Peace....

Call me crazy, but I think you are making a big mistake by airing your intentions on a public forum, with your names and pictures attached. If you are not wise enough to see that being this open about the possibility of perjuring yourself here is a bad idea...then you probably aren't going to be able to successfully pull off this ridiculous scheme of "let me bring this man to the States (because I feel bad for him) and then let him run loose and I'll say it just didn't work out". I know you feel bad for the man, but if he's not someone you LOVE enough to marry, then don't commit fraud to bring him to the States as your fiancé.

I think I just flip through an episode of "Housewives of Moroccan men or MENA Forum"
I would totally watch it. Where can I pitch this reality show idea? LOL
All I can say also is that I love my Moroccan husband too. And like Pitbull said "I don't give a number two" to what the messenger or the posted advice.
But shame on the messenger who posted sexually explicit activities comments about Moroccan/Muslims on an immigration help website! #######?!

Whew..... I made it to the end of the thread can I just say, "I love my Moroccan husband!!! Even with our differences we always work to understand each other and with understanding and respect comes love. I have Love and respect for him that come what may I would never say an unkind word towards him. Bottom line I love him for who he is and will always wish him the best. No regrets!! I know someone will say oh that is corny, or wait until you get scammed, etc... I view our relationship as blessing in my life. Life has so many lessons, for me it is about truly understanding your partner and having no regrets it all about our choices.
Good luck to all the new relationship and amen to the ones that are still working all I can say is "understand him or her" regardless of their country of origin.

ROSESARERED,
You have posted this below and honestly, when I read this from your own words, I was in disbelief that anyone could say such horrible things about a Muslim woman or man, or even a moroccan. Just horrible
They still have sex they just have to hide it, buy it or from what I have been told, it is common for men to have sex with each other because it does not seem as bad to them as sex with a woman not your wife. I have even heard that girls will have ####### sex and not vaginal because they wont risk being found out (losing virginity) so even though these things seem strange here, it is accepted although shunned there. So when men (women too maybe) get here they realize "hey I can do this now!" and the little demons come out of them and unfortunately hurt others

No one criticized her though for not getting married in the first place. No one should get married, if they're not feeling it, 110%. That lady's situation was STUPID. She screwed up, and had no business petitioning a visa in the first place. But that horse was already out of the barn. At least she didn't compound the drama by getting married anyways.
I gotta appreciate the absurdity of platitudes about fly's [sic] and vinegar, and God based religions and love from the OP who dropped the nonsense you did from your very first post, and random nonsense about MENA culture and socio norms. Applause.
And anyone calling you out on your BS is just a big meanie, who needs to get a life. Awesome coming from someone spewing what you have, just awesome. I'll take being a non candy coated realist over being someone trying to spread ####### all over anyone married to a moroccan because you chose a loser.
You can come here and talk about how you were wronged, and how sad it is this didn't all work out for you. Very few people will criticize that. But leave other people out of your own individual messes.

Wow!! I wish it was that easy for everyone to get a visa by just doing some research online and one trip. Just amazing

One trip to morocco, eight,days.... I'm sorry, you both really needed more face to face time before jumping into a marriage.

So in other words, you are giving ROSESARERED the okay to just blow some smoke up a few people xxxxx here and expect those of us who have been here years prior to you, to just agree with some racists ####### about Muslims. And yes, Muslims, she spoke about this with a woman married to a Nigerian not someone from Iran. You can call me one of those posters if you want, or better yet, you can look at her first four words and determine if she was talking about your spouse or fiancé since he lives in morocco. ITS ALL IMMIGRANTS. I take too much pride in my husband and his family and friends for some two bit person come on here and say such non sense which she knows it is, she was obviously trying to ruffle some feathers, which she did. Mine anyways...
Quote from ROSESARERED....
Seriously Its all immigrants. I am going thru this with a man from morocco I married. He was so sweet and such a nice guy in morocco and when here for the first few years but the more comfortable he became and the more he got used to the freedoms here in the states, I think he went crazy with lust and things. Almost like a kid that finally was out from his parents house. I don't even think he knew the "real him" and maybe eventually he will settle down and feel bad for what he has done and put me thru etc...maybe not..but its such a risk when you marry someone from a culture that is strickt about the affection in public, the way sex is considered wrong if you are not married etc. They still have sex they just have to hide it, buy it or from what I have been told, it is common for men to have sex with each other because it does not seem as bad to them as sex with a woman not your wife. I have even heard that girls will have ####### sex and not vaginal because they wont risk being found out (losing virginity) so even though these things seem strange here, it is accepted although shunned there. So when men (women too maybe) get here they realize "hey I can do this now!" and the little demons come out of them and unfortunately hurt others

Well I just quoted you ..... ITS ALL IMMIGRANTS... So you don't have to say where, hell you said ALL
Think carefully before you marry a Nigerian, I regret it.
That is where you posted, remember.?.??

I'm not a teacher and I'm constantly battling the stereotypes of Muslims with friends and some of my family. People believe everything they read in the news as gospel. It gets tiring, but I feel the need to defend my husband and his religion. Islam is a religion of over a billion people, different cultures and countries, and every one of them is judged by the stupidity of a select few, it's maddening. This weekend my husband and and I went to see the movie Lone Survivor, I won't tell you how the movie ends, but I will say at the end it shows what Islam is really about, it was refreshing, the movie is a true story. On the way out of the theater my husband said to me " I'm glad the movie portrayed REAL Muslims truthfully", I was thinking the same even before he said a word. I have said this so many times on this site, there are scammers from every country, every age, male and female alike, just because someone married a POS scammer slime ball thief liar from a certain country doesn't make everyone from said country the same. Every marriage on the face of the Earth could potentially end in divorce, there are users and abusers from every corner of the planet, my ex was one and he is AMERICAN. Does this make every man from the US just like him? No it doesn't. So stating that very man from Morocco or from a MENA country only wants to marry a US citizen for a green card is totally absurd. I'm not shooting the messenger, I'm just saying that the messenger's messenger is full of #######.

Minus the totally small, irrelevant detail that this woman knew something was up, and took action immediately, as opposed to staying married to the guy for SEVEN YEARS. No one here is defending your ex husband. No one knows him. You brought this whole mess here to talk about, and that's what people have done. In discussing what you've shared, some people have raised other possibilities to explain various behaviors, or what may have happened. That's the thing about marriages in MENA, they're extremely diverse, complicated, and all kinds of things play into why they work or not. But you've done nothing but try to pigeonhole this diverse experience, shared by lots and lots of people here, into whatever defense mechanisms and 'universal truths' about MENA people and marriages your brain has concocted. Punctuated with some feeble explanation about the sociology of MENA people's sex lives and whatnot that borders on being straight up racist. Not everyone here is down with that, regardless of what some Iranians randomly share with you.

I don't know about other people, but I never figured that a twenty or thirty something man from Morocco would not have any sexual experience whatsoever. Sure there could be as well, but seems pretty naive to expect a grown up to be like a completely innocent child, while we ourselves have previously been married and have experience. If girls and boys are messing around there secretly, so what? Happens all over the world. To make it seem like they are doing something more dirty than anyone else in the world seems pretty silly.

Rosearered: My impression of your experience is that he is bisexual or homosexual and had to hide it at home, and he felt he hit the jackpot when he was able to move to the San Francisco Bay Area.
Sure, there is a lot of shame involved here.

Please don't generalize and say ALL IMMIGRANTS, honey, you just got yourself into a situation that didn't work out. There are more beautiful women in Morocco than I could count, so it's not as if these men in Morocco lived in dungeons or were blind. There is plenty of FREEDOM there, you don't need to move to America for that.
Happily married to a Moroccan.....

Wow!! I wish it was that easy for everyone to get a visa by just doing some research online and one trip. Just amazing

One trip to morocco, eight,days.... I'm sorry, you both really needed more face to face time before jumping into a marriage.

One trip to morocco, eight,days.... I'm sorry, you both really needed more face to face time before jumping into a marriage.

Wow!! I wish it was that easy for everyone to get a visa by just doing some research online and one trip. Just amazing

One trip to morocco, eight,days.... I'm sorry, you both really needed more face to face time before jumping into a marriage.

One trip to morocco, eight,days.... I'm sorry, you both really needed more face to face time before jumping into a marriage.

One trip to morocco, eight,days.... I'm sorry, you both really needed more face to face time before jumping into a marriage.

Wow!! I wish it was that easy for everyone to get a visa by just doing some research online and one trip. Just amazing