devotedpartners

Dear lady friend,
I'm sorry of your troubles, but speaking from a mans point of view and of a different culture than my wife, I'm very happy to say, I am not one of those many men you speak of. I wish you not think of us MENA men like troubled people with only green cards in our mind. You seem young and a bit immature to come here and speak so terribly about us. Have you considered maybe you are apart of the problem, I personally think you thought you could change him once you got him here with ultimatums and that didn't go so well. Your written communication here is hostile and I only imagine how the two of you communicated when a problem came up if you cannot take the criticism here. Trust me, I learned the hard way here and have tried very hard to learn from my mistakes when speaking. My English is good but I find hard to write how I want to speak here.
I would never ask my wife to do anything like convert to Islam, actually, nothing that she didn't want to experience. We have been together more years than you have college years plus some, so your degrees are not important to me. What is important to me, is that you please don't generalize your sloppy marriage to mine which I adore every day and my soon to be baby girls that I work so hard to make sure they come into this world with love and peace.
I'm a happy peaceful MENA man with love to my wife and family.

Dear lady friend,
I'm sorry of your troubles, but speaking from a mans point of view and of a different culture than my wife, I'm very happy to say, I am not one of those many men you speak of. I wish you not think of us MENA men like troubled people with only green cards in our mind. You seem young and a bit immature to come here and speak so terribly about us. Have you considered maybe you are apart of the problem, I personally think you thought you could change him once you got him here with ultimatums and that didn't go so well. Your written communication here is hostile and I only imagine how the two of you communicated when a problem came up if you cannot take the criticism here. Trust me, I learned the hard way here and have tried very hard to learn from my mistakes when speaking. My English is good but I find hard to write how I want to speak here.
I would never ask my wife to do anything like convert to Islam, actually, nothing that she didn't want to experience. We have been together more years than you have college years plus some, so your degrees are not important to me. What is important to me, is that you please don't generalize your sloppy marriage to mine which I adore every day and my soon to be baby girls that I work so hard to make sure they come into this world with love and peace.
I'm a happy peaceful MENA man with love to my wife and family.

This sentence you write disgust me so bad as if your a proud woman to say such. What woman who has a child says I'm in the clear for now. I better leave this forum for now, as I will be deleted again :angry:

As a Moroccan man, a soon to be father of three girls, a husband, I will just say, I'm sadden to think a brother from my country would stand for this in a soon to be wife and a mother of his child some day. I know of many guys like this in my country, and she will have to find out the hard way with what his intentions are once he is here. No good man in my book would let his wife or fiancé not insist they see there child for this long of a period.

As a Moroccan man, a soon to be father of three girls, a husband, I will just say, I'm sadden to think a brother from my country would stand for this in a soon to be wife and a mother of his child some day. I know of many guys like this in my country, and she will have to find out the hard way with what his intentions are once he is here. No good man in my book would let his wife or fiancé not insist they see there child for this long of a period.

This sentence you write disgust me so bad as if your a proud woman to say such. What woman who has a child says I'm in the clear for now. I better leave this forum for now, as I will be deleted again :angry:

Hmmm I think my priorities would be seeing my son that I haven't seen in 7 months, while you have been in morocco instead of going to have fun in new York. Your priorities are all screwed up if you want to know the truth lady.

As a Moroccan man, a soon to be father of three girls, a husband, I will just say, I'm sadden to think a brother from my country would stand for this in a soon to be wife and a mother of his child some day. I know of many guys like this in my country, and she will have to find out the hard way with what his intentions are once he is here. No good man in my book would let his wife or fiancé not insist they see there child for this long of a period.

As a Moroccan man, a soon to be father of three girls, a husband, I will just say, I'm sadden to think a brother from my country would stand for this in a soon to be wife and a mother of his child some day. I know of many guys like this in my country, and she will have to find out the hard way with what his intentions are once he is here. No good man in my book would let his wife or fiancé not insist they see there child for this long of a period.

you are a sad excuse for a human being. Your husband was just approved, you gave up custody of your child and haven;t seen him in 7 months, yet you are taking a vacation to NYC. you disgust me. You ranted and raved about how you were being judged by the CO because you are latino, I am judging you because you are a horrible, horrible mother. I pray for your son's sake that he remains in the custody of your family because you left him to marry a man you barely know, you are truly a POS.

Hmmm I think my priorities would be seeing my son that I haven't seen in 7 months, while you have been in morocco instead of going to have fun in new York. Your priorities are all screwed up if you want to know the truth lady.

Hmmm I think my priorities would be seeing my son that I haven't seen in 7 months, while you have been in morocco instead of going to have fun in new York. Your priorities are all screwed up if you want to know the truth lady.

Hmmm I think my priorities would be seeing my son that I haven't seen in 7 months, while you have been in morocco instead of going to have fun in new York. Your priorities are all screwed up if you want to know the truth lady.

Hmmm I think my priorities would be seeing my son that I haven't seen in 7 months, while you have been in morocco instead of going to have fun in new York. Your priorities are all screwed up if you want to know the truth lady.

Hmmm I think my priorities would be seeing my son that I haven't seen in 7 months, while you have been in morocco instead of going to have fun in new York. Your priorities are all screwed up if you want to know the truth lady.

Hmmm I think my priorities would be seeing my son that I haven't seen in 7 months, while you have been in morocco instead of going to have fun in new York. Your priorities are all screwed up if you want to know the truth lady.

Hmmm I think my priorities would be seeing my son that I haven't seen in 7 months, while you have been in morocco instead of going to have fun in new York. Your priorities are all screwed up if you want to know the truth lady.

Yes, I am sure it is the reason for triplets. Twins run on my father's side too.... Ohhhh, pink cowboy boots, that is adorable! There is a triplet Facebook group if your wife is interested in joining. It helped me a lot with all the questions I had when pregnant and when the babies were small. Anyhow, congrats!

Congratulations on your bundle of joys. I remember buying my daughter some pink cowboy boots in Alabama while visiting home when she was around three years old. Gosh, she loved them so much, she wanted to sleep in them.
I also loved all the beautiful carved ceilings in Moocco, I truly found the work to be amazing. Maybe you can start your own business if you love this kind of work in the future.
Awww as far as you breaking down with tears, it happens and it's normal to feel so many new emotions. You seem to have adjusted pretty well since your move here. The farm seems to keep you busy, and your lucky as many men just sit at home all day doing nothing while the wife works. Lol, as far as kitchen appliances, you'll get the hang of them eventually.
Have fun building that Moroccan baby room.

Hi Henia,
I'm torn as to what advice to give you, as I believe deep in your heart, you have the answer. Personally speaking, there is nothing in this entire world that would have let my mother struggle through cancer alone much less die alone, should it come to that. Three years ago, my mother became very sick. I lived 8 hours away, but week after week for three months, I drove back and forth physically exhausted to take care of her until her final hours of life. I too have a daughter, had a busy life as well with her school and after school activities she was involved in. But as a daughter, I never had to think twice to be by her side. After her death, I felt a sense of peace, but never an ounce of guilt. I think the guilt is what most people live with after a death of a parent. Your always gonna ask yourself, why didn't I do this, why didn't I do that. This is why I can wake up every day and have beautiful loving memories of her.
I know your decision is based on living abroad, having four children, and leaving Algeria to move here. My suggestion would be have his family help with your children while you take a trip to visit your mother and let her know you love her and your there for her. Moving to the USA isn't probably the answer your looking for as the USA will always exist but your mother is alone and battling cancer which could take her life. Your life will be blessed for many years to come, don't miss this opportunity to visit your mother and give you that peace of mind you so deserve. After spending some mother and daughter time together, travel back home, sit with the family and have a heart to heart talk.
Take care...

I'm sorry, but don't you say you left behind a small son since last September? I think your complaining should be how devastated you are about your son and not those who got a visa before you. Maybe the embassy is looking at your neglect on behalf of your child you left for so long.

This sentence you write disgust me so bad as if your a proud woman to say such. What woman who has a child says I'm in the clear for now. I better leave this forum for now, as I will be deleted again :angry:

This sentence you write disgust me so bad as if your a proud woman to say such. What woman who has a child says I'm in the clear for now. I better leave this forum for now, as I will be deleted again :angry:

I'm sorry, but don't you say you left behind a small son since last September? I think your complaining should be how devastated you are about your son and not those who got a visa before you. Maybe the embassy is looking at your neglect on behalf of your child you left for so long.

This sentence you write disgust me so bad as if your a proud woman to say such. What woman who has a child says I'm in the clear for now. I better leave this forum for now, as I will be deleted again :angry: