kriselo4ever

While I understand what you are getting at, I think in the OP he was pretty clear on what is going on. He pointed out she is unhappy and homesick and likely not coming back. So if he wants advice, not getting into his business, then that is what he should receive. Not people shooting him down for asking a serious question because they feel "How dare he...". Is that not what this place is all about?
That is a sad situation and it is best to look at the worse case scenario while hoping for the best. I know you must be devastated but at least you have an idea of what is happening so you are a step ahead. I believe if your wife truly loves you, she will find a way to make it work. If not, you must plan together what you can do.
I would make sure your wife is NOT coming back and then look into your options with USCIS, maybe you can get better advice from someone here. Regardless, sorry that happened to you, I know how I would feel in that situation, all that waiting and lots of expenses for two weeks, only to realize she is not happy and wants to go back. Maybe the mother is an excuse, maybe not. But speculation does no good here, rather look at the situation from all sides.
Sorry again OP

Ok, this is really sad, but your wife left today to take care of her mother who is ill and your first concern is about what to do if you decide to end your marriage?!

She cannot live in the US without a Greencard.
Her marriage to you does NOT make her legal in the US. After her I-94 expires for the K-1, she will be a visa overstay and accrue days of illegal presence.
She must apply for a Greencard, or leave the US.
She never has to get citizenship, however. A Greencard is NOT citizenship.
She cannot get AP just for being married to you.

U are waiting just 1 month...... Take it easy! No one is waiting 8 months. 6 maybe 8 non.
U are still on the beginning.... Wait ur turn lol

Be nice people.
The advice is good but there is no need to be condescending with it. USCIS has every possible form of proving who you are anyway, so whilst it seems obvious to us that you need everything on the list when we have access to all these things, it is understandable that those who don't, have questions like the one posted here. Show some compassion, this process is stressful enough.

Once the conditional green card is received, the US spouse is no longer needed for further processes. The foreign spouse could remove conditions on their green card in the event of divorce or death of the US spouse by proving that the marriage was entered into in good faith.
People are going to jump all over you because of the way you asked the question. They will assume you are the beneficiary trying to get a green card without regard for the US spouse, when in fact you are the US spouse trying to secure your wife's future. Ignore the negativity.

There is a big chance that she will try to contact you again or maybe even get back with you once she realizes that she'll be out of status 90 days after she arrived if she's not married to you. Stay strong!

Thanks.
No one, should endure the pain I am feeling. I wish everyone to be happy with their lives and live everyday happy with their significant other. Do it for me.
thanks again everyone.

That's awful you must be feeling so sad. Please remember that it's better that you found out now than in 6 months, one year or way down the road.
Good luck to you, there's a better man out there for you.

I got an email from the embassy this morning. They said my husband's visa has been issued and he has to be in the States by March 9, 2014.
Most of you know our story. We were in AP 16 months when our visa got denied because the embassy said we were not legally married because I am a Christian and he is Muslim. We hired an immigration attorney and won our appeal. Our case was sent back to the embassy where we were kept in AP almost another 2 years.
My husband is strong and he kept our marriage together through the long wait.
I want to thank all my friends on visa journey that supported us and encouraged us through the years.

They do lose things! They also won't admit it and have your future in their hands.
Send them the new copies and move on.

Maybe his house is not as manky as your fiances seems to have been. Maybe he is capable of doing his own laundry.

He changed his mind,and you want to meet his Family? not to be rude but sounds bit strange :S

I want to thank everyone for the kindhearted support. I am reminded of why I loved this community so much when we needed the help immigrating! Not at all what I would have anticipated! I am glad I posted this and will certainly seek counseling.
Bless you all Vj.