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2 minutes ago, Bosslady10463 said:

This Thursday i will be sending out my I-129f application.  My fiancè he is from the Dominican Republic and I am from the Bronx.  So i am at the starting process.

Send as many as possible when I sent my application I sent about 10 pictures of us . Make sure you also have evidence of Skype and whatapp conversations they will ask for those too . 

42 minutes ago, amine93 said:

From nvc they gave me my case number and latter and we saw is ready on wibesite 

Oh got it , contact nvc or even uscis the times I called them regarding my case they were very helpful . 

30 minutes ago, amine93 said:

Ohh ok soo I have to wait ? 

So you recived the case number from uscis saying that your case is being sent to the USA embassy of your fiancé country ? Who did you recived the case number from uscis or your fiancée country usaembassy ? 

This is how mines worked , after I got. A letter from uscis saying that my case was sent to my fiancé a home country's us embassy we waited a month for the embassy in his country emailing us the I instructions of all the stuff my fiancé needed for his interview .                      they told us that once we had all the documents and medical exam they requested we needed to make photo copies of all the documents and a photo copy of the medical exam envelope which shown the the address of the clinic and the doctors name . Once we had everything ready my fiancé dropped off the photo copies at the embassy and 10 days later we recived and email stating the time and date of the interview Saying to bring all original copies of documents to the interview . 

37 minutes ago, amine93 said:

After getting the casse number we sent email to the embassy and they don't replay to us it's been like 20 days now what we should do ? 

I'm not sure if all embassies work the same but when you sent them an email they should send you and automatic conformation email saying they recived it . Try messaging them again or if there is a number you can call you can try that too . 

45 minutes ago, Maria1989 said:

 

Yes, sometimes consultations are free. But dont give up hope. I have been through a denial, for different reasons, but I know it hurts and makes you feel defeated. But you got to dust yourself and move forward. Make moves and as you complete the steps you will begin to see the light at the end of the tunnel. 

I am so devastated really because it's so hard to be away from a person you love ❤️ but hopefully with the help of a lawyer and the waiver we will over come this . Thank you for your words once again and you must imagine how I feel now because you said you went through a refusal too . 

11 minutes ago, Maria1989 said:

It will be a refusal regardless of it is a fiance or spousal. You will need the waiver either way. It would be a great idea to consult with the lawyer recommended by LionessDeon, she has proven results. 

 

Stay strong, I know its hard but remain hopeful.

Yeah that's what I thought . Thank you for your advice and your words . I will contact the lawyer this week and see what she says . 

6 minutes ago, adil-rafa said:

Like she said the interview was in UAE as we do not have an embassy in Iran

Well then whenever he had the interview she needs to contact them . Tó make sure they don't need anything else from them . 

1 hour ago, Cheshami said:

yes there was no refusal paper given to stated. they just told him everything was ok and that when the status online changes he can take papers and hand them in. but there is no number or email that i can concat 

There should be a number or address on the email or letter they sent you telling you when he had his interview , try to google embassy of Iran and something should come up . 

56 minutes ago, Auds said:

Missong paper to be submitted after visa issued does not make sense... 

 

i hope they are not waiting on these.  I eould send.

There might be a misunderstanding that's why they need to contact the embassy directly . 

You should contact the embassy directly through email and see what they say . They should be able to let you know what's going on , but if get told you that the visa was aproved I'm assuming they might be doing more background check and then it should be granted .  

If you have enough proof that the relationship is real then you should be ok , I mean there are other factors besides that the relationship being real that will determine if you get visa such as criminal record or if she makes enough money to support you here . If you guys see each other on Skype google k1 visa interview questions and practice with her . Like I said if you have enough photos together and proof of conversations emails and such things you should be fine . Good luck ! 

I was reading online about waivers and I read that the waiver has a 15 years wait ?? 

9 hours ago, Lhommepi said:

How can i know im on red flag??

Age difference , the times you guys have seen each other and how often , culture sometimes too 

from what I have seen when they send the application back to uscis with no further explanation is because they didn't believe the relationship was real . Tell us a little bit more about your relationship and someone might be able to tell you what went wrong and what options you might have 

12 hours ago, Transborderwife said:

Please seek help for yourself.  Self care is important 

If I marry my fiancé In his country and sponsor him as a husband will the visa still be refused do to his robbery charge ? And is the waiver the best route to take at this point ? 

46 minutes ago, Californiansunset said:

Yes of course you can. 

 

I've heard that unless you had a severe anxiety history before this whole process USCIS won't see it as a hardship or medical issue. Go to immigrate2us and look at the all the helpful info there. Unless you had medical history before the immigration process, USCIS sees it as made up in order to prove more hardship points. Of course there are also exceptions. 

 

I know the situation is stressful but try to remain positive. I think with the help of Liz  Cannon you can have this problem solved. It might take a littler longer as planned but you will be reunited. 

I never had high blood pressure before , but I've been to the doctor during the whole k1 visa process and that itself is very stressful and now I have high blood pressure and pains all over my body which I know is all from the stress . Thank you guys here from vj for all the advice it is very tough . Nobody should ever go through something like this 😢😢😢😢

55 minutes ago, Transborderwife said:

Please seek help for yourself.  Self care is important 

Can I visit my fiancé while we are in the process of the waiver ? 

4 hours ago, Maria1989 said:

One thing for sure, you will fail if you do nothing. You have options, select the one the best fits you mentally and financially. Doing nothing, Im sure you will have nothing but regrets. 

 

Lioness has experience in that and has offered to be of assistance and support. And remember  she was successful. Proof that you can make it.

 

Pray for the best, always have hope.

Does a robbery have any chance of being forgiven by the waiver that's my concern and I mean the hardship I can prove is that in his country there is a high rate of unemployment and I don't know if it will count but this whole thing is causing me anxiety , high blood pressure and even auicidal thoughts 😢 

I feel very hopeless right now ... is the waiver a safe route or could I come again in the same situation that I did all this process spent money for nothing for it to be refused at the end 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

Have your partner contact the embassy through email with the case number and all and they should answer all your concerns . Give them around 15 business days for them to reply .

1 hour ago, geowrian said:

Age, religious, etc. differences are not ineligibilities for a visa. The same goes for how much face time they have, support given, etc. There are people who are 30 years apart in age who have been approved. There are other who are 20 years apart that have been rejected. A red flag is not a cause for denial by itself. It's something to overcome with sufficient evidence of a bona fide relationship...as determined by interviewing the applicant.

Makes sense , the council officers are also trained to determine a fake or real relationship . 

59 minutes ago, Sparrow said:

If you have red flags then they will refused like they did refused my case three days ago we have age gap that's the main reason they refused case and send back to national visa center or uscis for their final review 

I think that when they send the case back national visa center means that they didn't believe that the relationship was real and they will just let the application expire . 

56 minutes ago, geowrian said:

1. A CO has complete discretion to make the determination if the relationship is bona fide. Their decisions are also subject to consular nonreviewability. It is easy for them to refuse a visa...a non-resident outside the US has almost no rights (and one who was never issued a visa has no rights except basic human rights).
2. A USC does have the right to petition for a relative, but they have no right to have that petition approved or a visa issued. Immigration is a privilege, not a right.

USCIS doesn't approve visas. They only approve the petitions, which are primarily jurisdictional in nature to ensure certain requirements are met. They do NOT look at any relationship evidence or even the visa requirements. They only look that the requirements for the petition are met, allowing somebody to apply for a visa.

 

I also kind of wish they only asked for certain  documents after the discretionary aspects were complete, but that's just not the process. The CO needs to look at all the evidence to determine eligibility for the visa...medical results are one of the things  they need to know first.

57 minutes ago, geowrian said:

1. A CO has complete discretion to make the determination if the relationship is bona fide. Their decisions are also subject to consular nonreviewability. It is easy for them to refuse a visa...a non-resident outside the US has almost no rights (and one who was never issued a visa has no rights except basic human rights).
2. A USC does have the right to petition for a relative, but they have no right to have that petition approved or a visa issued. Immigration is a privilege, not a right.

USCIS doesn't approve visas. They only approve the petitions, which are primarily jurisdictional in nature to ensure certain requirements are met. They do NOT look at any relationship evidence or even the visa requirements. They only look that the requirements for the petition are met, allowing somebody to apply for a visa.

 

I also kind of wish they only asked for certain  documents after the discretionary aspects were complete, but that's just not the process. The CO needs to look at all the evidence to determine eligibility for the visa...medical results are one of the things  they need to know first.

I understand they need to see the person and have a interview ask then ask questions and a mandatory medical exam , but certain things as age difference , gaps between the last time the couple has seen each other or how much money does the petitionary makes in order to support the fiancé or husband , those are things that should be catched by uscis . 

21 hours ago, Cookie378 said:

What if my wife come to Pakistan and walk in to the u.s consulate and talk to Visa Officer about my visa will that help?

If You have proof of the relationship and you have a clean criminal record I believe they can't refuse you that easy , as an American citizen is her right to be able to sponsor her fiancé or husband . When they keep your passport doesn't really mean positive sign . My fiancé had his interview about 2 months ago and they kept his passport and now we got the refusal letter on our email but his refusal was due to a criminal record . I'm guessing they want to review your case more just have your fiancé email the embassy and see what they say to her is better for her to show more interest in this case than for the beneficiary . One thing I don't understand is that why uscis aproves all these cases and makes the benificary go through all these things like medical exams and all for the interview to then have them refused . This whole process is very stressing . Anyways good luck to you !