Klepley

Most important thing. Don't lie.  Only rule you need to remember when going through the process.
Good luck!

Most important thing. Don't lie.  Only rule you need to remember when going through the process.
Good luck!

Most important thing. Don't lie.  Only rule you need to remember when going through the process.
Good luck!

I highly suggest you read Greenbaum's link. It is extremely informative and a step by step guide to the process. Helped me immensely. And practice being patient as it takes time, and sometimes more time.
Good luck!
Kevin

I send money to the Philippines via Western Union all the time. I have never had a problem.

It's better to find out now then later but that is the reality. Yes, a long distance relationship is difficult at best. My wife and I talked for hours a day on the MJphone/skype and every day she was there, same time same place. I never had my doubts about her. We spent 2 years talking even before I scheduled a trip. Once I made the trip then I knew that she was for me. I proposed and we began the process of getting her papers in order. Then I returned back for the interview with her as support, and I was curious how this all worked at the Embassy. To this day she appreciated everything I did for her and her children to get them to the US and into a better life. I truly love her and I am glad she is with me. We just became Lola and Lolo's last week as her daughter gave birth to a 7lb boy.
Anyway, I digressed. Don't give up on the Philippines as the people are truly wonderful. But, keep in mind that you have to take your time.
There is nothing wrong in staying in touch with her and giving her some space. 2016 is not that far away. Who knows, another trip and more time it may work. Good Luck.

Better to know now than later. I won't disagree with you that international relationship is difficult and it goes beyond just money, especially when its a different culture to boot.