We met August 23, 2008 on Myspace, lol. We started out as friends and it quickly grew into more. Spent many hours chatting, emailing and talking on the phone. I flew over for his birthday September 2010, after promising his mum I was coming. My trip was short due to financial reasons, and we wed while I was there. I came home, hired an attorney and began the process of paperwork, which we submitted in December. Almost a year after starting the process we had our interview date, for which he was denied. Now we await the NOIR, and I am planning another trip over.
I'm sorry about your husband being denied. My husband and I have a big age difference too. I'm worried they will deny him for this reason too. Keep me posted on what happens. Good luck and keep the faith.