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    Rc123rc got a reaction from EM_Vandaveer in Fraud victim what happens next...   
    Nope, not a thing. radical acceptance. Not your problem anymore. Karma will take care of her at some point. Make your life stress freer and stop obsessing over would you think you should or not do. Truthfully? I think you are paying attention to this way too much. You're tracking her movements. Ya, it's a nice thought about warning the next guy but I'm reading beyond that a touch of bitterness on your part. Understandable but not healthy. Especially, when you are in a new relationship. It's going to taint it.
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    Rc123rc reacted to abhi_meli in Fraud victim what happens next...   
    You can still report to the USCIS...send another letter with evidence this time.Once you do that,stop walking down the memory lane and enjoy your life...believe in karma...being revengeful ain't gonna help.
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from linafinn in Fraud victim what happens next...   
    Nope, not a thing. radical acceptance. Not your problem anymore. Karma will take care of her at some point. Make your life stress freer and stop obsessing over would you think you should or not do. Truthfully? I think you are paying attention to this way too much. You're tracking her movements. Ya, it's a nice thought about warning the next guy but I'm reading beyond that a touch of bitterness on your part. Understandable but not healthy. Especially, when you are in a new relationship. It's going to taint it.
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from ToddB in Fraud victim what happens next...   
    Nope, not a thing. radical acceptance. Not your problem anymore. Karma will take care of her at some point. Make your life stress freer and stop obsessing over would you think you should or not do. Truthfully? I think you are paying attention to this way too much. You're tracking her movements. Ya, it's a nice thought about warning the next guy but I'm reading beyond that a touch of bitterness on your part. Understandable but not healthy. Especially, when you are in a new relationship. It's going to taint it.
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from Cheezees in Fraud victim what happens next...   
    Nope, not a thing. radical acceptance. Not your problem anymore. Karma will take care of her at some point. Make your life stress freer and stop obsessing over would you think you should or not do. Truthfully? I think you are paying attention to this way too much. You're tracking her movements. Ya, it's a nice thought about warning the next guy but I'm reading beyond that a touch of bitterness on your part. Understandable but not healthy. Especially, when you are in a new relationship. It's going to taint it.
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from Unidentified in Return to home country after marriage for work until retirement   
    Agree. Too many variables in this one. Also sounds like a situation where someone wants to have cake and eat it too. No free passes on open visitations. You said B-2 was denied. Chances are it will be again. K-1 and CR-1/IR-1 are not open invitations to just visit the United States while you figure out what your going to do or her wait for retirement. You may not like it or can afford it but I'm thinking best option is for you to visit China until she is close to retiring. Get married over there and file for a CR-1. Time it so she gets her approval and can come here soon after her retirement. Anything else you have to have a lot of proof of her ties to homeland.
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from Marc_us82 in Return to home country after marriage for work until retirement   
    Agree. Too many variables in this one. Also sounds like a situation where someone wants to have cake and eat it too. No free passes on open visitations. You said B-2 was denied. Chances are it will be again. K-1 and CR-1/IR-1 are not open invitations to just visit the United States while you figure out what your going to do or her wait for retirement. You may not like it or can afford it but I'm thinking best option is for you to visit China until she is close to retiring. Get married over there and file for a CR-1. Time it so she gets her approval and can come here soon after her retirement. Anything else you have to have a lot of proof of her ties to homeland.
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from Arpan in K-1 Visa Cancellation and appling CR-1/K3 visa   
    K-3 is obsolete and not used any more. You don't have a qualifying event for speeding up the visa approval. Court marriage versus religious marriage references is a little confusing. Court marriage is all you need to file the CR-1. So if you are doing that on your visit coming up then go ahead and file the CR-1. The religious marriage is not a factor. Just make sure you have a valid marriage certificate form the court marriage.
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from lost_at_sea in Return to home country after marriage for work until retirement   
    Agree. Too many variables in this one. Also sounds like a situation where someone wants to have cake and eat it too. No free passes on open visitations. You said B-2 was denied. Chances are it will be again. K-1 and CR-1/IR-1 are not open invitations to just visit the United States while you figure out what your going to do or her wait for retirement. You may not like it or can afford it but I'm thinking best option is for you to visit China until she is close to retiring. Get married over there and file for a CR-1. Time it so she gets her approval and can come here soon after her retirement. Anything else you have to have a lot of proof of her ties to homeland.
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from Marc_us82 in Cambodian girlfriend seeking tourist visa to accompany me to US visit   
    Hi, I didn't mean for it to sound like a contradiction. My apologies. If you read other threads and posts, you will see that your girlfriend should be paying for the trip, not you to avoid a red flag. It shows she is self sufficient. It goes back to strong ties to her home country. If she can't make it on her own in her own country then there is not much of a tie. Living with you is the exact same thing. It sounds like she is completely dependent on you. Where are her ties to her home country? Please review similar threads and please don't get hung up on the semantics of what is or is not related to you and why. Everything has to be on her own merit. The bottom line? Living with you for home and trip expenses is an indicator she has very few ties to her home country. Pay attention to mimolicous post. It's a voice of experience. You asked for her chances. People gave their opinion and or experiences.
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from Marc_us82 in Cambodian girlfriend seeking tourist visa to accompany me to US visit   
    Not sure why the OP is getting upset unless he just didn't like the answers. 1) You're paying for the trip. Red Flag. 2) She's living with you. Red Flag. 3) Anything about you is irrelevant. It's her visa not yours. 4) The consulate wants to know everything and I mean everything that would convince them that she will return to Cambodia. From the responses and what you have written, think about it from a Consulate Officer standpoint. What you would like to happen has no bearing on this situation. Good Luck and I do mean it. Having almost get a K-1 denial recently, I can sympathize. Have her take the interview but I would not suggest buying any plane tickets until after the interview. Oh, and don't forget they can still deny her at POE.
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    Rc123rc reacted to Cathi in RE: NEED INFORMATION PLEASE!!!   
    They must apply for visitors visas. They must show very strong ties to home proving they will return. They must apply and be approved on their own merits and their merits alone, proving they also have their own money to finance the trip. There is absolutely nothing you can say or do to help, that includes writing a letter or saying you will fiance their trips. Nothing you send or say on their behalf will help, and in many cases can hurt Also the fact that entire family wants to travel together at the same time will work against them. Good luck.
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    Rc123rc reacted to Boo Rowe in RE: NEED INFORMATION PLEASE!!!   
    Thank you! RCripps
    I have been to Jamaica for the past 2 Christmas Holiday and would love for my family to come and see how we also, celebrate the Christmas holiday
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from JFH in Problems with filling for the fiance visa   
    Express Mailed Everything for tracking purposes. Scanned everything including the Cashier's Check from my bank, 4 full sets of documents. One for filing, one for me, one for my fiancee and a backup copy in case something or everything got lost. Knowing how bad the government is for losing documents, I took no chances.
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from Marc_us82 in child abuse   
    From what I can gather, child did something, computer taken away, child pissed and cried, teacher got involved and child said was hit in head by parent, meeting called for parent to explain, didn't show up, child protective services called in. Did I get even close to that mess?
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from Cheezees in Moving from foreign country   
    It's expensive no matter what method to ship you use.. By freighter is the cheapest but it takes 2-3 months sometimes for the items to arrive. Also, you get a better rate for say 10 boxes or more shipped at once. 20 suitcases is a lot. Time to weed out the clothes. Compare your climate to hers and get rid of clothing that's not needed in your climate. Stuff that hasn't been worn in a year or price tag still on? Bye bye. Classic case of downsizing for any kind of move whether 80 miles or 8,000 miles. Sometimes buying new items is cheaper than trying to ship them. I am setting aside money just for clothes replacement when my fiance gets here so she can ship the minimum amounts of clothes, memories and some personal items.
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from Unidentified in Options for Mental ill individual   
    Unless you have legal medical guardianship your sister can refuse all treatment. If she is refusing now then I don't see how petitioning for her will help. If she gets proper treatment where she is then it makes the reason you want her to immigrate moot. I would suggest going there and convincing her to get proper treatment first before anything else.
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from JFH in Options for Mental ill individual   
    Unless you have legal medical guardianship your sister can refuse all treatment. If she is refusing now then I don't see how petitioning for her will help. If she gets proper treatment where she is then it makes the reason you want her to immigrate moot. I would suggest going there and convincing her to get proper treatment first before anything else.
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from EM_Vandaveer in Options for Mental ill individual   
    Unless you have legal medical guardianship your sister can refuse all treatment. If she is refusing now then I don't see how petitioning for her will help. If she gets proper treatment where she is then it makes the reason you want her to immigrate moot. I would suggest going there and convincing her to get proper treatment first before anything else.
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from Unidentified in Ex Husband Threatening to Apply for Food Stamps   
    Is that clause actually enforceable? I'd re-check that with your lawyer considering this is a Federal governing issue.
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from Expat1 in Ex Husband Threatening to Apply for Food Stamps   
    Is that clause actually enforceable? I'd re-check that with your lawyer considering this is a Federal governing issue.
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from KASH2011 in Does it get better? Got married on K1 and it's been wishy washy hell.   
    Nothing to do with a K-1. Everyone is different and uprooting to a new country is certainly stressful. Also, living together constantly instead of honeymoon/vacation visits that you might have had in the past is also something to take into consideration. Certainly patience, compromise, compassion, empathy and support are needed. I'd take a good look at why you are fighting. Power struggle, nosy relatives, children, respect, ego, cultural differences, religious beliefs, used to doing things your own ways etc. These are all issues that need to be worked on quickly before they cause resentment.
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from Kat&Jon in Does it get better? Got married on K1 and it's been wishy washy hell.   
    Nothing to do with a K-1. Everyone is different and uprooting to a new country is certainly stressful. Also, living together constantly instead of honeymoon/vacation visits that you might have had in the past is also something to take into consideration. Certainly patience, compromise, compassion, empathy and support are needed. I'd take a good look at why you are fighting. Power struggle, nosy relatives, children, respect, ego, cultural differences, religious beliefs, used to doing things your own ways etc. These are all issues that need to be worked on quickly before they cause resentment.
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from JFH in b2 visa holder with US citizen child   
    I guess the simple answer is. Yes, she can try to go to the U.S on unexpired B2 Visa with child. POE can refuse and she would go back immediately. If fail on B2 visa then can she try for the F1 visa. Again, possibility of denial. Please bear in mind if the people on here are seeing signs of immigration intent then you can be sure immigration will think same thing. B2 or F1 are both non immigration visas and if any suspicion of immigration intent then both will be denied. You're friend is going to need a backup plan.
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    Rc123rc got a reaction from aruadha in Moving from foreign country   
    It's expensive no matter what method to ship you use.. By freighter is the cheapest but it takes 2-3 months sometimes for the items to arrive. Also, you get a better rate for say 10 boxes or more shipped at once. 20 suitcases is a lot. Time to weed out the clothes. Compare your climate to hers and get rid of clothing that's not needed in your climate. Stuff that hasn't been worn in a year or price tag still on? Bye bye. Classic case of downsizing for any kind of move whether 80 miles or 8,000 miles. Sometimes buying new items is cheaper than trying to ship them. I am setting aside money just for clothes replacement when my fiance gets here so she can ship the minimum amounts of clothes, memories and some personal items.
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