mfranc68

https://egov.uscis.g...i/go?action=coa
Follow link about change of address. You have to report within 10 days of moving. You can send in form online.

This kind of thing happens to most of us, not just to people with SOs in the Phillippines. The question is moot. You can't give what you don't have. Putting yourself in debt is not the answer. What would they have done if you never met your fiance? I know it may sound cruel, but it is the truth. Sometimes the family and friends of our Sos think that the American has an unending supply of money. If you are not honest with your fiance's family now, you will be on the receiving end of a never ending supply of family "emergencies'.

This kind of thing happens to most of us, not just to people with SOs in the Phillippines. The question is moot. You can't give what you don't have. Putting yourself in debt is not the answer. What would they have done if you never met your fiance? I know it may sound cruel, but it is the truth. Sometimes the family and friends of our Sos think that the American has an unending supply of money. If you are not honest with your fiance's family now, you will be on the receiving end of a never ending supply of family "emergencies'.

On Thanksgiving? How appropriate! Congrats!

What is worse then living your life alone and never finding the "one"? Living your life with someone that brings you nothing but misery. The sweet smiles and roses gets OLD real FAST when there is nothing else behind it. I was married to a woman that I loved with all of my heart and soul. She brought me nothing but misery. I stayed for a number of reasons. I wouldn't go into details, but the main reasons were because I truly loved her and because I didn't want to be alone. We were together for 7 years, five of which we were married. Do you want to know what happened? She told ME that she wasn't happy and wanted a divorce. That is after she spent EVERY cent that I had and maxed out ALL of MY credit cards. After I moved out, her BOYFRIEND moved in. The one she flew to Las Vegas with and married.
So, I wound up alone anyway and so much for our "love". I NEVER thought that I would find love again. I didn't think there was anyone out there for me. I thought I was doomed to spend all of my life alone. I NEVER imagined that I would find love again, let alone with a woman in a foreign country. (And she is smoking HOT IMHO ). Life is funny that way. YOU JUST NEVER KNOW what life has in store for you. But, if you think that staying in a bad marriage is your ticket to happiness I wish you the best of luck. BTW, I am leaving to see my "negrita" on the 30th. See, I am even learning a new language!
I wonder what would have happened if I had left when I was unhappy instead of living in misery and waiting until my Ex was through with me.
One last thing. I don't know how much you know about men, but let me tell you this. Men go after what they want. They are agressive. If a man wanted a woman he would crawl over broken glass naked to get to her. Just something to think about.

I just wanted to add do not be afraid to get a second opinion from a different doctor. Sometimes a doctor or a lab can be wrong. It is always good to get a second opinion. Your doctor can be a source of lots of different information, including if you need help from a abusive relationship. Also a doctor is NOT allowed to discuss ANYTHING that you tell him with ANYONE. This includeds your husband. So, you can feel at ease confiding in him/her. I hope that your husband wakes up and starts treating you in the proper manner. Unfortunately, nothing will change unless you speak up. Stress is a very dangerous thing. It can make you sick, rob you of your spirit, take away your enthusiasm for life, and even kill you. I hope that you are able to find piece of mind with all of your problems.

I have my cr-1 petition at the Vermont Service Center since March 26th 2012. I was getting VERY frustrated since they said their processing time was 5 months. I got depressed after I saw a notice on the USCIS website stating they were overloaded with requests and were trying to redistribute the work along among the various centers.
http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/menuitem.5af9bb95919f35e66f614176543f6d1a/?vgnextoid=c3c7ca7c5fed9310VgnVCM100000082ca60aRCRD&vgnextchannel=e7801c2c9be44210VgnVCM100000082ca60aRCRD
Now I have some hope.
Congrats on your good new!!!!!!!

How/where did you two meet each other online? Why is there such a rush that you would get married on the same visit as meeting each other? Reading your story, I feel really skeptical that you know what you are getting into and that this guy is legitimate if you have planned out this entire sequence of events before ever even meeting him, and if I am skeptical, a consular officer is going to be even more skeptical. Please be careful. (In other words, everything newlyweds2010 said.)

Saylin, never fight for a man, he's the one who should fight for you! The right man will fight tooth and nail to be with you and to make you happy, because he knows you're the best thing that ever happened to him and he can't bear the thought of not being with you. Fight for yourself, make the best life you possibly can for yourself, so you're ready to share it when your true soulmate comes along. Good luck on your journey!

She let me cook dinner even though I didn't feel like it.

She lets me do whatever she wants.

She doesn't get mad when I don't feel like having sex.

He is my team mate. He makes me sane. I don't need to finish sentences with him because we just get each other. Some people think we don't communicate, it's more like we don't always need to.