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  1. 19 hours ago, You&me15 said:

    Hi im a filipina too and agree waiting really sucks!!! Spending some time here in vj i read something that caught my attention:not to compare my timeline to others and check the status once a day probably at night. Everytime i tell my fiance how much im impatiently waiting for notice2 he keep telling me to do things i cant do when im with him.and it helps

    im a domestic helper in hk and yes i know grace we share frustrations lol following what my fiance told me really helps it diverts my attention

    1,i spend more more time with kids and play a lot with my baby dog i love this little baby so much 

    2,starting to organize everything so it will not be hard for the next worker to find what they need

    3,i spend lot of time talking to my friends every sunday 

    4, i start gathering some papers too 

    5, in times that i still think about our approval i cross stitch its my hobby

          One day we had an agreement not to look in vj and status we'll just wait for notification 24 hours later i asked him to check to our surprise we got an approval 

        Things are different i know but everytime we talk we avoid talking about approval it lessens all the negative feelings. As i always told grace wait and wait this is just a test and never ever give up 

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    So now one update a day checking... me  and if it is good news tell her..  THANK YOU

     

  2. 19 hours ago, You&me15 said:

    Hi im a filipina too and agree waiting really sucks!!! Spending some time here in vj i read something that caught my attention:not to compare my timeline to others and check the status once a day probably at night. Everytime i tell my fiance how much im impatiently waiting for notice2 he keep telling me to do things i cant do when im with him.and it helps

    im a domestic helper in hk and yes i know grace we share frustrations lol following what my fiance told me really helps it diverts my attention

    1,i spend more more time with kids and play a lot with my baby dog i love this little baby so much 

    2,starting to organize everything so it will not be hard for the next worker to find what they need

    3,i spend lot of time talking to my friends every sunday 

    4, i start gathering some papers too 

    5, in times that i still think about our approval i cross stitch its my hobby

          One day we had an agreement not to look in vj and status we'll just wait for notification 24 hours later i asked him to check to our surprise we got an approval 

        Things are different i know but everytime we talk we avoid talking about approval it lessens all the negative feelings. As i always told grace wait and wait this is just a test and never ever give up 

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    So now one update a day checking... me  and if it is good news tell her..  THANK YOU

     

  3. 9 hours ago, AlohaDestiny said:

    Yup @Roger & Grace. We really hope that, too. So let it be you or @Jon & Malen. If lucky, 4 filipina fiances to 'possibly' meet at the embassy interview as we are just days away per our respective timelines hahaha. If things go smooth, 2months is the average processing time from NOA2 to Interview. USEM is quite fast at this phase. That's proven with recent VJ data. Phew!!! Some were actually less than that. Anyway, hope you both get approved anytime SOOOON along with other Phil-based beneficiaries, and non-Phil-based ofcourse. We're family here in VJ. We're all in this together spreading hopes with realistic expectations.

     

    Since i joined here, I have such feels of joy whenever I see approvals posted here especially those who are way past 100 days. 

     

    A quote to live by to manage anxiety and stress: 

     

    "If it's meant to be, the universe will conspire to make it happen. Anything beyond our control isn't worth stressing out. Life is unfair but it is balanced. 🙂

     

    It pays to fill our hearts and mind with nothing but positivity. 

     

    Aloha!!!! 😀

     

     

     

     

    Thank you for saying so.  Grace is freaking out worried! 

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  4. 6 hours ago, HSJH said:

    After a frustrating day running around Shanghai trying to get a heads start on the police report (I'm from Hong Kong but has been working in Shanghai for the past 2.5 years), still to no avail (anyone has any advise on that, btw? they kept saying 'we cannot release a report for you coz you are from Hong Kong.. and kept pushing me to another station/dept..) 

     

    Tonight, to my complete surprise - I checked our K1 status mindlessly and IT WAS APPROVED!!! (our NOA 1 was Jan 19 :)

     

    This forum has been a saving grace for me (long time lurker, first time post-er :) Best of luck to everyone! Everyday is another step closer for us! 

     

    Happy for you!   I know it is frustrating but it is good to hear others getting through the system!  (Even though we secretly wish it was us too!)  

  5. 6 hours ago, AlohaDestiny said:

    Hey! here sends my big congratulations to you, too! I was typing my reply to your previous quote about my approval when i saw yours getting approved as well. A day difference from mine. Yay!!! 

     

    Congrats again and keep in touch for our PI USEM journey! 👏🎉👍

     

    Also, to those who have gotten their NOA2s, Congratulations!!!

     

    And to those who are still on the wait, again hang in there... you're next! 🙂👍 

     

    Aloha! 🙂

    So things seem to come in three's right??  So 1 down, 2 down,  let us be the 3rd???  

  6. 8 hours ago, Herhorizon said:

    Well after having did a little venting earlier about the confusion with what information needs to be posted on the timeline I have some good news. Have gotten approved today. Hew Haw!!! Have not gotten an official email or text saying been approved but the USCIS app. says my case has been approved. I now feel as though this big weight and 10,000 lb. gorilla has been lifted off my shoulders. Keep the faith people. It is going to happen soon and then all that anxiety and stress will suddenly just disappear.

    Extremely excited for you... hope we are next too..

  7. 13 minutes ago, RocarrM said:

    It has been 6 days that our case stuck at the NVC , they don't transfer it to the US embassy , So worried ! 🤔😒

    We already recieved our Case number 5 days ago.

    Does any one know how long would it might take the NVC process?

     

    could take 2-3 weeks  prepare all the other forms  pictures your brag book and mail it to her.. for the interviews 

  8. 12 minutes ago, Estibaliz said:

    Sorry for meddling, but it's my understanding that you use your Notice date for the VJ Timeline. Just keep in mind the scans use your Received date... so you should have January on there so the estimates work? 

     

    Oh well, not biggie... and sure you are a lovely couple. Best of lucks for this week!

    So now again another person  (you)  are saying it the other way??? Received date 12/27  is for the Excel files?  But the real Notice date is Jan 6th, as far as the California office...  now were back to where we were earlier...

     

    They sure don't make this easy!  So which one is everyone using?  

  9. 4 minutes ago, Redheadguy03 said:

    Use the received date. The confusion is on your timeline you put January 6th for your NOA1, but it should be December 27th. So change the NOA1 date on your timeline to the received date of December 27th. 

    OK,  just did... Thanks.. 

     

    So here we are...... 

     

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  10. 6 minutes ago, akealon said:

    Here is today's December update.  (Note: this is only for cases on the December list and does not include November or January activity)

     

    Touched Cases (By Result)
    Count of ID Date    
      4/10/2017 4/11/2017 4/12/2017
    Approved 81 65 52
    Others 41 23 18
    RFE 16 2 8
    Grand Total 138 90 78

     

     

    Rec'd Date Current Day Previous Day Touched Cases
    1-Dec 2 2 0
    2-Dec 2 2 0
    5-Dec 6 6 0
    6-Dec 13 13 0
    7-Dec 2 2 0
    8-Dec 11 11 0
    9-Dec 31 31 0
    12-Dec 24 25 1
    13-Dec 7 7 0
    14-Dec 35 35 0
    15-Dec 38 38 0
    16-Dec 30 30 0
    19-Dec 47 51 4
    20-Dec 55 56 1
    21-Dec 133 133 0
    22-Dec 143 144 1
    23-Dec 207 208 1
    27-Dec 327 334 7
    28-Dec 150 165 15
    29-Dec 49 51 2
    30-Dec 72 72 0

     

  11. 9 hours ago, AlohaDestiny said:

    We got APPROVED! Indeed, patience is virtue. 😘❤️👍🎉

     

    I129F form sent Dec 22, 2016

    USCIS received date Dec 28, 2016

    NOA1 electronic Jan 11, 2017

    NOA1 letter with Notice Date  Jan 9, 2017

    NOA2 electronic April 12, 2017

     

    Here sends some lucky vibes to all of you who are still on the wait. It will soon come. Have faith! 

     

    Thank you geowrian and axesangel for the daily updates and also to all those who keep spreading hope and words of encouragement here on VJ. 

     

    Aloha!!! 😘🎉👍😱🙏❤️

    Extremely  excited... we have almost the same dates... please be today!!!! 

  12. 34 minutes ago, Brandon y Nadia said:

    Hang in there. Refreshing the app constantly won't make you approval come any faster. We all know it's a wait, but try to keep yourself busy and then next thing you know you have the notification that you are awaiting.

    That's easily said... and true... but the wait is crazy...  Then someone on here, maybe 2 posts, and they get approved? 

     

    And I go really?  How did you help the community here at all.... Grrrrrrrrrr.  

     

    IMO, I feel if I am helping others on here, I am giving encouragement to them as well. I know the VJ site and others have been a huuuuuuge help so far!  

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