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DavidandJenny

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  1. Im very sorry to hear of your ordeal and as some here have said....you always have the option to report her.

    Visiting the other country and family of the one you meet (whether online or otherwise) is required and highly recommended, manditory if you will. And if you ever plan on filing visa papers, spend as much time alone with their family and freinds, with eachother also......you learn alot. And be honest with yourself and eachother.

    Be happy that this whole process takes awhile to complete... You find out alot about the person you are planning on marrying during this process. Jenny and I have been so blessed! The one thing I Love about my wife (and there are many, many things) is that she has 'never' hinted and/or asked for money or things, even to this day.

  2. I just went online, to check my status and this is what it said "On September 22, 2008, we mailed you a notice that we have approved this I129F PETITION FOR FIANCE(E). Please follow any instructions on the notice. If you move before you receive the notice, call customer service.

    Does that mean it was approved and being forwarded to NVC... I am trying not to get too excited in case it was a fluke with the website, because this was really fast... I can't stop shaking, I am so excited but I am trying not to get ahead of myself! Someone please tell if this is really what this means!

    :star: Congratulations :star: Yes you were approved.

  3. Well, you wouldn't send money to someone you don't know, don't have a relationship with, or don't trust? That's all i am trying to point out here. I would hope that anyone filing any papers to bring anyone here to the USA would make sure in their hearts that its legitimate before they even visit another country, which if we are judging motives here, is really not proof either that a relationship is legitimate, yet is one of the requirements as proof.

    I am sure that in some countries a SO ( a Fiance') has the financial capability to pay the cost on their end for all that has to be accomplished when filing a K1, and the flight after approval of a K1, however, in some cases when bringing someone from some other countries, this is not true. The cost for flights to and from an embassy, hotels, printing, documents needed and loss of time at work for some is a challenge financially. Also, the cost to make calls from other countries, and internet cafe's can be expensive for some. Even a stamp or writing paper is burdensome for those that financially take care of their families first before themselves or their own needs.

    Having a little spending money sent as proof also of a relationship, is no harm. It, in my opinion, also shows you have the financial capability to take care of someone, whether here or there in their country. Which is a G325 requirement, more proof.

    We successfully have gone through this process without any RFE's, request for more evidence as proof. Thats all I know.

  4. If that is all you have to show as 'evidence' then.... not a good idea. Our packet though included western union receipts (email confirmations over a period of time from western union numbering about 10-15) NOTE: As well we had, pictures-letters-emails-chats-cards-receipts from the trip there, phone records.

    The way I (we) looked at it, a relationship is more than letters & pics....it also involves time & money, sacrifices made. JMHO

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