Ron and Rhea

I do not know Beth or Brandon, I assume this is Brandon? The only way people's opinions of you or your wife can do any damage is if you give them the power to affect you. If people love you, they will accept Beth, regardless if she is a Filipina, or has two heads, those that are opinionated will have their opinions be it now, or when they meet Beth in the future.
IOW, haters are going to hate, be it now or later.
So why worry what people think...it may just be my attitude, if you look at my pics, I obviously do not care what others think of me....if people are going to judge me so be it, their opinions have zero affect on me, I refuse to give anyone the power to control my feelings or thoughts.

I think your husband has issues, to put it mildly. Unless its not quite as you have explained it, or unless you mis-understood him, I'd say his behavior is a precursor to future problems.
No self respecting man would think that, and in fact he should be 'proud as a peacock' over you.
Was your husband Military?

Gotcha Brian...I will be the first to admit that I am attracted to Asian women, Filipina's to be exact, lol.

Thank you sir...

Modern tattoo ink, some colors do contain oxides and such, however it doesn't enter ones bloodstream, lol...it goes into the dermis layer of the skin...oh and I would not worry about setting off metal detectors at airports, I work for a commercial airline and fly all the time, and you can see I have many tattoo's and not only have I not heard of this worry before today, I've not had any alarms going off....ahahha, too funny what people think

Germany kicks butt in this area....the home users can sell back the energy they do not use to the gov as well. Another point is there is a plant here in the US that makes these solar panels for Germany and we export them over there...they were running out of panels last year and couldn't build enough. Question is, why not use them, you know, HERE...?

logan dude, you're wound too tight, take a deep breath, it will be ok...all I was saying is I hope their are not a lot of dudes into little teenybopper girls, I am sure there are, just as there are guys who are into animals, or other dudes, (a few of them, I suspect, are on here, ahhah).....bfd.
To be honest I only read a line or two of your entire post, I really am not interested in your thoughts.....

You're too funny....I've noticed these guys hate to jack with you because you just agree with them...you know the secret, it takes two to argue, just agree and laugh, they can't come back at that......laugh all the way with your 20something yr old gal on your arm ahhaha.

logan dude, you're wound too tight, take a deep breath, it will be ok...all I was saying is I hope their are not a lot of dudes into little teenybopper girls, I am sure there are, just as there are guys who are into animals, or other dudes, (a few of them, I suspect, are on here, ahhah).....bfd.
To be honest I only read a line or two of your entire post, I really am not interested in your thoughts.....

I'm so glad you guys all chimed in.....Hank, 'I'm in love', SouthCal.....HAIL YEAAAAA, I have a habit of telling people who don't like what I am doing, I look them in the eye and say they can suck it. I have a very big mouth....hahaha

Oh and BTW, Dr Crashed, my BP is normal, my weight is great, hardly any belly fat, Test level is normal and I train at gym daily, I am trim and fit and feel great.....as you do not know me the azz ref was me joking and trying to make a point to another poster. I find dudes repulsive and repugnant and the last thing I'd do in the gym locker room is check out a dude, haha.
Your sarcastic post about how to make a PM is BS and I don't appreciate you trying to insult my intelligence...if the thread is going off topic a moderator can tell me so, don't need to hear it from some random poster.....
...AMF.

Crashed, my post was tongue-in-cheek for the most part, especially the gym comment, come on dude, lol. The levitra ref was me trying to make a point, I do have some stashed....my test level is in the normal range, thanks for your concern however.
As far as me going off topic in this thread, I understand how to send a PM, much like you could've sent me a PM suggesting that I send PM's as I am off topic....btw, if you're implying the throttle ref was something other than a motorcycle ref then you are wacked, (I say this because of your 'intimate' comment, which was odd)....

Hey Peter_Pan, your thoughts are offensive to me as I am older than my fiance, I am 51 and she's 27....I do not have a saggy butt, however I do take care of myself and train at a gym. I've seen many guys quite a bit older than me walking around in the shower and their buttocks are sublime, haha...I've also seen big fat #### younger guys, who's asses look like 50lbs of chewed bubblegum, so what?
I am not beyond some assistance from Dr. Levitra, however, again, I know plenty of guys half my age who also partake when they feel the need.
I think the point is your opinion is just that, your opinion, it means jack to me....Rlogan gave you some logic you could not come back at....I can feel a bit of jealousy in your posts, why hate, let people live their lives and mind your own 'bidnezz'.....

My fiance is a lot younger than me, better educated than me...she has a 4 year degree, vs 2 for me, and she is exploring med school when she arrives here. She is also a RN, very beautiful and is not desperate for me or any man. She and I have many common interests and both enjoy life to the fullest, our age diff is just numerical.
That said, I take offense to Enigma's post and find it insulting....I will say that I have found, in most instances, people with such a narrow minded opinion are usually older women, or old guys who can't get a younger woman, or are with an older woman and are a bit jealous...but thats my 2cents.
IMO, live and let live, everyone else can bite me.

Hey Peter_Pan, your thoughts are offensive to me as I am older than my fiance, I am 51 and she's 27....I do not have a saggy butt, however I do take care of myself and train at a gym. I've seen many guys quite a bit older than me walking around in the shower and their buttocks are sublime, haha...I've also seen big fat #### younger guys, who's asses look like 50lbs of chewed bubblegum, so what?
I am not beyond some assistance from Dr. Levitra, however, again, I know plenty of guys half my age who also partake when they feel the need.
I think the point is your opinion is just that, your opinion, it means jack to me....Rlogan gave you some logic you could not come back at....I can feel a bit of jealousy in your posts, why hate, let people live their lives and mind your own 'bidnezz'.....

Hey Peter_Pan, your thoughts are offensive to me as I am older than my fiance, I am 51 and she's 27....I do not have a saggy butt, however I do take care of myself and train at a gym. I've seen many guys quite a bit older than me walking around in the shower and their buttocks are sublime, haha...I've also seen big fat #### younger guys, who's asses look like 50lbs of chewed bubblegum, so what?
I am not beyond some assistance from Dr. Levitra, however, again, I know plenty of guys half my age who also partake when they feel the need.
I think the point is your opinion is just that, your opinion, it means jack to me....Rlogan gave you some logic you could not come back at....I can feel a bit of jealousy in your posts, why hate, let people live their lives and mind your own 'bidnezz'.....

I suspect that some who question a "large" age gap (what ever that really is) have subliminal "buyers remorse".

My fiance is a lot younger than me, better educated than me...she has a 4 year degree, vs 2 for me, and she is exploring med school when she arrives here. She is also a RN, very beautiful and is not desperate for me or any man. She and I have many common interests and both enjoy life to the fullest, our age diff is just numerical.
That said, I take offense to Enigma's post and find it insulting....I will say that I have found, in most instances, people with such a narrow minded opinion are usually older women, or old guys who can't get a younger woman, or are with an older woman and are a bit jealous...but thats my 2cents.
IMO, live and let live, everyone else can bite me.

Witchya sista...!!!
:thumbs:

My fiance is a lot younger than me, better educated than me...she has a 4 year degree, vs 2 for me, and she is exploring med school when she arrives here. She is also a RN, very beautiful and is not desperate for me or any man. She and I have many common interests and both enjoy life to the fullest, our age diff is just numerical.
That said, I take offense to Enigma's post and find it insulting....I will say that I have found, in most instances, people with such a narrow minded opinion are usually older women, or old guys who can't get a younger woman, or are with an older woman and are a bit jealous...but thats my 2cents.
IMO, live and let live, everyone else can bite me.

You BELIEVE 40% of these marriages last any length of time, well the percent of marriages that fail, in general, in the US is greater than 50% and thats a fact, so your 40% belief isn't a stretch. You're not stretching your neck out much at all, lol.
My first marriage was for 31 years, to a Filipina, we met and married over there and we didn't know each other very well at all, in reality. I feel its not so much if the marriage is between two people of different races, or the same...all couples have problems, be it language, cultural, money, etc, etc, etc X 4 million other problems. Its about how you deal with those problems, that will make or break your marriage.
And how one deals with those problems is important because if they get a divorce without dealing with the problems in an adult manner, they will carry that same personality trait into their next marriage, and the cycle will repeat itself.
But I digress, this process is good enough, IMO...any two yahoo's here in America can get married without jumping through hardly any hoops. Just because they are Americans certainly doesn't mean their marriage will last longer, or fail quicker, than any other type of marriage.
The only thing that I would give you in your post is the 90 days....if it were longer, that would not hurt anything, I believe.

Excellent retort guys...backed with actual STATS, not with the posters, "I will stick my neck and and say I BELIEVE the divorce rates...blah, blah)....I was a case in point, with all odds against the marriage, (culture, both of us teens, and so forth)....and I am glad to learn FACTS, that our types of marriages actually last longer than the averages.
I would say the original poster was a troll, but I assume he actually went through the process so maybe he's not.

Excellent retort guys...backed with actual STATS, not with the posters, "I will stick my neck and and say I BELIEVE the divorce rates...blah, blah)....I was a case in point, with all odds against the marriage, (culture, both of us teens, and so forth)....and I am glad to learn FACTS, that our types of marriages actually last longer than the averages.
I would say the original poster was a troll, but I assume he actually went through the process so maybe he's not.

Excellent retort guys...backed with actual STATS, not with the posters, "I will stick my neck and and say I BELIEVE the divorce rates...blah, blah)....I was a case in point, with all odds against the marriage, (culture, both of us teens, and so forth)....and I am glad to learn FACTS, that our types of marriages actually last longer than the averages.
I would say the original poster was a troll, but I assume he actually went through the process so maybe he's not.

Actually just read entire thread, (yes I posted that previous one without reading whole thing)...he sounds like a douche bag to me. If you are married, do you have your green card? To me, if someone is abusive, mentally or physically, its their personality, and they will never change. It will prolly get worse.
As I said before, you are responsible for yourself. Him threatening to send you home is a control thing, as you know....he has no control over you, f-him. Take care of yourself.