mean, she's not using it, right?
Call every carpet cleaning and pest removal service in the area. Tell them you need an estimate ASAP and to come out. Give your neighbors address.
Duct tape, a nice size prawn, and a wheel well.
Fix-a-flat in a parked tire.
Not as easy today with mag wheels, but a rock in a hubcab is annoying. Especially when it happens in a different wheel each week.

A whole lot of poor advice being given on the military angle. Such as the alluded-to soldier's and sailors relief act. Research SSCRA... it doesn't protect a soldier in a case such as this. Briefly: http://www.military.com/benefits/military-legal-matters/scra/servicemembers-civil-relief-act-overview.html He is NOT untouchable!! Do not let folks fool you into thinking he can hide behind the military. Quite the opposite, if he is guilty of crimes or even neglect/abuse.
Also, as a spouse, you are entitled to support by him until a state approves a divorce and determines the subsequent monies he must pay to you. The military will ensure you are supported, but you must let his command know if he's not supporting you. His step children will not be used to compute BAH payments he owes you, only his biological or adopted children (in the event of a legal separation). But health care and insurance ARE entitlements they will receive as long as you are married and he is in the millitary. And if he remains in the military, it may be adjudicated that he will remain responsible for a time for insurance.
If you can PROVE what you allude to about the video, that is a violation of the UCMJ, Section 925, Article 125. SODOMY, which is punishable under court martial.
But this all revolves around you informing his commander, who, with PROOF, must take appropriate action. But you must have proof. And that can be very difficult in a military proceeding.
You are a dependent of a soldier. You SHOULD have a dependent ID. If so, go on post and talk to a JAG attorney. You have a right to counsel by them as well as your husband, though they won't represent either of you in a civil matter. They also have an obligation to report to his commander if the alleged conduct is severe enough. And thier advice is free. Even if you don't have an ID, go on post anyway. If stopped at the gate, tell the guard you need to go see the Staff Judge Advocate about serious offenses relating to your husband. They may escort you there, but you have the right to get there as a dependent.
You have been given all kinds of advice about the divorce, so I won't touch on that.

You don't wanna know. Just saying the word can bring their wrath down on this thread...

Yes, he does. So tell him. Please. So I don't have to ask.

It's cuz we're so freakin' dark and twisted. They don't understand us, yet like a moth, they are drawn...
It's ok, we'll all be friends in the end...

Might be in Jordan, but it's pretty common in the PI. I supported my fiance, my fiance was asked about it, and the CO seemed to think it was a good thing that I loved her enough to support her and her family even before marriage.
You won't need tons of proof. A few pics, maybe an email or a chat log, her engagement ring.... My fiance took more, but the CO didn't want to see it. Remember, they only have about 3 minutes to deal with each applicant.

It's cuz we're so freakin' dark and twisted. They don't understand us, yet like a moth, they are drawn...
It's ok, we'll all be friends in the end...

I would say that depends on how long it's been since you were together.
If it's been 6 months, and she's 3 months pregnant, then all paperwork stops. The VJ process becomes much easier, eh?

If my fiance was 3 months pregnant, and I had not been with her for 6 months, the paperwork WOULD stop, because I wouldn't continue the process. Pretty simple.
As to "how the hell they would know"... that sort of thing is kind of clear during a medical exam.

If my fiance was 3 months pregnant, and I had not been with her for 6 months, the paperwork WOULD stop, because I wouldn't continue the process. Pretty simple.
As to "how the hell they would know"... that sort of thing is kind of clear during a medical exam.

No, Darnell is NOT Cinese... he married a Chinese lady, but he's Mormon, looking for wife #2 in the PI. So he hangs with us cool folks!

Letter of consent, signed by both parents, notarized... Ahhhh, the small details! But surely you needed this for the first three wives, no?
And if memory serves correctly, the consent is for 18-21, required to be notarized. Parental advice is for 22-25 yr old Pinays, and does not need a notary. I'm sure someone will crack the whip if I got this wrong (too tired to look it up again). (not a whip, but close enough, I know Michael would approve)

LOL You should just petition two this time, saving yourself the hassle next time. That way they can take turns cooking and cleaning.

Is the proxy responsible for the crick, too?

Live vicariously thru me, Crash...

Live vicariously thru me, Crash...

Since I am the farthest West, I'll see what I can do for youz