mam521

Couple of things. The calculated time is on a rolling calendar. So, has he visited in the last year, prior to this visit? If so, how many days in that 365? He may be over the limit. Another thing is his provincial social benefits like health care are dependent on him being physically present in the province. YMMV, depending on province. What ties to Canada does he have? Rent/Mortgage? Car? Insurance? What does his I-94 say as an admit until date? Pending I-130 through consular. AOS likely to be denied because he entered on visitor status with future immigrant intent already established by the August filing. I would bail out and go home with this administration. You don't want any flags of any kind or potential reasons for future denial.

What a shame! Amen to comfortable shoes! Side note along a similar line: My kid's senior prom is in May. She has a beautiful, green gown and we have purchased some black sneakers that have lace, satin ruffles, ribbon laces and rubber soles. She plans to wear boy shorts underneath because no one will see anyway. She feels like a princess in the dress and her tootsies should be just fine! Yesterday was actually my 7th wedding anniversary! We went for lunch one day from work. I asked what he wanted to do for lunch. He said maybe we should go get a marriage license. I agreed, so that's what we did. I asked on our local neighborhood page about a marriage officiant and found one. We asked our friends if we could get married in their beautiful yard. They agreed. I found my dress and had to hem it myself because it was too short of notice - didn't care - it had pockets!!! Got the kids' outfits and hubs ordered a suit from Italy that was overnighted. Ironically, his suit cost more than my dress, which was only $175 with the fancy belt. Our friends took photos for us. We took them to dinner at a local restaurant where I know the chef. Chef sent a like 9 course dessert tasting menu...it was crazy. So, I think we got the license on Mar. 23 and were married on Mar. 31. We were still dressed up and it was a teensy bit fancier than a courthouse wedding, but we were happy with how it all turned out, none the less. That said, telling my bestie on April 1 that I got married was a challenge - she legitimately thought I was trying an April Fool's joke on her 🤣. Today is my 5 year immigration anniversary. Yep, we activated our PR on April Fools during covid when the border was technically closed. Gotta keep it interesting, right?! Anyway, back to the OP - decide what scale you want and go from there. We did JP. My brother did destination wedding with a big reception back home 3 months later for everyone that couldn't make it to the wedding. It's your wedding. Do what ultimately makes you happy! The marriage is the important part, anyway❤️.

The OP indicated current spouse is on F1.

If you got married after 4 years, I'm going to guess you can demonstrate you were in a relationship and that you spent time together in a manner that lead to engagement and marriage. This is part of the legitimacy of the relationship. In your IR-1 filing, what evidence did you guys provide to demonstrate a bonified relationship? Did he list you on a pension? A beneficiary of anything? Once you got to the US, were there any bills in your name? Records of communication that would demonstrate your fighting and the breakdown of the relationship and potentially why? When you started your business, was he involved? Did he get anything out of it in the divorce settlement? If you want to file for citizenship under the 5 year provision, definitely go for it. Just be aware that you could be asked questions about your relationship and how you got to where you are. Relationships break down - that's not the issue. The timeline is what might get questioned, so just pad yourself to answer any and all questions.

It's a website. Supposedly partners you with "experts" in your domain of interest and claims you get to talk to that expert.

It's very likely on one of the NOA's you received. In the header. Check your records or request a code.

So, it hasn't been 90 days, therefore you cannot submit a request. You can create a MyUSCIS account here, if you haven't already. It's useful as you can track all petitions going forward. https://my.uscis.gov/

There is no record with the police about the traffic incident from what you've described. It's all been handled through insurance. There is no record of this other than insurance. Secondary inspection is, as stated above, common. Your husband wasn't detained. He was sent to secondary to verify his records in the system. So, overthinking. Not news worthy. Keep calm and carry on!

Big hug! It's because you've been at war to try and get everything squared away. It sucks because it feels like USCIS is questioning and scrutinizing everything and you just wanna be with your partner and live your happy life. You are rounding that last corner and gonna get across the finish line!

Big breath - don't overthink. Yes, immi has been hard and you get to the N-400 and you're hypervigilant because of everything else you've been through getting to this point! But, the N-400 is the last step and IMHO, it's less complicated than the others. I would not use Just Answer. You will get better information here.

The unfortunate reality is that immigration is not fast and the current administration has pushed for more in depth review of cases. The fortunate reality is immigration proceedings are finite. There is light at the end of the tunnel, I promise! If you search the forum, you will find the guide for filing for spousal visas. It will guide you through the entire process. The I-130 is but one piece of the puzzle.

My kid could do instate, but she's headed back to Canada, where it's not free, but definitely much less expensive!

Depending on what state you live in, if you can prove residency for 1 year, you can often get in state tuition at a public university rather than pay out of state or international tuition fees. I'm not sure that Michigan is one of those states. You and your spouse will have to look into it and/or if there are any bordering states that allow MI residents to enroll under in state tuition rules. You'll also have to find out what credits previously earned would transfer in your program of choice. The cost of post secondary in the US is eye wateringly expensive, for the most part, compared to most places in the world. If you can qualify for in state tuition, it will have a huge impact on the associated costs.

I never changed my name. In my mind, it's too much of a money grab expense and headache to change in 2 separate countries.

I'd use different words but the language doesn't align with the T&C of use here! 🤣

Yup, it's that one.

So I've just spent the past little bit playing catch up here, reading the last 8 or so pages. You are 1 million percent being baited and you NEED to keep communication to lawyer ONLY. Your statement that I bolded above will be used against you. She will try to create the illusion that you are emotionally abusive and that your lover for her is based entirely on condition. In that statement, you've given her an ultimatum. That looks bad, even though that's not your intention. It's imperative that you throw off this mask of naivety. Irrespective of you stating you're not a vindictive person, you need to really stop trusting everyone else to be like you. This woman is looking out for herself only and will take down whomever gets in her way, however she feels she needs to, to get the job done. The painful reality is SHE DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU. THIS. You have a 15 year old that seems to be a bit forgotten in all of this. She, too, will have been traumatized by all of this and she too, has been a victim of abuse. She will be watching carefully now on how you navigate your way back through. You seem to fall hard and fast and I know you have your church community, but that doesn't always help you understand the underlying drivers for why you've behaved as you have and why you can't come to terms with ending a relationship with an abuser. You need a professional to help unpack all of this. Additionally, I wouldn't even be worried about who you date in future, be it a foreigner or an American, at this juncture. You have so much trauma that requires addressing before you're even ready to think about that. Will Smith once said that he wasn't responsible for his wife's happiness; that statement is 100% true. At the end of the day, YOU are responsible for YOUR happiness and if you have a loving and supporting partner who contributes to that happiness, that's really the ultimate goal. Isn't that what you want for your daughter, too? For her to see that she can be a strong, confident person and the people she curates into her life should be ones that raise her up, not bring her down? Your lawyer is a divorce attorney, so of course they aren't concerned with the immigration portion. It's not their wheelhouse. I really hope you heed the advice given by many here and can begin to reassemble your life. You've begun the mechanical things like withdrawing the I-130 and filing for divorce. You've started to lean back to your community, but there's still a lot of work to be done. Please, think about your child and how you want her future to be, the people you want her to choose to surround her and her perception of success and happiness. Best of luck 🍀

The difference is being handed the DS-5535, which is extreme vetting, versus AP, which is much less invasive. I'm sorry you're going through that. There is another thread on the Canadian forum for people who've been handed a DS-5535. Unfortunately, there have been people on the other thread who immigrated as infants or small children and were still put in line for extreme vetting.

I suspect this would be beneficial to most, not just immigrants! The financial literacy training kids receive in school these days seems to be lacking, at best!

Because she feels the need to sprinkle her fur into your sweat because it sticks amazingly well and makes you itchy, all while allowing her to sniff all the outside smells. I think it was just windier that usual this year. I managed to get away with mowing with the bag in the back yard this year. We bag mowed the front once, raked once and have to blow and bag once more but that seems to be light compared to the usual double digit bags we typically fill each weekend for Feb and Mar. I'm suffering from The Pollening. What's the acronym for incessant male oak gametes bombarding my immune system, making me miserable?

Well, at least they've held him on a $500,000 bond. I still don't know why people like this with a rap sheet involving children like that is roaming free.

This would be my concern. Depending which it is will determine if you apply as an international student and what tuition you'd be responsible for. If you have a school locally, can wait another 6 months and prove residency for a year, many states have in state tuition for residents, making things much more affordable.

@jan22's excellent summary will get you cooking. Make sure you scan all of your documents before you send and I'd recommend getting your child a passport card as well as a passport book. The card can be put away for safe keeping until your child receives their certificate and serves as another ID, should something nefarious happen to the passport. There's a strange dichotomy between the Department of State and USCIS. Because your child is 17, they will have to attend an oath ceremony to receive their CoC.

I'm of a similar mindset to @NorthByNorthwest. 6 months ago, I'd have said travel with AP. With the current political climate, I'd highly recommend keeping travel domestic. I'm not trying to monger any fear, but I know a lot of people who've been greencard holders for years and have recently filed for citizenship just because they feel the greencard alone isn't security enough in their minds.

Go lock your SSN. If he's attempting to live on his own, I wouldn't doubt he's trying to use your info to gain credit and further impact your debt. Hire a divorce attorney ASAP. You'll need to get that much sorted so you can start recovering your financial situation. Divorce proceedings and marital property are different to immigration proceedings. You are still obligated under the I-864 to look after certain financial bits for him, but it doesn't mean you can't worry about yourself. He will have to file to remove conditions; you don't have to help him with that. He'll need to file with waiver for divorce. Good luck!