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Good one - I'm laughing too
What is wrong with that woman ???
We look fabulous for our ages and our men are lucky it have us...
Jen

I am 20 years older than my fiancée and have 4 children from my previous marriages. We were approved without AP on 9/12 for his K1 visa. He will be here god willing by December 15th. We have been together 2 years and I have been to Amman 5 times and I am also Middle Eastern. I believe the number of my visits and the fact we applied one year after being together plus all the proof of our relationship I presented assured the consulate our relationship was solid.
It has not been easy by any means, it tests every fiber of the relationship and trust me when I say I have been on an emotional roller coaster. If it weren’t for my friends here such as the lovely mimolicious supporting me and listening to me complain I probably would have thrown in the towel.
Thank god I didn’t cause we are so happy right now - over the hurdle and with the stress of the visa gone we are once again madly in love
I know it won’t always be like this and we have many more hurdles to face once he arrives but nothing can be as hard as being separated for two years and not knowing if we would be approved or end up in AP.
My best advice is get to know him - dont rush into the visa process because you need a solid foundation to build on.
Age is just a number and we laugh all the time because he is much more mature than I am and thankfully I take excellent care of myself so the age difference is not too apparent.
I pray to continue to be one of the success stories too
best of luck
Jen

I know how furstrated you are - God bless you - im prayng for you both.
This journey tests the very fiber of your soul but its well worth it in the end.
dont give up -
jennifer

So beyond happy that my love is here - it's surreal
Just want to say to all of you out there
Hold on - don't give up - this has been the toughest journey
But the reward and joy of being in his arms is indescribable
Doing simple things together wonderful
I kept waking up last night just smiling listening and listening to him breathe
And when I woke up in the am I did not care that my phone was dead - no more Whatsapp !
Thank you dear lord for all my blessings

Congratulations I can only imagine how you feel - my fiancée will be here in 38 days and I also am feeling happy , scared , nervous , excited ..; I'm trying to fix up my home to make things perfect - found him a job etc ...
Just take a deep breath remember all that you love about him - how far he has come to be with you
And enjoy every minute - this is the day you have been dreaming of
God willing all will be well
Jen

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I am so with you on this subject - just because someone got burned does not mean we are all naive desperate older women without common sense.
For me life is about taking chances and following my heart my gut instinct and I knew from day one this amazing man was everything I ever dreamed of
on so many levels and I was not going to let fear drive me away. All relationships go thru ups and downs trials and tribulations regardless of age and distance. I would much rather take my chance and pray for a wonderful outlook than walk away because of everyone elses fears and negative expierences.

Good one - I'm laughing too
What is wrong with that woman ???
We look fabulous for our ages and our men are lucky it have us...
Jen

God bless you - inshallah everything will be better soon

Hi Donna,
First I want to say that you and your fiancee are in my prayers... this journey is so so hard and really tests the strength of the relationship.
I just like you fell completely and totally in love after meeting my fiancee who is 20 years younger than me online...
six weeks later I headed to Jordan and I have been there a total of 5 times since we met. We started the K1 visa journey last Septemeber and our second interview will be on the two year anniversary of the day we met September 12th.
I faced many many obstacles to get this far and just like you I met many wonderful people on this site who until today still offer support me and pray for us.
when I first posted here about our situation I was bombarded with people telling me there are two many red flags - not to get my hopes up - but i refused to give up and trust me when I say it has not been easy - not financially, emotionally, or mentally but the heart wants what it wants and I truly believe in the end it will be worth it because a love like this comes very rarely.
Without a doubt I could have my pick of men but he is all that I want - the total delight of my heart.
It wont be easy and I have no doubt of the sincerity of your emotions and pray he is just as sincere...but must not take anything lightly, listen to your gut instincts and if you even have one tiny shred of doubt - dont ignore it. I am half middle eastern and it is very rare to find an unmarried man at his age
especially if he is employed - its just not common.
Gather as much proof as possible and if there is anyway - anyway at all you can get to Jordan do it - even one visit can make a huge difference and I totally believe that online - over the phone - web cam - email is fabulous but actually being able to see and spend a few days together will give you the strength needed for the rest of the journey and you will know if your feelings are the same.
I have a friend on this site that only met the man in Jordan who later became her fiancee once for a few hours I believe back in 2010 - no one believed their petition would be approved but it was and their interview will be in early septemeber.
I know its expensive and very far and I dont know the extent of your disability and I understand your fear of a foreign country - but the jordanians are very kind people , the new airport is very easy to manage.
Please feel free to message me if you have any questions or just need to talk - I am here for you...
god bless you
Jennifer

Can I just say how excited I am?? I just called the NVC and they have recieved our file today
My god two weeks ago I was so down in the dumps....
thank you lord -

Thank you ALLAH for everything indeed -
congratulations!!
inshallah khair

Happy happy for you and super super happy for me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
we got our NOA2 today

congratualtions!!!

I know exactly what you mean - we go thru the ups and downs , stupid arguements - lack of patience and wondering day after day when we can finally be together and just start living - sick of the phone glued to my side sick of checking the uscis website. Its 6 1/2 + months since our NOA1 and im so ready for the next stage....
god help us all

I just got the same message
On October 17, 2012, your Alien Registration Number was changed relating to your I129F, PETITION FOR FIANCE(E). Please check our website at www.uscis.gov for further updates on your case. Please wait until the end of normal processing time before calling customer service at 1-800-375-5283 for live assistance.
so confused?? based on our timeline we should not get the NOA2 until April? can it actually happen this fast? that would be a christmas miracle indeed!