You don't.
You used to have to go to the embassy and get a affidavit/certificate showing that you were free to marry. You show them the divorce decree and that give you a paper. I forget what it was called, it was a while ago. When I landed in Manila we stayed there overnight and went to the embassy. But from what I understand they do not do that anymore.
All documents were brought by me when I flew there. I needed needed my birth certificate, divorce decree, and not sure what else. Like I said, make her go and find out the requirements so you do not miss anything.
This is pretty much standard across the Philippines. You will get a good laugh. It must be in person. We had a family friend with us that knew the counselor well so they were mostly just talking the hole time. But we did go through it. When they discuss the financial part where all the money goes to the wife for her to manage, that's the part where I got a good laugh. My wife already knew that was not happening in our relationship.
Yes.