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2 minutes ago, mustang85635 said:

Another big downfall is going to really any south east asian especially indonesia you cannot own a business or property/house if you are not a citizen. So in case of a business the majority stake has to be with a citizen and properties have to be purchased by them. This is very important that you remember that before you invest all your savings in a new house there and dont really know the person all that much . 

Not only the person, if you don't know well the third world country, don't invest anything at least for 1 year living there and watching how things work. You will be amazed how fast all your capital will be gone and no law working for to get at least some back

15 minutes ago, Gina Guo said:

Case closed on 8.21 after filing on 7.18 with a default judgement ruled in green card fraud annulment. I believed him when he lied about not going through with it. 

I thought the easiest way to know he can’t annul our marriage for green card fraud is because he still sweet talk me 4 months after case closed. Nobody tells their ex wife loves her miss her can’t live without her wanna see her if she commits green card fraud. He scammed me. And now it’s gonna cost me big money to fix this mess. 

You probably can't fix the annulment, you were served. But you can ask and pay for the copy of the whole annulment file you ex gave to the court, see what evidence he presented, see if it is real, ... you can sue your ex if it's fake or to see how to defend yourself if the immigration takes this annulment seriously

when did you find out she is still legally married? What does it tell you about the married woman being on a dating website looking for men? what her dating profile was saying? Single, Married, Divorced?

you were served and you needed to follow up your annulment or get the lawyer to check his filing and contest. Being served means you had the right to ask for a copy of his filing and protest it. Now you still have the right to ask the court for a copy of the annulment, at least you will know what he filed against you and what evidence he gave to the court. It will help for your green card knowing what's going on and consult an immigration lawyer

7 minutes ago, Boiler said:

To be fair annulment is a very popular subject on VJ, hard pushed to rember anybody getting one, must have happened.

I got it and he is back to his country.

and yes, getting an Annulment by FRAUD, you need the evidence he / she married you for papers only, better in writing or messages printing where the immigrants is saying it.

2 minutes ago, geowrian said:

This myth never dies. An annulment does not impact somebody's green card, nor their ability to ROC in any way differently than a divorce.

There is something to be said as to being able to get an annulment based on fraud meaning there is good evidence that there's also evidence for USCIS to consider, but the annulment itself is not part of that evidence.

If the marriage is by FRAUD, it is invalid as well as any immigration benefit based on a FRAUD marriage. Consult an attorney, please

August, try to file the marriage Annulment, you even didn't live together and he is gone, see what are the grounds for Annulment in your state. If you get it, his green card should revoked, do the Annulment based on marriage fraud.

Read this, it's very serious marrying for papers only

http://nigeriastandardnewspaper.com/ng/shocking-in-america-nigerian-kings-of-fraud-in-texas-folarin-alabi-justice-daniel-convicted-for-marriage-scam-faces-five-years-each-in-federal-prison-plus-250000-fines-deceives-and-conspire-an/

2 hours ago, Fearful said:

Yes, Acidrain suggested something like this. That is a very good idea. I need to find out the name of the place. My son said she told him but he didn’t remember the name. I think I’ll need to go to the town and spend the day finding it.

It's your son, his life, do whatever it takes, ask your close friends, give them gifts or hire somebody, see if you can ask her uncle neighbors, do everything you can to see what kind of person she is. I don't believe really it is her uncle but you need prove, see if you can pretend to be a guy and chat her with her in Tender. I hope all will go well for you and your son. Good luck!

I hope you and your son will be smart BEFORE the marriage, not after as I was

14 minutes ago, Cathy Chandler said:

that was smart getting him to chat with you and serving him through the phone. He has some nerve asking you to marry him again! Im sitting here in disbelief.

Chat was in Facebook. I needed copies for Annulment. Yes, it is incredible, he tried first play on being sincere and honest with me as I asked him to be at least friends, then when I said it's a fraud to marry knowing it's not a real marriage, I won't marry him again because of that, he even tried to convince me again he loves me. But no way, maybe it is love for him but not for me, I married a very nice man single responsible father and I was willing to take care of his baby but I got a cheater who has 3 women, 3 kids and lies so many lies more. And I was very much in love and even before applying his fiance visa was asking if he has more kids as he needs to fill up all names for to give to all equal benefits, he denied his own children

Just now, Cathy Chandler said:

 

Oh Gosh, it happened all at once and then he hit you? That slime ball! you were so smart to get the Annulment. How did you get his chats? Did you have his phone? I bet it hurt to give up that baby too. Man how horrible but ill have to say, you knew what you had to do and you did it! 2 years. At least you are free now.

he run away but still I was chatting with him to get him saying in writing, same his women, his women didn't know he married me and were angry telling me everything, he was saying he came for work and I am the baby babysitter.

I needed to chat with him to get all in chats as well to show him the divorce publications, he didn't want to sign and was very surprised I got it without his signature but as law says, I was showing him the court application so he can appeal if he wishes, he did not. He didn't leave his address or phone, the chat was the only way to serv him. But after the divorce asking me to marry him again and to be back to US

I hope your son will be very careful, I have my son very similar and he told me he doesn't want to be married as he is even more trustful than I am and usually users and takers are fast in getting the good people. He told he never wants to risk to marry somebody for this reason

13 minutes ago, Cathy Chandler said:

Oh my Gosh. You went through hell! I can't believe what you had to endure and probably had to be your own detective. Finding that out one thing piled on top of another had to be bizarre to you to say the least and the worst part is finding out he was using you. You are so lucky you could get an annulment. I bet that is hard to get since a lot of people probably get shammed and the government doesn't want to be stuck with supporting these people so I bet that makes it hard to obtain an annulment. You had more than good reason to get one. I'm glad you are finally seeing a little light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for sharing this with me.

No, I was trusting in everything and didn't look at anything, he left his chats on my pillow and those chats didn't let me sleep and when I wanted to put his phone away, they opened, I got one woman name in Facebook, then even his family showed up in chat, the 2nd woman too, all telling, he got mad, violent, broke one inside door, hit me physically and left the next day. 

After he left, I told myself to be smart and to do the Annulment, got from his own chats the evidence him saying he married me by papers only and more about the fake baby. It was hurting but I said to myself I need to do it, Texas is community property state, so I did, it cost me lots and 2 years of my life, this adventure.

18 minutes ago, Cathy Chandler said:

I meant to tell you how sorry I am for your experience and I hope you are ok.

Just started to get better, he left mid April, I was lucky he left, he was afraid being caught by marriage fraud and human trafficking crime. Very nice man, so convincing he loves me more than life itself, so perfect single father with 1 child, I did visa for both, at the end I found out he has 3 women in 2 countries each one with the child but the child he brought on my fiance visa is not his, he faked the DNA result and marrying me, he was paying with my money that fake child mother tourist visa, she got denied and started to accuse him in kidnapping, he traveled back to his country in 1 day, I got the marriage Annulment by fraud. I was very lucky he didn't stay, his Advance Parole arrived few days after he left and his green card was soon to be approved but it was denied as he left without the Advance Parole. Much more to it but it's too much, I try to forget.

And yes, I was very lucky not being hooked for 10 years with the Affidavit of Support. I didn't know anything, he was so nice and perfect.

Better hire a detective and check out her personal story and whereabouts here in US, it could be anything.

How didn't you even submit the Original Marriage License and the Divorce Decree? They are basic to prove the marriage

2 hours ago, Cathy Chandler said:

Wow, that is a little dark but I guess anything is possible. Yeah, I ve lived long enough to know not to take everything at face value. I wish he could verify the things she has told him.

Anything could be. If I told you my story, you wouldn't believe it, I still can't believe myself how nice can be a person and make so many lies and so heartless.

Try to find out who is that uncle she is living with. Maybe it's not the uncle but her lover who took her in and helped her with job. There is also the possibility he is her boss and manager in the Vietnamese slave ring and she is working as a sexual worker for him. All her unstable saying this and that doesn't make her look as a simple honest girl. Try to check what she is doing.

She is a player. For some reason she wants to involve her lover in her drama. Get the paternity test, help her to divorce her husband and stay in US, marry her and watch her cheating on you the same she does now on her husband. Cheaters never change. Enjoy.

2 minutes ago, RO_AH said:

It has more to do with the laws of the state than the judge. Nothing is 100 percent but I would really like to know what state (or judge) will refuse an annulment where your spouse chooses to not live with you and you have never had physical relations. Not to mention the other factors in this case.

Both. Nothing is sure but anyways he will get at least the divorce. And yes, he has all the grounds but better the evidence IN WRITING. Start chatting with her in text or Facebook and get the screenshots of what she is saying

And be careful, she can put you not only in financial troubles but in legal too if she already plays against the law. Cut all ties with her, you never know what she can do or say in the future if you don't divorce or better get the annulment by fraud, she could make you responsible for some other fraud

5 hours ago, RO_AH said:

Well it's extremely hard to get an annulment if it has been consummated. In this case the fact that she did not live with him, and entered into the relationship fraudulently combined with the fact that the marriage was never consummated makes an extremely strong case for annulment.

it all depends of the judge and how do you make your case. The annulment has grounds, check your state the annulment application and see, consummated or not, doesn't matter, you can get the annulment by fraud, attach all chats or evidence in writing, make a latter explaining and, ask for annulment, in case the judge doesn't see enough evidence for annulment, gives you a simple divorce anyway. But as I see you can get the Annulment by Fraud

4 minutes ago, Lovelace01 said:

Even right now her name is still on CEAC as accompany but there's no way we can pay for her iv 

we did and she came together with her father, K1 and K2 and it was in Lagos in December 2016.

The baby had in CEAC her own Number for to pay for her visa and my fiance got both visas the day of his interview

1 minute ago, Georgia16 said:

Your child got a K-2.

 

And a process for a K-2 is very different from a CR-2 so it will not be the case for this baby.

yes, K2, thank you for the correction

are you already in the process of immigrant visa? Was your baby listed as your child in all documents? Your application documents. If the name of the child is listed, check online or ask if the baby is already included for to get you both the immigrant visa.

It is confusing about children, I was applying for K1 visa for my fiance and we only saw the baby's name included after the file went to his country and it wasn't saying there is visa, we just saw her name after her father name in CEAC, so we paid her visa fees, medical and all needed and she got K3 visa stumped in her passport. We didn't make an apart visa application for her, just listing her in her father application.

Check out your visa application, maybe it's the same