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  1. 1 minute ago, oat12 said:

    I don't know what he wants from me. I have emailed him respectfully advising him that I will not be coming for any of his assets and will be as amicable as possible in the divorce because all I want is for it to be completed. He wants my green card from me but he has also stated that he wants me to never be allowed to step foot in the US again, he thinks that all of this can happen just because he made a false claim to USCIS. He just wants to disparage me and make me miserable in any way that he can.

    I will call the courts to see what he has filed but I filed a petition which has been accepted and he has been served and this has been filed with the court too to document that he was served. Luckily, I called today and they told me they could do zoom meetings/trials since I am in the UK. He did not file the case, I did. He just wants to contest it.

     

    Thank you for your advice though, I really appreciate it and it is very helpful.

    If you are the one who filed, no need to call the court, you case supersedes his on this matter.

    He can contest all he wants. They both of you have to be in it to make the marriage work.

     

    Personally, I would try to get a split of assets or money if possible. It will give him something to think about if there are marital assets.

    If nothing else, it will force him to negotiate. His assets for him to stop contesting. 

    FYI do not make this a negotiation for him to let you keep your greencard because that is not even up for debate.

    If you get some money from him, at least you can use it to party on his dime.

  2. No need for the immigration lawyer. File whatever the next step you need to file with immigration and deal with whatever USCIS response is.

    A lawyer can only guess what they have in their files about you that was said by your spouse.

     

    That said USCIS ignores most of those letters and comments by angry exes and soon to be exes.

     

    Correspond with him via paper or electronic means only. That way you have proof of all his stupidity.

    Besides your greencard, what is he trying to get from you? If nothing else, you might not even need a lawyer.

     

    Respond to every legal document sent. Else a default judgement might be entered in his favor.

    I think you are given more time to respond since you are out of the country.

    FYI he might try to pull a fast one by sending it to your last address, saying he did not know you are currently in the UK.

    If you think he has filed, check with the courts in the city where you or he lives. I think those are his choices of where to file.

    You will have to eventually come back to deal with the case.

     

    Even though he filed the case, you also have a say if this ends divorce or annulment.

  3. 18 hours ago, ROK2USA said:

    Yeah... unfortunately you can't show both flags on your profile. You choose either Nigeria (to show your partner is from Nigeria) or Ghana to show you are going to interview in Ghana. 

    When you go to edit your timeline, you need to select the correct country in 2 places "Beneficiary's Country" and "US Embassy" to fix this.

  4. As has already been mentioned several time, K-1 is more expensive than CR1.

     

    If you switch to the CR1, you will come closer to the cost of going through with K-1.

     

    This early in the process, I think you should calculate the effort involved in terms of cost, time, processes and proceed as you think fit.

     

    If a "stable union' is used to get benefits as a married couple, then I think you are walking too close to the line for comfort.

    Search the forum, some people had engagement parties and were considered too married for K1. Stable union sounds even more than engage especially with what you plan to use it for.

     

    My 2 cents .... no stable union

  5. My spouse is vaccinated and he has visited Nigeria about 2 to 4 times a year since we first met in 2014. With a pause in 2020.

    So I don't know what your husband is talking or worried about.

     

    Currently, since your husband is not vaccinated, he will have to test 48 hours before travel. 2 days after arrival and 7 days after arrival.

    If vaccinated, he will only have to test 2 days after arrival.

     

    Vaccine status and pretravel test result needs to be uploaded to the nitp portal

  6. Yeah, all you have to do now is to wait.

     

    I think this is a learning point for all not to try timing our submissions so tight.

     

    Mailing it a day or 2 inside the 90 day window would be the earliest I would drop it in the mail. They get a lot of mail and I would bet that the post marked date is what was used to determine its date of receipt.

     

    Due to this 'mistake' of trying to hit the 90 day window at the very top, OP is now at least 2 months behind what she had planned.

  7. On 3/25/2021 at 9:22 AM, AlbieBio said:
    Is your spouse immigrating to the U.S. with you? Error
    Yes No
    Is your spouse immigrating to the U.S. at a later date to join you? Error
    Yes

    No

     

     

    I AM CONFUSED WITH THIS PART. I AM ALREADY IN THE UNITED STATES SO IS THE OPTIONS I CHOSE RIGHT, i am already a US CITIZEN 

    This form is used for multiple categories so some of the questions will not fit ur case.

    For instance as a USC, if I apply for my mother, she can say yes if my father will migrate with her.

     

    The answer to both questions is no.

     

    Don't over think the question. This form is for the applicant to fill out but since you are the one filling it out, you will need to think like the applicant.

  8. 21 hours ago, Betty Jean said:

    DQ in Oct.  Approved today. Interview February 

    Congrats.

    Based on this alone I would estimate from DQ to interview, about 4 months. Not to bad all things considered.

     

    If we had an idea of how fast they are scheduling appointments it would help us know if they are clearing the backlog

     

    How busy was the embassy when you interviewed?

     

    ~Raymond

  9. Am in the same boat as you. Completed NVC stage. Google "us embassy packet 4".

    Grab a pdf from any embassy site, ideally from the embassy that you will interview at, understand what you will need to do to prepare for the interview.

    Get any documents that can put together ahead of time. Medical ahead getting an appointment is a no no, it will likely expire.

    After that all you can do is wait. No manual needed cos this is the last step.

    We have not idea how much longer, from one or two timelines, I see some people who completed NVC in December already interviewed.

     

    Emailing them will not hurt, not sure if it helps either but you will get a generic response

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