aamirnicole

Nikole as i saw the image of 7 Month Anniversary, It made me chuckle hard.. My wife works with kids with special needs and there is one girl in her student who when saw my photo said "ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh wooooooooooooooooo sooooooooooooooooooo muchhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh in   nnnnnn loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee loveeeeeeeeeeeee" and she was super cute about it.
 
Love is blind and love hurts too. So instead of being offensive play defensive (assume you are getting hurt) and take every step carefully.  We have read, seen and suggested many people here and we understand its all rosy while you are dating or flirting online. Would you be able to deal with him in daily routine (which is going to be boring)? Married life is not adventurous and pink, Its boring .. would you be able to wake up every morning next to him and feel special? Would you be able to deal with his irritating habits and ticks (which we all have)? 
 
I know the answer you have right now is "yes yes yes" to all my question but don't think from the heart, think from the mind.  I met my wife on her trip  and she came back to America and we were just friends for almost a year and before she came to visit me especially and we both were scared "how will the other one smell" "would we like each other" and much more..  we were excited and nervous 'coz we didn't knew (and that too when we had already spent week traveling and knowing together in her 1st visit). We absolutely love each other and we would do anything for each other and after being sure about that and after knowing each other very well, we married and it took us 3 years to get through 'coz we were denied. And life is awesome now .. she is laying in bed reading and I am laying on floor and looking at her "Thinking gosh ..... i am lucky and thinking what is that goofy thing that I am going to do that will make her laugh hard before we call it a night. For her smile, I can do anything and for my smile she will do anything.. we know that.
 
Loving is easy but life is complex ... THINK ABOUT BORING MARRIED LIFE AND WOULD YOU BE ABLE TO DEAL WITH HIM AND LIFE AND STILL FEEL LOVED AND LOVE HIM BACK
 
In Asian country, coming to America is everything and everyone wants to come here .. but they don't know how hard life is here.. back home all they know is glimmering shinning America but they don't know the fact how hard life is here .. explain to him that as well.  None of us are negative here.. We all went through a rough patch and we speak from our experience.... we all want best for people here in VJ. 
 
 

Update:
First I'd like to thank everyone for all the advice and opinions. We were able to figure out the correct way of doing this which is to file for a Fiance visa after we have met a few times 1st in Dubai and of coarse with supporting evidence (documentation, etc.) of our relationship and love. We both agree we are eager however being eager and impatient will not work through this process and if we don't accurately and correctly follow steps we could fail and that would be horrible. We will have the rest of our lives to spend together if we take caution and go step by step without trying to leap. He is 27 and I'm 36. I completely agree with meeting in Person and spending as much time together to get to know each other first is very important and he also agrees. It was more or less we are uneducated about this process and didn't know which direction to begin. So I thank you all for your advice we now know where to begin  I wish everyone the best of luck and a lifetime of happiness and love!
-Nicole

Update:
First I'd like to thank everyone for all the advice and opinions. We were able to figure out the correct way of doing this which is to file for a Fiance visa after we have met a few times 1st in Dubai and of coarse with supporting evidence (documentation, etc.) of our relationship and love. We both agree we are eager however being eager and impatient will not work through this process and if we don't accurately and correctly follow steps we could fail and that would be horrible. We will have the rest of our lives to spend together if we take caution and go step by step without trying to leap. He is 27 and I'm 36. I completely agree with meeting in Person and spending as much time together to get to know each other first is very important and he also agrees. It was more or less we are uneducated about this process and didn't know which direction to begin. So I thank you all for your advice we now know where to begin  I wish everyone the best of luck and a lifetime of happiness and love!
-Nicole

Pakistan is by far one of the most difficult countries to get a visa from. Period. An online Nikkah wedding is not valid for immigration purposes, if that were the case everyone from Muslim countries would be doing it. There are couples who have been married years and spent months and years together in real life who get denied through Pakistan. You seem very naive to the process and I suggest you do a lot more research. My friend(who I met here on VJ) and her Pakistani husband were denied twice despite  spending years living together in Pakistan. He was finally granted his visa last year after over 6 years of trying. Take a trip over to the Pakistan portal and talk to the dozens of other couples who have literally been waiting years for visas.

U have ur information twisted.. 
 
Read below 
 
https://travel.state.gov/content/visas/en/fees/reciprocity-by-country/PK.html
 
N btw ur concept of nikkah wedding is totally incorrect... 
 
Good luck op

if your going to meet in dubai just get married there. otherwise if you are not both at the marriage ceremony you have to prove your marriage was consummated;

What do u mean nikkah wedding is not valid ? 
 
Nikkah wedding in person is valid i am sure. 
 
Anyways .. OP i recommend you dont do online wedding. High risk of denial and its not worth it. Already its taking a year plus to get approved and get spouse visa. Do you want to wait 1 year and likely get denied ? 
 
Not worth it dont do it 
 Meet in a 3rd country dubai or something.. do a proper nikkah with few family members n stuff.. also go for honeymoon and attach all the proof when u file the application 
 
Good luck 

Marriage would need to be consummated to be valid for immigration - so you still need to meet somewhere. Sri Lanka has nice beaches. 
 
Honestly, only proxy marriage story I remember on VJ ended being quite a drama.  Search function should bring it up.