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    Jhalil&Mandy got a reaction from Unlockable in K-1 Visa Marring my ex-wife Sister(merged)   
    I will try to look at this with as little judgement as I can.
    What you need to do is you have to look at it from an outside perspective. If you break it down it looks like this:

    - Got 1 woman in to the country succesfully through the K-1 Visa.
    - Marriage ends after 3 years, the time it takes for her to not need to still be married to you.
    - You intend to repeat the process with another woman shortly after (I believe?) the divorce.
    - The woman you intend to marry is your now ex-wife's, sister, that you have not had a romantical relationship with for a good/long period of time that you can prove . I say this while assuming the divorce is recent, therefore you couldn't have been in a different relationship before the divorce.

    All in all, I understand the situation. As much as it sounds very suspicious and something that could be in a movie, it's possible it's all true. However, you have odds piled up against you from almost every single aspect of what these workers will be looking for.

    - High risk country where a lot of K-1 Visa fraud happens.
    - Divorced right after 3 year period ended on a prior K-1 Visa and attempting to file for a new K-1 with a different woman. <- This one is a major concern. Even if they overlook the fact that these women are sisters. The timing for this is just incredibly suspicious.
    - Little proof of a longterm/ongoing relationship.
    - Very, very, very suspicious circumstances where both women are from the same family.

    Now I absolutely don't mean to offend you or your love interest and/or ex-wife. But are YOU certain you're not being played? These are women coming from a country where the living conditions are less than optimal for the poor. I don't know anything about them, they could be very well off which makes this point moot. But how certain are you that they're not just using you to get in to the country?

    These are all questions you need to ask yourself before you even consider doing this. Because with the circumstances you gave us there will indeed be red flags galore.
    And if you and your new lover, can not convince the people working your case that beyond all doubt you two are incredibly, hopeleslly and completely in love and devoted to each other. Then I personally don't think that you will have much chance of this new petition being accepted.
    All that being said, I'm sorry for your divorce and good luck in the future.
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    Jhalil&Mandy got a reaction from dbuizert in March TSC   
    Sent to you or the embassy? As long as YOU have them on you when you get there, you're all set!
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    Jhalil&Mandy got a reaction from dbuizert in March TSC   
    Glad I helped
    Our interviews are exactly a week apart. My medical exam is in a week and 3 days, exactly 1 week before my interview.
    Planning to get a November 1st ticket if everything goes well.
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    Jhalil&Mandy got a reaction from Mariana M. in March TSC   
    For the beneficiaries amongst us, you can call the NVC number for free using Gmail: https://support.google.com/chat/answer/3379791

    It's easy, and you can sit there with headphones and be on hold for ever without having to pay anything. I've been on hold for 35 minutes so far while I watch youtube videos
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    Jhalil&Mandy got a reaction from dbuizert in March TSC   
    *Dutch high five*
    Watch our interviews be on the same day now, lol.
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    Jhalil&Mandy reacted to dbuizert in March TSC   
    I think its just people not updating or something. So months have increased by several tickets.
    I just hope i get to be with her around oktober. This also means affordable plane tickets.
    I think its just people not updating or something. So months have increased by several tickets.
    I just hope i get to be with her around oktober. This also means affordable plane tickets.
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    Jhalil&Mandy got a reaction from dbuizert in March 2014 Filers   
    Gefeliciteerd, not that a stranger congratulating you on a lonely birthday is any conselation
    I haven't seen her since January. Both her and I were planning for me to fly over there around September, even if the NOA2 came early.
    But now we are actually considering the fact that even September may not even be possible if the NOA takes it's full 2 month course.
    What's even more annoying in the whole matter is we sent our paperwork somewhere around the midle of February. But with all the winter storms there was so much delay that it took an entire half month before we even got our NOA1. That just makes the wait a little bit more annoying.
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    Jhalil&Mandy got a reaction from TBoneTX in Suggestion to change the G-325a examples.   
    Hi,

    I was double (ok maybe like quadrupple checking after quatro checking) all of our forms and something threw me off for a few minutes and had me worried for a bit.

    For the K-1 Visa guide, the G-325a example forms are both exactly the same. They are filled in as if they were both from the benificiary. Along with the wording of the form reffering to both sides as "applicant" it is a little confusing. It can give the impression that even though both the applicant and benificiary have to fill out the form, that they should both put the benificiary's information and then sign it individually.

    It's a minor thing, and a quick google search told me that the way we did it was right afterall (both of us filled it out using our own information).
    I think a small change to the example form that's labeled "Filled out by the U.S citizen" where it actually uses information that would make it clear that they're the U.S citizen would prevent this mix-up.
    I thought I was just having a dodo-egg moment and it was just me, but after a google search it turned out that there were a few others who had the same impression that I did.

    The rest of the guide is brilliant and even with the little bit of confusion that the two identical examples had caused me. We wouldn't have gone anywhere without the help of this community and it's guides.
    So this is my suggestion to maybe give a little bit back and suggesting a tiny thing that may be able to improve the guide a little bit.

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    Jhalil&Mandy got a reaction from Kaylara in K-1 Visa Marring my ex-wife Sister(merged)   
    I will try to look at this with as little judgement as I can.
    What you need to do is you have to look at it from an outside perspective. If you break it down it looks like this:

    - Got 1 woman in to the country succesfully through the K-1 Visa.
    - Marriage ends after 3 years, the time it takes for her to not need to still be married to you.
    - You intend to repeat the process with another woman shortly after (I believe?) the divorce.
    - The woman you intend to marry is your now ex-wife's, sister, that you have not had a romantical relationship with for a good/long period of time that you can prove . I say this while assuming the divorce is recent, therefore you couldn't have been in a different relationship before the divorce.

    All in all, I understand the situation. As much as it sounds very suspicious and something that could be in a movie, it's possible it's all true. However, you have odds piled up against you from almost every single aspect of what these workers will be looking for.

    - High risk country where a lot of K-1 Visa fraud happens.
    - Divorced right after 3 year period ended on a prior K-1 Visa and attempting to file for a new K-1 with a different woman. <- This one is a major concern. Even if they overlook the fact that these women are sisters. The timing for this is just incredibly suspicious.
    - Little proof of a longterm/ongoing relationship.
    - Very, very, very suspicious circumstances where both women are from the same family.

    Now I absolutely don't mean to offend you or your love interest and/or ex-wife. But are YOU certain you're not being played? These are women coming from a country where the living conditions are less than optimal for the poor. I don't know anything about them, they could be very well off which makes this point moot. But how certain are you that they're not just using you to get in to the country?

    These are all questions you need to ask yourself before you even consider doing this. Because with the circumstances you gave us there will indeed be red flags galore.
    And if you and your new lover, can not convince the people working your case that beyond all doubt you two are incredibly, hopeleslly and completely in love and devoted to each other. Then I personally don't think that you will have much chance of this new petition being accepted.
    All that being said, I'm sorry for your divorce and good luck in the future.
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    Jhalil&Mandy got a reaction from gwenstar in K-1 Visa Marring my ex-wife Sister(merged)   
    I will try to look at this with as little judgement as I can.
    What you need to do is you have to look at it from an outside perspective. If you break it down it looks like this:

    - Got 1 woman in to the country succesfully through the K-1 Visa.
    - Marriage ends after 3 years, the time it takes for her to not need to still be married to you.
    - You intend to repeat the process with another woman shortly after (I believe?) the divorce.
    - The woman you intend to marry is your now ex-wife's, sister, that you have not had a romantical relationship with for a good/long period of time that you can prove . I say this while assuming the divorce is recent, therefore you couldn't have been in a different relationship before the divorce.

    All in all, I understand the situation. As much as it sounds very suspicious and something that could be in a movie, it's possible it's all true. However, you have odds piled up against you from almost every single aspect of what these workers will be looking for.

    - High risk country where a lot of K-1 Visa fraud happens.
    - Divorced right after 3 year period ended on a prior K-1 Visa and attempting to file for a new K-1 with a different woman. <- This one is a major concern. Even if they overlook the fact that these women are sisters. The timing for this is just incredibly suspicious.
    - Little proof of a longterm/ongoing relationship.
    - Very, very, very suspicious circumstances where both women are from the same family.

    Now I absolutely don't mean to offend you or your love interest and/or ex-wife. But are YOU certain you're not being played? These are women coming from a country where the living conditions are less than optimal for the poor. I don't know anything about them, they could be very well off which makes this point moot. But how certain are you that they're not just using you to get in to the country?

    These are all questions you need to ask yourself before you even consider doing this. Because with the circumstances you gave us there will indeed be red flags galore.
    And if you and your new lover, can not convince the people working your case that beyond all doubt you two are incredibly, hopeleslly and completely in love and devoted to each other. Then I personally don't think that you will have much chance of this new petition being accepted.
    All that being said, I'm sorry for your divorce and good luck in the future.
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    Jhalil&Mandy got a reaction from Newsha in K-1 Visa Marring my ex-wife Sister(merged)   
    I will try to look at this with as little judgement as I can.
    What you need to do is you have to look at it from an outside perspective. If you break it down it looks like this:

    - Got 1 woman in to the country succesfully through the K-1 Visa.
    - Marriage ends after 3 years, the time it takes for her to not need to still be married to you.
    - You intend to repeat the process with another woman shortly after (I believe?) the divorce.
    - The woman you intend to marry is your now ex-wife's, sister, that you have not had a romantical relationship with for a good/long period of time that you can prove . I say this while assuming the divorce is recent, therefore you couldn't have been in a different relationship before the divorce.

    All in all, I understand the situation. As much as it sounds very suspicious and something that could be in a movie, it's possible it's all true. However, you have odds piled up against you from almost every single aspect of what these workers will be looking for.

    - High risk country where a lot of K-1 Visa fraud happens.
    - Divorced right after 3 year period ended on a prior K-1 Visa and attempting to file for a new K-1 with a different woman. <- This one is a major concern. Even if they overlook the fact that these women are sisters. The timing for this is just incredibly suspicious.
    - Little proof of a longterm/ongoing relationship.
    - Very, very, very suspicious circumstances where both women are from the same family.

    Now I absolutely don't mean to offend you or your love interest and/or ex-wife. But are YOU certain you're not being played? These are women coming from a country where the living conditions are less than optimal for the poor. I don't know anything about them, they could be very well off which makes this point moot. But how certain are you that they're not just using you to get in to the country?

    These are all questions you need to ask yourself before you even consider doing this. Because with the circumstances you gave us there will indeed be red flags galore.
    And if you and your new lover, can not convince the people working your case that beyond all doubt you two are incredibly, hopeleslly and completely in love and devoted to each other. Then I personally don't think that you will have much chance of this new petition being accepted.
    All that being said, I'm sorry for your divorce and good luck in the future.
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    Jhalil&Mandy got a reaction from Ivie & Eguagie in K-1 Visa Marring my ex-wife Sister(merged)   
    I will try to look at this with as little judgement as I can.
    What you need to do is you have to look at it from an outside perspective. If you break it down it looks like this:

    - Got 1 woman in to the country succesfully through the K-1 Visa.
    - Marriage ends after 3 years, the time it takes for her to not need to still be married to you.
    - You intend to repeat the process with another woman shortly after (I believe?) the divorce.
    - The woman you intend to marry is your now ex-wife's, sister, that you have not had a romantical relationship with for a good/long period of time that you can prove . I say this while assuming the divorce is recent, therefore you couldn't have been in a different relationship before the divorce.

    All in all, I understand the situation. As much as it sounds very suspicious and something that could be in a movie, it's possible it's all true. However, you have odds piled up against you from almost every single aspect of what these workers will be looking for.

    - High risk country where a lot of K-1 Visa fraud happens.
    - Divorced right after 3 year period ended on a prior K-1 Visa and attempting to file for a new K-1 with a different woman. <- This one is a major concern. Even if they overlook the fact that these women are sisters. The timing for this is just incredibly suspicious.
    - Little proof of a longterm/ongoing relationship.
    - Very, very, very suspicious circumstances where both women are from the same family.

    Now I absolutely don't mean to offend you or your love interest and/or ex-wife. But are YOU certain you're not being played? These are women coming from a country where the living conditions are less than optimal for the poor. I don't know anything about them, they could be very well off which makes this point moot. But how certain are you that they're not just using you to get in to the country?

    These are all questions you need to ask yourself before you even consider doing this. Because with the circumstances you gave us there will indeed be red flags galore.
    And if you and your new lover, can not convince the people working your case that beyond all doubt you two are incredibly, hopeleslly and completely in love and devoted to each other. Then I personally don't think that you will have much chance of this new petition being accepted.
    All that being said, I'm sorry for your divorce and good luck in the future.
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    Jhalil&Mandy got a reaction from LittleFox in K-1 Visa Marring my ex-wife Sister(merged)   
    I will try to look at this with as little judgement as I can.
    What you need to do is you have to look at it from an outside perspective. If you break it down it looks like this:

    - Got 1 woman in to the country succesfully through the K-1 Visa.
    - Marriage ends after 3 years, the time it takes for her to not need to still be married to you.
    - You intend to repeat the process with another woman shortly after (I believe?) the divorce.
    - The woman you intend to marry is your now ex-wife's, sister, that you have not had a romantical relationship with for a good/long period of time that you can prove . I say this while assuming the divorce is recent, therefore you couldn't have been in a different relationship before the divorce.

    All in all, I understand the situation. As much as it sounds very suspicious and something that could be in a movie, it's possible it's all true. However, you have odds piled up against you from almost every single aspect of what these workers will be looking for.

    - High risk country where a lot of K-1 Visa fraud happens.
    - Divorced right after 3 year period ended on a prior K-1 Visa and attempting to file for a new K-1 with a different woman. <- This one is a major concern. Even if they overlook the fact that these women are sisters. The timing for this is just incredibly suspicious.
    - Little proof of a longterm/ongoing relationship.
    - Very, very, very suspicious circumstances where both women are from the same family.

    Now I absolutely don't mean to offend you or your love interest and/or ex-wife. But are YOU certain you're not being played? These are women coming from a country where the living conditions are less than optimal for the poor. I don't know anything about them, they could be very well off which makes this point moot. But how certain are you that they're not just using you to get in to the country?

    These are all questions you need to ask yourself before you even consider doing this. Because with the circumstances you gave us there will indeed be red flags galore.
    And if you and your new lover, can not convince the people working your case that beyond all doubt you two are incredibly, hopeleslly and completely in love and devoted to each other. Then I personally don't think that you will have much chance of this new petition being accepted.
    All that being said, I'm sorry for your divorce and good luck in the future.
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    Jhalil&Mandy got a reaction from Luthien in K-1 Visa Marring my ex-wife Sister(merged)   
    I will try to look at this with as little judgement as I can.
    What you need to do is you have to look at it from an outside perspective. If you break it down it looks like this:

    - Got 1 woman in to the country succesfully through the K-1 Visa.
    - Marriage ends after 3 years, the time it takes for her to not need to still be married to you.
    - You intend to repeat the process with another woman shortly after (I believe?) the divorce.
    - The woman you intend to marry is your now ex-wife's, sister, that you have not had a romantical relationship with for a good/long period of time that you can prove . I say this while assuming the divorce is recent, therefore you couldn't have been in a different relationship before the divorce.

    All in all, I understand the situation. As much as it sounds very suspicious and something that could be in a movie, it's possible it's all true. However, you have odds piled up against you from almost every single aspect of what these workers will be looking for.

    - High risk country where a lot of K-1 Visa fraud happens.
    - Divorced right after 3 year period ended on a prior K-1 Visa and attempting to file for a new K-1 with a different woman. <- This one is a major concern. Even if they overlook the fact that these women are sisters. The timing for this is just incredibly suspicious.
    - Little proof of a longterm/ongoing relationship.
    - Very, very, very suspicious circumstances where both women are from the same family.

    Now I absolutely don't mean to offend you or your love interest and/or ex-wife. But are YOU certain you're not being played? These are women coming from a country where the living conditions are less than optimal for the poor. I don't know anything about them, they could be very well off which makes this point moot. But how certain are you that they're not just using you to get in to the country?

    These are all questions you need to ask yourself before you even consider doing this. Because with the circumstances you gave us there will indeed be red flags galore.
    And if you and your new lover, can not convince the people working your case that beyond all doubt you two are incredibly, hopeleslly and completely in love and devoted to each other. Then I personally don't think that you will have much chance of this new petition being accepted.
    All that being said, I'm sorry for your divorce and good luck in the future.
  15. Like
    Jhalil&Mandy got a reaction from Andie in K-1 Visa Marring my ex-wife Sister(merged)   
    I will try to look at this with as little judgement as I can.
    What you need to do is you have to look at it from an outside perspective. If you break it down it looks like this:

    - Got 1 woman in to the country succesfully through the K-1 Visa.
    - Marriage ends after 3 years, the time it takes for her to not need to still be married to you.
    - You intend to repeat the process with another woman shortly after (I believe?) the divorce.
    - The woman you intend to marry is your now ex-wife's, sister, that you have not had a romantical relationship with for a good/long period of time that you can prove . I say this while assuming the divorce is recent, therefore you couldn't have been in a different relationship before the divorce.

    All in all, I understand the situation. As much as it sounds very suspicious and something that could be in a movie, it's possible it's all true. However, you have odds piled up against you from almost every single aspect of what these workers will be looking for.

    - High risk country where a lot of K-1 Visa fraud happens.
    - Divorced right after 3 year period ended on a prior K-1 Visa and attempting to file for a new K-1 with a different woman. <- This one is a major concern. Even if they overlook the fact that these women are sisters. The timing for this is just incredibly suspicious.
    - Little proof of a longterm/ongoing relationship.
    - Very, very, very suspicious circumstances where both women are from the same family.

    Now I absolutely don't mean to offend you or your love interest and/or ex-wife. But are YOU certain you're not being played? These are women coming from a country where the living conditions are less than optimal for the poor. I don't know anything about them, they could be very well off which makes this point moot. But how certain are you that they're not just using you to get in to the country?

    These are all questions you need to ask yourself before you even consider doing this. Because with the circumstances you gave us there will indeed be red flags galore.
    And if you and your new lover, can not convince the people working your case that beyond all doubt you two are incredibly, hopeleslly and completely in love and devoted to each other. Then I personally don't think that you will have much chance of this new petition being accepted.
    All that being said, I'm sorry for your divorce and good luck in the future.
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    Jhalil&Mandy got a reaction from skysofialila in K-1 Visa Marring my ex-wife Sister(merged)   
    I will try to look at this with as little judgement as I can.
    What you need to do is you have to look at it from an outside perspective. If you break it down it looks like this:

    - Got 1 woman in to the country succesfully through the K-1 Visa.
    - Marriage ends after 3 years, the time it takes for her to not need to still be married to you.
    - You intend to repeat the process with another woman shortly after (I believe?) the divorce.
    - The woman you intend to marry is your now ex-wife's, sister, that you have not had a romantical relationship with for a good/long period of time that you can prove . I say this while assuming the divorce is recent, therefore you couldn't have been in a different relationship before the divorce.

    All in all, I understand the situation. As much as it sounds very suspicious and something that could be in a movie, it's possible it's all true. However, you have odds piled up against you from almost every single aspect of what these workers will be looking for.

    - High risk country where a lot of K-1 Visa fraud happens.
    - Divorced right after 3 year period ended on a prior K-1 Visa and attempting to file for a new K-1 with a different woman. <- This one is a major concern. Even if they overlook the fact that these women are sisters. The timing for this is just incredibly suspicious.
    - Little proof of a longterm/ongoing relationship.
    - Very, very, very suspicious circumstances where both women are from the same family.

    Now I absolutely don't mean to offend you or your love interest and/or ex-wife. But are YOU certain you're not being played? These are women coming from a country where the living conditions are less than optimal for the poor. I don't know anything about them, they could be very well off which makes this point moot. But how certain are you that they're not just using you to get in to the country?

    These are all questions you need to ask yourself before you even consider doing this. Because with the circumstances you gave us there will indeed be red flags galore.
    And if you and your new lover, can not convince the people working your case that beyond all doubt you two are incredibly, hopeleslly and completely in love and devoted to each other. Then I personally don't think that you will have much chance of this new petition being accepted.
    All that being said, I'm sorry for your divorce and good luck in the future.
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    Jhalil&Mandy reacted to Gasoline2805 in Question about living conditions that are required.   
    Yes, that's right. Since her mother has no responsibilites towards her (and you) living there, you will be considered a household of 2.
    If she has at least 125% income for a 2-person household there's no problem whatsoever.
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