Samuel and Marvic

The Christian walk is one of freedom and liberation from doctrine, rules, and rituals. Whether one religion teaches certain things, it is best for a person to discover and use discernment for themselves. Personally, I would not subscribe to anything the proposes to shackle and bind me to its one way of thinking. In any case, churches can even vary greatly even within one denomination. Research and make decisions you are comfortable with. Is it a sin? Doubt it. The only One with authority on defining sin is God. If anything, it may not be a sin, but the splintered Church into a multitude of denominations is probably more detrimental than anything. Anyway, be free in Christ. The only Shepherd, and the only One who's teachings sets one free of man's dogmatic unrest.

go start packing now woot woot.....welcome to the USA :dance:
have a safe trip
(wait a sec....don't forget to bring/pack your GUMMY BEARs lol )

Demanding people give you a straight answer, even in their own experience, wouldn't guarantee you'd have the same experience. Any answer you get in this thread will not be grounds for admission or excuse should the immigration officer you deal with decides to either be lax or strict that day and hold you accountable.
If you're that strapped for cash that you cannot afford a $30 extension, I'd hate to think what you're going to be able to do for an Affidavit of Support should you intend to marry whomever it is you're going to go see.

Demanding people give you a straight answer, even in their own experience, wouldn't guarantee you'd have the same experience. Any answer you get in this thread will not be grounds for admission or excuse should the immigration officer you deal with decides to either be lax or strict that day and hold you accountable.
If you're that strapped for cash that you cannot afford a $30 extension, I'd hate to think what you're going to be able to do for an Affidavit of Support should you intend to marry whomever it is you're going to go see.

Demanding people give you a straight answer, even in their own experience, wouldn't guarantee you'd have the same experience. Any answer you get in this thread will not be grounds for admission or excuse should the immigration officer you deal with decides to either be lax or strict that day and hold you accountable.
If you're that strapped for cash that you cannot afford a $30 extension, I'd hate to think what you're going to be able to do for an Affidavit of Support should you intend to marry whomever it is you're going to go see.

Demanding people give you a straight answer, even in their own experience, wouldn't guarantee you'd have the same experience. Any answer you get in this thread will not be grounds for admission or excuse should the immigration officer you deal with decides to either be lax or strict that day and hold you accountable.
If you're that strapped for cash that you cannot afford a $30 extension, I'd hate to think what you're going to be able to do for an Affidavit of Support should you intend to marry whomever it is you're going to go see.

Wait just a minute and I'll call NAIA to find out who's going to be on duty the night you arrive. He will know the RIGHT answer.

How is that rude? OP already said she left. Just giving advice so he can protect himself in case she attempts to claim abuse. Plus Im sorry but in my book going around skyping people and saying I love you when married is very wrong and unjustifiable. You marry someone then you make a choice to be faithful. Chatting I love you to an old flame is definitely acting on it. Sometimes emotional affairs are far more devastating than physical ones.

Although I believe the Kathryn is being PC with this subject and the OP, I dont believe that the issue lies within his poor English. I think the problem that were having, as the users of this site who make it what it is, full of knowledge and understanding, is that the OP has so many threads started with alot of different scenarios. So we, the users, have no clue what it is hes really looking for.
Yesterday was alot about being asked at an interview if hes had sex with his fiance.
Then it was posts about how they married in a church.
Then its about deportation.
And everything in between.
So please Kathryn, dont berate us, the users of this site, for calling a spade a spade. No one knows where in the process he really is, because he flips from fiance and K1 to already being married. When I first got here, I read, and read and read. Ive seen alot ( and I dont agree with this ) where a new user will ask a question and someone will link the guide lines. I do believe that we have a responsibility to the new people to aide them as much as we can, just like we once were, however, its very difficult for us to do it, when we dont know that situation and cant get a direct question without some random one coming up to threads later.
Most questions that we get from new users are in reference to forms, how to help with filling them out, these are the honest questions and they deserve honest answers. But to ask us, who dont know him, what he should say to a CO about having had sex with his finace, when we dont know if its a fiance or a wife, nor does it sound like theres a petition even sent . . . how are we supposed to answer that ? I call troll, alot of us have, and Kathryn, dont look at it like were the bad people who are belittling or not respecting the OP, look at like this guy isnt respecting our site by ( what I view as ) looking for ways to get into the USA and stay without fulfilling the K1 ... and this goes back to the ... if shes his wife, there is no K1 for him, and I would hope hes had sex with her .. like married loving couples do.