BabyJetz

I received my 2 yrs green card 3 months ago , will it affect my case if I file for divorce by myself? My citizen husband yells and scream whenever he’s angry . I’m in therapy because I’ve developed anxiety and panic attack because of all the yelling . He’s not allowing me to see my friend ( female ) because he said he doesn’t trust me ( I’ve never cheated, lied or done anything wrong ) he’s refused counseling therapy. Yesterday was another 2 hours screaming and yelling because I didn’t get his package ready so he could return at the post office . I’ve been crying the whole night I’m afraid my heart will stop  beating one day . He always threatens me of divorce and calling immigration to accuse me of fraud .I know he won’t file for divorce unless there’s cheating involved ( according to the Bible ) but I’m sooo tired and ready to divorce if there’s no change. If I initiate the divorce, will it affect me if I’m going to remove conditions? 

That’s the question. Even without any email notification saying interview has been canceled 

Go with your intuition that led you to withdraw. It’s one thing to get mad at your significant other, but to be so fed up to the point you withdraw from THIS type of commitment? That’s a big deal. 🤔🤔

1) Re- apply.
2) Learn your lesson: before you do anything, count to 10000000

We got into a fight… I sent a letter to NVC to withdraw, now I’m thinking it wasn’t a smart decision. What do I do

Well .. I know they sent out May 1, 2020 IR-1 interview letters for January 31, 2022 - people received those this past week;  so I at least am hoping that when The Ghana Embassy returns from Christmas and New Year's break, that they move as quickly as possible because many of us have been married three years and still have not been able to unite with our families; while other countries are moving faster... There needs to be immediate change! A new year is upon us! 

I got denied for one of my expedite requests but not sure which one. I found out by calling them no email was received. The denial was dated July 28 the day I was supposed to bury the baby and they knew this so that hurts so much. Also, they did update my account today with an RFE at NVC adding further pain. Now I have to wait even longer to be DQ. I am just fed up at this point with everything. Not to mention suffering from this loss without my husband is mentally draining. I hope you hear something soon. Praying for the best for you.

Hey VJ’rs  I wanted to know if requesting an expedite will “put me back into the end of the line” if it gets denied? I know there’s no really “line” but does it hurt to try to expedite? Please let me know thank you 🙏🏾 
 
also on average how long does it take to get an interview from being DQ’d ? I feel like I’ve been waiting forever!! - almost 2 years in ACC, 🇬🇭 
what are your experiences? I’d love to hear especially my fellows from Ghana. Thank you 

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No K3
you will file the I 130 for the spouse visa
and nothing is fast with immigration 
the wait time will be 18 to 24 months just to get to the interview
Read the guides above to know the process and how to file
 
Also check the word portal and read embassy reviews and posts from other VJ members in your embassy