Ron and Rhea

Ya... AMF... didn't they make Harleys at one time! Right next to the bowling ball assembly line!!! :rofl:

Sorry the devil made me say it!!

Now for one more emoticon...

You read my mind, my 81 Shovel is a AMF, and bowling balls and all sorts of other cool things, hahah

Teapot....well you guys are unique then, that's a good thing...!!

Why_me....I hear you brother, hahah

Who was that poster that referenced that approx 25% of marriages are of a rather large age gap...I googled and could not find it, don't get me wrong, I can dig it, but I'd like to see it printed.

Ok back to the adults...where were we, haha.

Yea, well AMF can mean a lot of things, just like where you can insert that rose, hahaha

BTW, overuse of emoticons...sorta teenager and you CLEARLY are not a teen, judging by your pics, NICE.

Oh and BTW, Dr Crashed, my BP is normal, my weight is great, hardly any belly fat, Test level is normal and I train at gym daily, I am trim and fit and feel great.....as you do not know me the azz ref was me joking and trying to make a point to another poster. I find dudes repulsive and repugnant and the last thing I'd do in the gym locker room is check out a dude, haha.

Your sarcastic post about how to make a PM is BS and I don't appreciate you trying to insult my intelligence...if the thread is going off topic a moderator can tell me so, don't need to hear it from some random poster.....

...AMF.

Crashed, my post was tongue-in-cheek for the most part, especially the gym comment, come on dude, lol. The levitra ref was me trying to make a point, I do have some stashed....my test level is in the normal range, thanks for your concern however.

As far as me going off topic in this thread, I understand how to send a PM, much like you could've sent me a PM suggesting that I send PM's as I am off topic....btw, if you're implying the throttle ref was something other than a motorcycle ref then you are wacked, (I say this because of your 'intimate' comment, which was odd)....

You shot way low for me, even the 15 year spread you gave yourself didn't put in the fix. Now if you had done a 20 year spead you would have squeaked by. And you were a mite low with Amy as well, but that isn't unusual.

Oh and if we are blabbing about age gaps..... 28 years here.

I had a CB400F and for a small bike that thing would fly, heck even back then it was a 10,000 rpm motor. I am way past those crazy need for speed days...... welllllll maybe...

Wow, well better I was low than high ehh? hahha. I know the 400, nice bike and 10k is some high revs for sure. It is nice to be able to crank on the throttle and blast when you want to, at whatever speed that fits for the moment.

Darren, nice post.....

Hank, I would say, from your profile pic, that you are 43 in that pic and Amy is 28 and I know I am exactly right, or within 15 years on either end of my guesstimate, hahaha

Let me say this, my first marriage, as I've said, a Filipina...we were like 4 years difference, so essentially the same age. When I would see a older guy with a younger gal I would think, 'hmm, good for them'...unlike a few posters on here, I never thought that they would not last, or that they looked odd or whatever. Live and let live...hail yea boi.

Hank, btw, saw your post on my CBX, yea man, its a nice bike. I've not rode it lately, very busy with life, but she is my other 'baby'....after my fiance, of course, lol

oh jesus christ! i'll be in Cleveland and this is one of my fears. I know that there's not much Filipinos in the area but lemme see..Can you possibly subscribe to TFC The Filipino Channel? if none yet, have her go to http://www.flipbooth...urtesy-of-GMA7. That's a you tube of Filipino shows.

If you have a dog, have her walk it so she can meet some peeps in the dog park. Make her do the shopping alone and just pick her up when she's done, teach her how to drive (if she doesn"t know yet)and ride in public transportation and go by herself in mall while you are working so she will be familiar with American products and maybe find filipino ones specially food.

also find randy stokes in facebook and ask him to add you in asawa world. that's a forum of fil-am couples. read vj too.

Are you sure there are not lots of Pinoy's in Cleveland? Here in Maryland, on the surface it may appear there are not a lot of Filipino's here but there are TONS of you guys here...granted, I was married to a Filpina for 30 years, so I know many many because of that, however once you network and meet one or two local Pinoy's and the big thing is going to Filipino party's....BINGO, you're in.

You know how Filipino party's are, they have them for this, that and the other thing, hahah...always having birthday party's for the kids, and its also a social Filipiono get together, sharing food, friends, and good times.

This is a great topic (thanks OP)... and one of the best threads going on this site in a long time! Some real personalities have come out in this thread - lol.

For us.... yeah we've got a bit of a gap age-wise between us. But we've known each other 4 years before marrying... spent tons of time together in the PI and even a few months in the U.S. We've met each other's parents & other relatives, & friends and that all went down well. We both dig traveling, scuba, Captain & Cokes & balut. And we can't seem to get enough of each other But there's a lot of big differences between us too!

One of us is rich, the other is (uh... I mean, was) not ..... one of us is HOT , the other is NOT .... one of us is spontaneous, the other is ####### .... one of us smokes, the other a total health nut. One of us is an MBA, the other went to work straight out of high school.... One of us is really young, the other is really, well... not young (chronologically speaking).

So.... is it LOVE?... or MONEY? Do we stand a chance?!

CLick on our wedding pics link (below) & see if you can guess our age difference (some of you guys know us so... hush!).

Farsider.....excellent post, and your examples are similar to ours...we are the same in lots of things, different in others, we all are attracted to each other for various reasons, as the old saying goes, 'opposites attract'..being different in some things keeps it interesting, IMO.....there is something magical about love, on how or why we fall in love....it happens, and age, culture, race, distance from each other, can all be overcome by love.

I am very in tuned to feelings and vibes, and I know if someone loves me or not, there is no way that my girl and I do not feel the same towards each other, its real and that's all there is to it.

BTW Farsider, nice ride, can't tell if its a Dyna or Softail because of the bags...Supgerglide? ....Hank...no prob man, hahah.

Here is my 98 FXSTC......painted by me, ahha, can you tell.

I don't know the averqe but I am 75 and filed for a K3 in July. My spouse was turned down for K1,,,,,i don't know why. My wife to be will turn 31 this December 30th. Never been married and no children. Why she loves me is primrily a cultural thing rather than a gold-digger one. I was married to my first wife for 50 years before she had a heart attack so I am not in it for the sexual aspect or a marriage. Age is golden in the Philippines.

Paul, what I really want to know is do you have a saggy butt? hahah, j/k, it was a reference to some other poster on here that mentioned guys and their ages and their azzez.....

Good for you brother, I hope you two are together soon. You guys tried a K1 but couldn't do it, so are doing a K3 now?

Hank, nice ride...I do like the Venture too. I have a 98 FXSTC, the one I ride most often, and a old 81 Lowrider with some issues. My baby is a 79 Honda CBX, (air cooled inline 6 cyl)....I've had her since 81, bought it from another Marine.

Hey Peter_Pan, your thoughts are offensive to me as I am older than my fiance, I am 51 and she's 27....I do not have a saggy butt, however I do take care of myself and train at a gym. I've seen many guys quite a bit older than me walking around in the shower and their buttocks are sublime, haha...I've also seen big fat #### younger guys, who's asses look like 50lbs of chewed bubblegum, so what?

I am not beyond some assistance from Dr. Levitra, however, again, I know plenty of guys half my age who also partake when they feel the need.

I think the point is your opinion is just that, your opinion, it means jack to me....Rlogan gave you some logic you could not come back at....I can feel a bit of jealousy in your posts, why hate, let people live their lives and mind your own 'bidnezz'.....

Hey Ron thanks! Im not here to get into argument with anyone. Im just here to give support and give insight when i can. I just dropped it! I dont want to get kick off here by my saying something I might regret later so its best to be quiet and not continue that. yea im here here in Southern Cali and love it. I also know El-Toro well! if you and your Wife ever here in Southern cali look me up, i always have a Spare bedroom! Thanks for your comments!!!

I'm with you....I will keep in mind on your offer about a place to stay, good karma to you and thanks..!!! Salamat

SouthCalHog...DUH, just now realized what you were saying...BROTHER, hahah. My bad....BTW, I was stationed in SoCal back in the day, MCAS EL Toro....a kick #### station, I loved it there. I didn't have a bike then, but have a few now.

BTW, IMO, writing in bold means nothing other than its your style....upper case and bold are two different animals.

Is it must me or does Kang Kang mean the same as what I think it means...? Maybe spelled differently, hehehe.

yet statistics show that older men tend to live longer married to younger wives.... hmmm

....someone was served, ahhaha.

But going back to my first post, I am not desperate to be in the US. It just so happen that a guy someone from there who's 29yrs older than I am fell in love with me that I loved back. We are going to live here in PI if I won't like in OH. I can make a career on my own wherever I am whoever I am with- even alone. I just know it.

Excellent post...!!

I don't have body art but I think I share your attitude...

And yup Forrest did get it right - life is like a box of chocolates...

I married a woman 9 days younger than me, was soooooooooooo unhappy until we got divorced, then met my past wife on match.com had a great marriage until cancer showed up... went back to match.com when I finally could breath again and ready to smile only found frustration and was ready to totally quit the dating scene and just fire up the bike. A good friend of mine pointed me toward the Phils and as the say goes... the rest is history. Yup she is much younger, for sure much better looking than me also . Why younger, it just happened and trust me I was not expecting to find such a wonderful woman... I am all smiles now.

Hank, you're a wise man, I can tell. I took didn't come on FilipinaHearts looking for a younger woman, not sure if I even put a age bracket on the search....I will say that Diana was the first woman I met on there where I wanted join and become a full member so I could get her email and we could communicate...and never looked back or went back, its been almost 2 years since we met. So it just happened as it did with you guys.

BTW, what kind of bike(s) do you have?

Brother........... thats my Fiancees pic........ :rofl:

What pic sister?

I Agree with "Ron and Diana", I find that comment rather offensive myself. i dont know what you base your opinion 'on", whether you know some individuals in that age disparity or if it is your own opinion based on whatever. Unless you KNOW a 50 year old and a 20 year old personally, that relationship went South, I would withhold judgement on others, Especially those I know nothing about!! :thumbs:

Witchya sista...!!!

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I'm so glad you guys all chimed in.....Hank, 'I'm in love', SouthCal.....HAIL YEAAAAA, I have a habit of telling people who don't like what I am doing, I look them in the eye and say they can suck it. I have a very big mouth....hahaha

Hey Hank...I was going to say that my fiance, Diana, is a lot better looking than me too.....I mean come on, I've heard the same junk because people are of different races, or different cultures, or religion as well....the list goes on. I've seen marriages last forever when people thought they had no chance, (different race, age, etc)...and I've seen them blow up in a matter of months when they were perfectly matched, (same race, age group, both good looking, both had most of their teeth, etc)....haha.

Point is, whats that say'n, 'life is like a box of chocolates'.....you just don't know....it's gonna happen has its mapped out to happen.

I've been judged my whole life, from dating a black chick in high school, to my previous marriage to a Filipina, (a very long marriage I might add), to my body art....I could care less what people think about me, I do what I want and whats best for me.

Off of my soapbox, and outside to enjoy the day, love, peace and chicken grease.