devotedpartners

This sentence you write disgust me so bad as if your a proud woman to say such. What woman who has a child says I'm in the clear for now. I better leave this forum for now, as I will be deleted again :angry:

I'm sorry, but don't you say you left behind a small son since last September? I think your complaining should be how devastated you are about your son and not those who got a visa before you. Maybe the embassy is looking at your neglect on behalf of your child you left for so long.

This sentence you write disgust me so bad as if your a proud woman to say such. What woman who has a child says I'm in the clear for now. I better leave this forum for now, as I will be deleted again :angry:

This sentence you write disgust me so bad as if your a proud woman to say such. What woman who has a child says I'm in the clear for now. I better leave this forum for now, as I will be deleted again :angry:

This sentence you write disgust me so bad as if your a proud woman to say such. What woman who has a child says I'm in the clear for now. I better leave this forum for now, as I will be deleted again :angry:

This sentence you write disgust me so bad as if your a proud woman to say such. What woman who has a child says I'm in the clear for now. I better leave this forum for now, as I will be deleted again :angry:

This sentence you write disgust me so bad as if your a proud woman to say such. What woman who has a child says I'm in the clear for now. I better leave this forum for now, as I will be deleted again :angry:

I see its ok for you to attack and insult but having it pointed out to you is being rude. Approaching people calmly and level headed will go further. You must have said the same thing to her about how living in Morocco would somehow be all it took to get a visa or she wouldn't have even known. Just try to see yourself through others eyes, how you post and word things is very abrasive.

I'm sorry, but don't you say you left behind a small son since last September? I think your complaining should be how devastated you are about your son and not those who got a visa before you. Maybe the embassy is looking at your neglect on behalf of your child you left for so long.

I'm sorry, but don't you say you left behind a small son since last September? I think your complaining should be how devastated you are about your son and not those who got a visa before you. Maybe the embassy is looking at your neglect on behalf of your child you left for so long.

I'm sorry, but don't you say you left behind a small son since last September? I think your complaining should be how devastated you are about your son and not those who got a visa before you. Maybe the embassy is looking at your neglect on behalf of your child you left for so long.

I'm sorry, but don't you say you left behind a small son since last September? I think your complaining should be how devastated you are about your son and not those who got a visa before you. Maybe the embassy is looking at your neglect on behalf of your child you left for so long.

I'm sorry, but don't you say you left behind a small son since last September? I think your complaining should be how devastated you are about your son and not those who got a visa before you. Maybe the embassy is looking at your neglect on behalf of your child you left for so long.

I'm sorry, but don't you say you left behind a small son since last September? I think your complaining should be how devastated you are about your son and not those who got a visa before you. Maybe the embassy is looking at your neglect on behalf of your child you left for so long.

I'm sorry, but don't you say you left behind a small son since last September? I think your complaining should be how devastated you are about your son and not those who got a visa before you. Maybe the embassy is looking at your neglect on behalf of your child you left for so long.

I'm sorry, but don't you say you left behind a small son since last September? I think your complaining should be how devastated you are about your son and not those who got a visa before you. Maybe the embassy is looking at your neglect on behalf of your child you left for so long.

I'm sorry, but don't you say you left behind a small son since last September? I think your complaining should be how devastated you are about your son and not those who got a visa before you. Maybe the embassy is looking at your neglect on behalf of your child you left for so long.

I agree totally with what you said about offending other spouses with crappy english. AP has nothing to do with that, and for all we know the AP is on the OP not her spouse. We could go further will this crappy english comment about the OP , seems hers could use some revisiting . Sorry but I'm not sympathetic at all at with her plight, her journey has been fairly speedy compared to a lot of us. No one couple deserves anything more than the rest of us. Every case is different and every couple has the right to be together. Next she'll be complaining because she's in a pickle for overstaying her visa, I guess that will be the US governments fault also? The OP made decisions to go and wait it out with her spouse, that was her decision and we all have been aware of the difficulty of the process and the chance that AP could happen. Don't think any of us are above the rest when it comes to who they decide will need additional processing. Storming into the consulate with the I'm a U.S citizen attitude won't get you very far either, and what was so offensive about being mistaken for a Moroccan citizen? Aren't you married to one???!!!
I'm sure this post is going to cause some waves, but I'm sorry I've read quite enough negativity from you ...it's time you learned to suck it up like the rest of us and quit your whining and bashing of others whom you seem to think you are above.

I have a day off today and I think I will surprise my wife with a new project that she love so much in my home in morocco. Last night after a long discussion about kitchen appliances, I have decided to do projects that I actually can do. We decided on the baby's room last night and she said I would love our baby girls to have a Moroccan room with beautiful colors. I cry so much, what is wrong with me? I miss home and family, and when she said this to me, I broke down something horrible, I thought this was suppose to happen to her not me.
My project from now until babys are due is to make a beautiful girls room with hand carved lanterns hanging from a Moroccan hand carve ceiling. As a child I learned this carving technique and me and father did our entire home. My wife fell in love with the ceilings every where she went in morocco. She wanted a lantern but it was too big to bring on plane but I found picture she took and it will be created for her at my father law place while on lunch everyday I will work on it. I will also have a Moroccan couch wrapped around half the room, the easiest of the room make over. I hope she will love it and my soon to be little girls.
I think my wife is right, I need do focus on things I can do, working on farm is great, but I need weekends off now to make her dream room.
Thank u all for nice comments. I stayed in baby's room last night until,4 am looking and measuring. I'm tired but no time for sleep now.
Have nice day.

I have a day off today and I think I will surprise my wife with a new project that she love so much in my home in morocco. Last night after a long discussion about kitchen appliances, I have decided to do projects that I actually can do. We decided on the baby's room last night and she said I would love our baby girls to have a Moroccan room with beautiful colors. I cry so much, what is wrong with me? I miss home and family, and when she said this to me, I broke down something horrible, I thought this was suppose to happen to her not me.
My project from now until babys are due is to make a beautiful girls room with hand carved lanterns hanging from a Moroccan hand carve ceiling. As a child I learned this carving technique and me and father did our entire home. My wife fell in love with the ceilings every where she went in morocco. She wanted a lantern but it was too big to bring on plane but I found picture she took and it will be created for her at my father law place while on lunch everyday I will work on it. I will also have a Moroccan couch wrapped around half the room, the easiest of the room make over. I hope she will love it and my soon to be little girls.
I think my wife is right, I need do focus on things I can do, working on farm is great, but I need weekends off now to make her dream room.
Thank u all for nice comments. I stayed in baby's room last night until,4 am looking and measuring. I'm tired but no time for sleep now.
Have nice day.

I didnt meet my wife on internet, but on the side of a country road in Morocco. While driving home, I see a woman with her car broke down. She was traveling alone to see american friends in el jadida. Her rental car broke down. I stopped, asked if she was okay, she said oh my God someone who speaks good English. I dont write well, but I can speak very good.
She said all the sudden car started losing power and just quit. I did my best to start car but it never worked. I asked where she was going and she said el jadida and was upset as she didnt have phone, no way to meet them, no way to get help. I told her, I would not leave her without help. I let her call her friends with no,answer. I asked her to stay in her car while I went to get her car taken back to airport for new car. ,She reply, you not leaving me here in no,where land lol by myself. I be,honest, I never had any woman in my car,beside women of family. I wasnt for sure what to do with her. She asked please let me go with you to airport, so she did. One hour later, new car for her and she,was joyed with tears thanking me. She asked where I lived and on her way back from el jadida she asked if she could say,thanks,by buying me dinner. I told her, we dont buy dinners, but you are welcome to share dinner with my family.
I thought,I would never see or hear from her as she a beautiful professional american girl. Five days later, my phone rang, she said hello, remember me. I met her where her car stopped as she remembered the place. I brought her to my familys home where. she enjoyed tea and dinner.
Before she left, she said please keep in touch through internet if we can. So we did, 12 trips later, three years of moroccan family time, we are now married and im here,in the USA.
thank you,for letting me share our story.

I have a day off today and I think I will surprise my wife with a new project that she love so much in my home in morocco. Last night after a long discussion about kitchen appliances, I have decided to do projects that I actually can do. We decided on the baby's room last night and she said I would love our baby girls to have a Moroccan room with beautiful colors. I cry so much, what is wrong with me? I miss home and family, and when she said this to me, I broke down something horrible, I thought this was suppose to happen to her not me.
My project from now until babys are due is to make a beautiful girls room with hand carved lanterns hanging from a Moroccan hand carve ceiling. As a child I learned this carving technique and me and father did our entire home. My wife fell in love with the ceilings every where she went in morocco. She wanted a lantern but it was too big to bring on plane but I found picture she took and it will be created for her at my father law place while on lunch everyday I will work on it. I will also have a Moroccan couch wrapped around half the room, the easiest of the room make over. I hope she will love it and my soon to be little girls.
I think my wife is right, I need do focus on things I can do, working on farm is great, but I need weekends off now to make her dream room.
Thank u all for nice comments. I stayed in baby's room last night until,4 am looking and measuring. I'm tired but no time for sleep now.
Have nice day.

Hello, I hope this is the right place to start a daily conversation in the MENA forum.
I have some exciting news, my wife surprised me on a trip at Easter. When we arrived at our home where we stayed, I walked into home and everything from flowers, little Easter eggs, everything was pink. I never seen so much pink color since I move to America. I didn't say much but was happy to be on a vacation with my wife. Later in evening, we had dinner, my wife made a pink cake in the number 3 and I just couldn't take it no more and said why so much pink and this number three cake.
She cry a lot, and said we will be blessed with three baby girls and I got lots of tears and almost got sick too. I am a nervous man and want to support my family though she says we wil be just fine.
My question is, while waiting on green card and work card, my father law give me job to manage farm and make sure farm runs good. He say I'm doing such good job and even his sons never did this good. I work from 5 morning to 7 nightly every day to help him, he has bad spine so I've been helping.
My wife said I cant really work yet for money, but he offer me cash weekly 1800 dollars.
Can I work for cash until I get my work card? I would like to save money or my little girls and so my wife don't work long hours while pregnant.
Thank you for any information about working. I don't want to get in trouble.
Hope all feel free to discuss anything on my topic, as I see many get locked.

I have a day off today and I think I will surprise my wife with a new project that she love so much in my home in morocco. Last night after a long discussion about kitchen appliances, I have decided to do projects that I actually can do. We decided on the baby's room last night and she said I would love our baby girls to have a Moroccan room with beautiful colors. I cry so much, what is wrong with me? I miss home and family, and when she said this to me, I broke down something horrible, I thought this was suppose to happen to her not me.
My project from now until babys are due is to make a beautiful girls room with hand carved lanterns hanging from a Moroccan hand carve ceiling. As a child I learned this carving technique and me and father did our entire home. My wife fell in love with the ceilings every where she went in morocco. She wanted a lantern but it was too big to bring on plane but I found picture she took and it will be created for her at my father law place while on lunch everyday I will work on it. I will also have a Moroccan couch wrapped around half the room, the easiest of the room make over. I hope she will love it and my soon to be little girls.
I think my wife is right, I need do focus on things I can do, working on farm is great, but I need weekends off now to make her dream room.
Thank u all for nice comments. I stayed in baby's room last night until,4 am looking and measuring. I'm tired but no time for sleep now.
Have nice day.

I am really grateful for EVERYBODY'S input, here. This is really the only place where I can find other women who have any understanding of what I'm experiencing...even though it's still very new for me. Really, I don't yet know how this Algerian man will be, in regards to his religion. It is something I need to talk to him more about. So far, I know that he has lived in a way that is against Islam, having relations with other women, and some other things that are considered totally normal in the Western world. In fact, that makes me like him even more! But, at the same time, he does say that Allah is something big and very real for him. So, in this case, I think I should hear all sides, and get as much information as possible.
Thanks everybody! You are all really good people!!